If they had to sacrifice, then what was this point - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: .KillTheBitch.

Nikki, think of it from another perspective!


Aarya can always bring another child into this world, Paridhi can't!


i agree with you dear 100% it happens in many families and aarya can bring whole cricket team in this world 😆 but paridhi can't
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmhatcher

I was thinking of adopting but i can say with an amazing amount of thought that will never happen now. Maybe I'll just ask one of my brother's for one of their kids. (If you read this out loud it sounds stupid, if you see Aarti give her baby away it looks stupid).
Very poor call by the CVs.
Pari had Aayu for what (a week), Aarti carried him for 7 months, how can they compare those two things ? And for God's sake someone explain to me how you can legally adopt a kidnapped child. Does that mean if someone gives me a stolen car I don't have to give it back?

I remember very well once my mom told me that no matter how many kids a parent has, they can never part away from a single kid. They love all their kids equally.
And when I got married, I once jokingly told my sister to let me adopt her baby, she can have another one. She was almost in tears and said no matter what, I can never part away from my child. That was the day I realized the importance of their child in every parents life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

Carrie that's not the point here that AarYa can have another child and Paridhi can't have any.

The point is there are so many orphans in the world, so if Paridhi really wants to adopt than why not to adopt another baby, instead ,of keeping a child away from his real parents 😕


Because CVs wants to show how mahan our aarya is 😡 . Its good that they are mahan but i don't like sacrifice and all every time 🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

Carrie that's not the point here that AarYa can have another child and Paridhi can't have any.

The point is there are so many orphans in the world, so if Paridhi really wants to adopt than why not to adopt another baby, instead ,of keeping a child away from his real parents 😕

Nikki, can I ask you a question, how long did Aarya have their child and how long did Pari have Aayu for?

AND...what is the difference between biological and adopted?

After you answer these questions, I'll answer yours!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: .KillTheBitch.

Nikki, can I ask you a question, how long did Aarya have their child and how long did Pari have Aayu for?

AND...what is the difference between biological and adopted?

After you answer these questions, I'll answer yours!

Carrie you are what 13? When you have kids of your own and if someone asks you to sacrifice your kid for them, will you be able to do it? Maybe you can but I can't be that mahaan. Well that's my POV.
And I'm not ashamed of it.

That's all,I've to say 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovely_nikki

Carrie you are what 13? When you have kids of your own and if someone asks you to sacrifice your kid for them, will you be able to do it? Maybe you can but I can't be that mahaan. Well that's my POV.
And I'm not ashamed of it.

I understand your point Nikki...and there's no way I'm doing that in the future unless it's complicated...

But even if PraDhi had sacrificed Aayu to Aarya, they would still be close to him! It's the same in Aarya's case, they are just sharing the parenthood of their kid...!!

And that is my POV!😳

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nikki i am almost agree with you but i want to say its common it happens in many families they adopt kids of their relatives . Here also same thing happened . But i what i didn't liked here is that she didn't discussed it with yash she just took the decision and gave their child to paridhi's . She should have asked yash 1st but she didn't cared 😔.

You are right everybody can't give their child to other but again their are many people out there who give their child ( symbol of love as u said ) to their close relative . That doesn't mean they don't love the child , they give their child by making sure the child will be loved and looked after well.

Just my POV !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pankhudi11

Nikki i am almost agree with you but i want to say its common it happens in many families they adopt kids of their relatives . Here also same thing happened . But i what i didn't liked here is that she didn't discussed it with yash she just took the decision and gave their child to paridhi's . She should have asked yash 1st but she didn't cared 😔.


You are right everybody can't give their child to other but again their are many people out there who give their child ( symbol of love as u said ) to their close relative . That doesn't mean they don't love the child , they give their child by making sure the child will be loved and looked after well.

Just my POV !

I respect your POV
And I know that in real life it happens. Even one of my distant Aunt had adopted a child of their relative. I was just a teenager at that time, but still it had affected me a lot. Maybe that's why I'm reacting this way.
I can't imagine that I'll be able to take a child from someone close to me. I'd rather adopt an orphan, who really needs a home, than to take child of one of my loved ones.

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