Viyah

😉sariyan nu meri pyaar bhari sat sri akal (lolz i always hear that on the radio)

hope all is gud..i wanna know ur comments on arranged versus love marriages in our culture..plus i wanna know would u go bac to punjab and get married there cuz i know many ppl do that😉

lve comments..ill add mine soon😊

OMGGG karen as soon as i seen the topic i was like OMG karen da viah hon lagga 😆 😆 😆 then i was like 😡 menu invite nehi kita 😆


acha what i think is....

Love marriages for some after they get married seem to have more difficulties than arranged, i mean when they was in love yea they used to remind themselves about what love is and after their viah they normally live differently than they used to... soo things change a lot.

With arranged marriages i find works longer for some becuase they build up on a relationship then after time they start to love each other.... more deeply and this is why i think arranged works a lot better.....

but love only works for them special people..... 😛

Even though I live in the US....I know I'll get married back in India. Infact my dads already telling me that he looking for someone for me in india.

My view.......I think arranged marriages are ok...as long as both the guy and girl agree...and are not under any influence of anything....love marriages are ok also......I prefer either way...as long as I'm happy and my family is happy 😉

Originally posted by: ~sukhi~

OMGGG karen as soon as i seen the topic i was like OMG karen da viah hon lagga 😆 😆 😆 then i was like 😡 menu invite nehi kita 😆


acha what i think is....

Love marriages for some after they get married seem to have more difficulties than arranged, i mean when they was in love yea they used to remind themselves about what love is and after their viah they normally live differently than they used to... soo things change a lot.

With arranged marriages i find works longer for some becuase they build up on a relationship then after time they start to love each other.... more deeply and this is why i think arranged works a lot better.....

but love only works for them special people..... 😛

I agree with u 100%.....arranged marriages last longer then love marriages.....and love marriages are only for special people😳

Originally posted by: ~sukhi~

OMGGG karen as soon as i seen the topic i was like OMG karen da viah hon lagga 😆 😆 😆 then i was like 😡 menu invite nehi kita 😆


acha what i think is....

Love marriages for some after they get married seem to have more difficulties than arranged, i mean when they was in love yea they used to remind themselves about what love is and after their viah they normally live differently than they used to... soo things change a lot.

With arranged marriages i find works longer for some becuase they build up on a relationship then after time they start to love each other.... more deeply and this is why i think arranged works a lot better.....

but love only works for them special people..... 😛

omg hahaha..im only 18..got a couple of years of freedom left still sukhi dun worry i wont forget to invite u😆...u can come with my cuzins they live in the uk..😆..i agree though arranged marriages work well but only if the final descision is left on the couple..also i think that both should be pretty equal in education n stuff or problems arise..ya love does only work for them special people..😳

Originally posted by: Mad4Madhuri

Even though I live in the US....I know I'll get married back in India. Infact my dads already telling me that he looking for someone for me in india.

My view.......I think arranged marriages are ok...as long as both the guy and girl agree...and are not under any influence of anything....love marriages are ok also......I prefer either way...as long as I'm happy and my family is happy 😉

aww how sweet...but personally i would not want to marry in india..cuz most guyz just get married to come here and then ditch u..happened to a couple of people i know..i would want to get married to a guy frm canada cuz then he would have been grown up in the same environment and stuff..plus he already will be settled with a job n eductaion n stuff..so no worries😉

Originally posted by: Mad4Madhuri

Even though I live in the US....I know I'll get married back in India. Infact my dads already telling me that he looking for someone for me in india.

My view.......I think arranged marriages are ok...as long as both the guy and girl agree...and are not under any influence of anything....love marriages are ok also......I prefer either way...as long as I'm happy and my family is happy 😉

I dont know the way desi parents say... that ur gonna get married in india... i mean if u wanted to then fair play becuase its ur life... ur parents are there for ur support not to control na...

but i agree with u as well 😛 dw re u will get the best person for u no matter way 😳

Originally posted by: *lucky_karen*

aww how sweet...but personally i would not want to marry in india..cuz most guyz just get married to come here and then ditch u..happened to a couple of people i know..i would want to get married to a guy frm canada cuz then he would have been grown up in the same environment and stuff..plus he already will be settled with a job n eductaion n stuff..so no worries😉

I agree many guyz just get married to come here.....and besides that... they are all umli😆....almost every guy there does drugs and all!......It would be awesome if i could get married to someone from the uk, usa, or canada😛.......but I still have a couple years left in college.....we'll see what happens😛

Originally posted by: ~sukhi~

I dont know the way desi parents say... that ur gonna get married in india... i mean if u wanted to then fair play becuase its ur life... ur parents are there for ur support not to control na...

but i agree with u as well 😛 dw re u will get the best person for u no matter way 😳

I know desi parents are so strict!.😡.....especially punjabi parents!!

Originally posted by: Mad4Madhuri

I agree many guyz just get married to come here.....and besides that... they are all umli😆....almost every guy there does drugs and all!......It would be awesome if i could get married to someone from the uk, usa, or canada😛.......but I still have a couple years left in college.....we'll see what happens😛

lolz i agree soo many umli guyz...😆..god all the guyz on the forum are gonna kill us😆...that would be sweet eh...hope for the best😉