Viyah - Page 10

Originally posted by: Mad4Madhuri

lol...not a nice thing to say about ur pabhi.😆

lol the old phabhiz ma phabhi shes some idiot man she goes shes gonna hit me with a belna at the gurdwara 😆😆😆 fir ma mum shut her up lol....

Originally posted by: ~*manai*~

rly i would bk out b4 its too late!!!

OMG that would suck bad...i mean im upfront type yea if i aint happy i would speak i mean... after all ur gonna be with the person for ur whole life an if u dont like it... then why marry just for parents sake i mean yes i respect ma parents but this desission should be mine really with parents help...

@sukhi yeah your right but for a girl its hard to say no

Originally posted by: ~sukhi~

OMG that would suck bad...i mean im upfront type yea if i aint happy i would speak i mean... after all ur gonna be with the person for ur whole life an if u dont like it... then why marry just for parents sake i mean yes i respect ma parents but this desission should be mine really with parents help...

Yeah it does suck........I still have a couple yr of college...maybe I'll get the courage to talk to my parents......besides the guy is def a druggy....well thats what my cousin thinks atleast......I should just have him(my cousin) talk for me....it would make my life so much easier!

Originally posted by: ~*manai*~

@sukhi yeah your right but for a girl its hard to say no

So true.....its so hard for a girl to say no.

Originally posted by: ~sukhi~

acha what i think is....

Love marriages for some after they get married seem to have more difficulties than arranged, i mean when they was in love yea they used to remind themselves about what love is and after their viah they normally live differently than they used to... soo things change a lot.

With arranged marriages i find works longer for some becuase they build up on a relationship then after time they start to love each other.... more deeply and this is why i think arranged works a lot better.....

but love only works for them special people..... 😛

i agree wid u...... arranged marriages works better than love marriages

Originally posted by: Mad4Madhuri

So true.....its so hard for a girl to say no.

it might be hard... but then agen ur gonna be living somewhere else for ur whole life... i mean why cant they say no... i mean ok their parents want them married but how long will the marriage last..... i mean i believe that a person should only get married once.. n thats that too someone right but not a comprimise

Originally posted by: ~sukhi~

it might be hard... but then agen ur gonna be living somewhere else for ur whole life... i mean why cant they say no... i mean ok their parents want them married but how long will the marriage last..... i mean i believe that a person should only get married once.. n thats that too someone right but not a comprimise

i c ur point but still....its a little bit different for a girl.....guys don't understand that.

MAIN VYAH TO PELAN INDIA VICH RENDI SI,,SADI ARRANGE MARRIAGE HOI SI,MERE HUSBAND CANADA TOH AAYE SI TE HUN SADE VYHAH NU 10 SAAL HO GAYE WE ARE STILL VERY HAPPY. 😃

Originally posted by: ~sukhi~

it might be hard... but then agen ur gonna be living somewhere else for ur whole life... i mean why cant they say no... i mean ok their parents want them married but how long will the marriage last..... i mean i believe that a person should only get married once.. n thats that too someone right but not a comprimise

yes that is tru but for a girl to say no that might bring up fight and hatred between families so yeah it is hard!