If they had to sacrifice, then what was this point

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lovely_nikki

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: .KillTheBitch.

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Avi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

I remember very well once my mom told me that no matter how many kids a parent has, they can never part away from a single kid. They love all their kids equally.
And when I got married, I once jokingly told my sister to let me adopt her baby, she can have another one. She was almost in tears and said no matter what, I can never part away from my child. That was the day I realized the importance of their child in every parents life.

Except apparently Aarti and Yash. I find the whole scenario that has been laid out a disservice to adopted children, adoptive parents, and any parent of a missing child. Basically what they said was 2 wrongs do indeed make a right. I have allowed for a lot of missteps from the CVs of this show but they have now made it official that there is no point in my getting involved in season 2 because just like Pari has learned nothing neither have they.

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Roza

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

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lovely_nikki

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: gmhatcher

Well said. The truth is that neither PARI will learn anything in the future nor CVs.
And we crazy fans are supposed to accept and enjoy whatever they want to show us in the end.

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anonee

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: .KillTheBitch.
Nikki, think of it from another perspective!

Aarya can always bring another child into this world, Paridhi can't!

Well the same applied to Prashant too.

AarYa could have a child not Prashant. Then why did they not let him keep Ansh?

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anonee

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Leevi05

we know prateek had united Aarya...he wanted aarti as bhabi...

it s okay for me if they give aayu to prateek..

How about asking Aayu if that's what he wants?

He is a human being for God's sake. He not a toy bought at chor bazaar.

Why not ask Ansh or PayPal to accept PraDi as their mumma or Papa?

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Pankhudi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

I respect your POV
And I know that in real life it happens. Even one of my distant Aunt had adopted a child of their relative. I was just a teenager at that time, but still it had affected me a lot. Maybe that's why I'm reacting this way.
I can't imagine that I'll be able to take a child from someone close to me. I'd rather adopt an orphan, who really needs a home, than to take child of one of my loved ones.

@bold: if you think like that dear i will say you are really sensitive/emotional person which is quality everyone does not posses but paridhi is not sensitive she is selfish so she immediately took the child 😡. And people say being mother is heavenly feeling for being a mother paridhi just ignored aarti's pain 😡. and about adopting a orphan in real world people like buaji (orthodox) are very much in number and they can't change their mentality by taking an orphan child in their arms. I wish women who can't conceive adopt child but they prefer to take their relatives child to whom they are connected by BLOOD !

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Saffi Sanam

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Nikki not everyone is like you. I'm sure Paridhi is not. Think about it from her point of view, she's grown so attached with her child in this last week or two. She probably planned his future, she really loved Aayu! She didn't know that Aayu was Aarti's child otherwise she wouldn't get so attached. So I wouldn't say Paridhi was wrong, because she felt like Aayu was her own child, and like you said, it would be hard for a mother to be able to part from their kid.

About Aarti, she felt like Paridhi had rights on Aayu. She didn't completely give Aayu up, because she's living in the same house as her child. She's very, very relieved. On top of that, she probably realizes that if it weren't for Paridhi, the child might be in another home, and she would never be able to lay eyes on her kid again... so in a way, she might feel like she's in debt to Pari. I don't like mahaanta in tv serials either, and I do think she should have discussed it with Yash first, but from her POV it isn't wrong either. It's in her character to be like this. More than anything right now, I bet she's glad that her Aayu is right in front of her eyes. Plus, she can always conceive again while Pari can't, if you look at it from a practical point of view. I don't think Pari would be able to adopt again so soon either.

Yes, Aarti is attached to Aayu because she's his biological mother, but Pari has become his mother too in the last week or so. She cares for Aayu (I would say) just as much as Aarti does.

I'll stop rambling now. This is just my point of view.

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lovely_nikki

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: anonee

Well the same applied to Prashant too.

AarYa could have a child not Prashant. Then why did they not let him keep Ansh?

Wow Meena wow what a valid point you've raised 👏

I completely agree with you. If they can sacrifice Aayu for Paridhi than why not give Ansh to Prashant who was Ansh's biological father. And I know that now everyone will say that Prashant was a devil and a mean person.

As if Paridhi is all so noble.

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Roza

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

Wow Meena wow what a valid point you've raised 👏

I completely agree with you. If they can sacrifice Aayu for Paridhi than why not give Ansh to Prashant who was Ansh's biological father. And I know that now everyone will say that Prashant was a devil and a mean person.
As if Paridhi is all so noble.

I think we all know that Prashant could not take care of a child even if he wanted to. I know you will say he will eventually learn but do you really and truly think Prashant would teach a child the right values, would he teach them lovingly or with punishments, Paridhi is not mahaan but at leat she has the qualities to take care of a child, THIS is the difference!

@BOLD- Biological or not doesn't matter, if you can treat a child with care, ou can very well be his/her parent!