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Posted: 12 years ago
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Guys, just because Paridhi isn't mahaan doesn't mean that she's a horrible person. She has a very nice heart... I don't know why everyone here is acting like she's a villain or something. She's completely realistic and a very practical person. I agree that she does become selfish sometimes, but she just stands up for what she feels are her rights...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

Nikki not everyone is like you. I'm sure Paridhi is not. Think about it from her point of view, she's grown so attached with her child in this last week or two. She probably planned his future, she really loved Aayu! She didn't know that Aayu was Aarti's child otherwise she wouldn't get so attached. So I wouldn't say Paridhi was wrong, because she felt like Aayu was her own child, and like you said, it would be hard for a mother to be able to part from their kid.

About Aarti, she felt like Paridhi had rights on Aayu. She didn't completely give Aayu up, because she's living in the same house as her child. She's very, very relieved. On top of that, she probably realizes that if it weren't for Paridhi, the child might be in another home, and she would never be able to lay eyes on her kid again... so in a way, she might feel like she's in debt to Pari. I don't like mahaanta in tv serials either, and I do think she should have discussed it with Yash first, but from her POV it isn't wrong either. It's in her character to be like this. More than anything right now, I bet she's glad that her Aayu is right in front of her eyes. Plus, she can always conceive again while Pari can't, if you look at it from a practical point of view. I don't think Pari would be able to adopt again so soon either.

Yes, Aarti is attached to Aayu because she's his biological mother, but Pari has become his mother too in the last week or so. She cares for Aayu (I would say) just as much as Aarti does.

I'll stop rambling now. This is just my point of view.

Saffi Paridhi spent what just a few weeks with Aayu. Whereas Aarti went through so much in those 7-8 months to save Aayu's life and bring him into this world. What about those feelings of Aarti. Just because they are in the same house, then why can't Paridhi say that " Bhabhi you've been already through so much for this baby, I can't take him away from you legally also"
And I know not everyone is like me and I'm also not like everyone all mahan and all. Sorry but that's how I'm.
I can't even imagine separating a baby from his mother, wether we live in the same house or not.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: anonee

Well the same applied to Prashant too.
AarYa could have a child not Prashant. Then why did they not let him keep Ansh?


They didn't gave ansh to prashant because they knew he will not be able to look after ansh or even love her . A person who left his pregnant wife for some other women 😡 Do you really think a person like him is trust worthy 😕? Especially with the same child to whom he called a bast**D once ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

Nikki not everyone is like you. I'm sure Paridhi is not. Think about it from her point of view, she's grown so attached with her child in this last week or two. She probably planned his future, she really loved Aayu! She didn't know that Aayu was Aarti's child otherwise she wouldn't get so attached. So I wouldn't say Paridhi was wrong, because she felt like Aayu was her own child, and like you said, it would be hard for a mother to be able to part from their kid.

About Aarti, she felt like Paridhi had rights on Aayu. She didn't completely give Aayu up, because she's living in the same house as her child. She's very, very relieved. On top of that, she probably realizes that if it weren't for Paridhi, the child might be in another home, and she would never be able to lay eyes on her kid again... so in a way, she might feel like she's in debt to Pari. I don't like mahaanta in tv serials either, and I do think she should have discussed it with Yash first, but from her POV it isn't wrong either. It's in her character to be like this. More than anything right now, I bet she's glad that her Aayu is right in front of her eyes. Plus, she can always conceive again while Pari can't, if you look at it from a practical point of view. I don't think Pari would be able to adopt again so soon either.

Yes, Aarti is attached to Aayu because she's his biological mother, but Pari has become his mother too in the last week or so. She cares for Aayu (I would say) just as much as Aarti does.

I'll stop rambling now. This is just my point of view.

I COMPLETELY agree!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

Saffi Paridhi spent what just a few weeks with Aayu. Whereas Aarti went through so much in those 7-8 months to save Aayu's life and bring him into this world. What about those feelings of Aarti. Just because they are in the same house, then why can't Paridhi say that " Bhabhi you've been already through so much for this baby, I can't take him away from you legally also"
And I know not everyone is like me and I'm also not like everyone all mahan and all. Sorry but that's how I'm.
I can't even imagine separating a baby from his mother, wether we live in the same house or not.



Nikki why would Paridhi say something like that? It would be so out of character for her! We've known her nature from the beginning, this is how she is! She fights for the things she loves! She loved her career, she went out of her way to get it. Now she's fallen for Aayu, and what she said to Prateek in the room were just her initial feelings. She came down to tell Aarti she was happy for her later, with no bad intentions, but it was Aarti who gave Pari Aayu.

Like you said, Aayu was inside Aarti for 7 months. So if Aarti feels like Pari would be a good mother for her child, then what's wrong with it? She wouldn't give Aayu to Pari if she felt like Aayu wouldn't be safe with her or wouldn't receive the love or care that Aayu needs.

Time does not equal love. Blood isn't thicker than water.

Aarti and Pari both love Aayu. Aarti has a strong emotional connection with him because he grew up inside her womb, but Paridhi did not know her child was Aayu. So in these two weeks, she brought him up like her own child, so yes, Paridhi does love him a lot.

Aayu is young right now, he can't make his own decisions, but I can confidently say that Paridhi wouldn't deprive Aayu of anything he needs.

I'll say it once again, this kind of act is in Aarti's nature.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36
I agree that paridhi should have given aayu to aarti. Makes no sense. Maybe they should have shown her getting pregnant using medical advancements.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37
Sorry Saffi and Carrie but our opinions differ and none of us will understand and agree with the other. So lets just leave it here, before it gets out of hand.

We can talk on this topic all night long and still we won't be able to convince the other.

I respect your POV and I'm not ashamed of my POV also. Everyone has their own perspective on certain things. And some times it becomes difficult to agree on others perspective. So the best thing to do is to drop the whole thing 😊

Love you both ❤️
Edited by lovely_nikki - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38
Okay I'm going to come at this from a been there live that perspective. I know that Aarti's character is giving and loving, but there are just somethings you don't give away. I'm not even going to say that Pari is a bad person, but she is thoughtless and immature.
I'm the child of the product of an in family adoption and I can tell you from experience that outside of the fact that my parent feels and has always felt like she was thrown away, on a very basic level she feels that she was cheated. Adopted children have a lot to overcome emotionally on a basic level but to throw in the fact that their parents chose to keep 3 other siblings and not them has to have some impact on their psyche.
It's great and wonderful to keep your family happy, but for as much as Aarti and Yash have done for P & P they can't give them their son back? Wow in that case maybe it would be better to be spawned.
Edited by gmhatcher - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39
To all those who commented against Prashant.
Prashant is Ansh father no matter what - that cannot be denied. Being with Ansh would have reformed him - we saw a glimpse of that in him.
So just as Prashant had his flaws - Pari has hers.
The court decided on Ansh's preference for a father
Similarly Aarti should think 'what does Aayu want?'
Trading Aayu without considering his opinion and needs was CRUEL
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Posted: 12 years ago
#40
Totally agree really didn't want them to go in sacrificing mode just shows Pari still hasn't learned anything yet. 😊 😊 😊

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