I m now fine with SP-Radha Punarvivah - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have seen in my own family a widowed man's son and DIL coming for their dad's rishta ... why? Because they felt that since their lives are already settled with kids, they should get their dad a life partner that would be there to take care of and support him in such a time in his life.
Same reason I am totally fine with SP-Radha's PV. This isn't some teeny bopper lovestory or some 'I'm meant for you, you're mean't for me' type of story. The fact that AarYa talked it out with each other giving the valid points they did to each other is what made me even more convinced that it's ok to go ahead with this idea.
SP does look like a man who cannot function without a life partner by his side. He may look strong from the outside but that was because Gayatri was there all the way with him as his support system. Now that he doesn't have her by his side ... he needs someone and he knows Radha from before so who better to suggest for him than her? And also I think AarYa got this because they saw Radha taking interest in caring for SP's health.
Life is too short to sit and contemplate whether something should be done for the betterment of someone. There's no hurry in SP-Radha's PV .. there will surely be problems others will have with the idea because of the history they witnessed. But one fine day SP may suggest that he needs to get remarried because he needs someone by his side. So what's really so wrong in AarYa suggesting it ahead of time?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post Jyo !⭐️

There are certain things that I don't understand as to when Ishita got involved into family matters...doing request to Paridhi and Radha Ma and they obliging to her request...it looked quite odd...or are we suppose to understand that Aakash is not around and so she is freely moving taking advantage and family giving in to her clean image...another thing Jyo...for fun ...Arya discussing punar vivah of SP-Radha and Ishita overhearing from distance...think director should take care of these small details to convince us...

Regarding PV of SP-Ra...I am for it but not immediately though Ishita's plan may make it happen soon...wish it was done in a different way than 'evil' plan as 'evil' is always the hero of every serial...anyway lets see how they do it...another point Jyo.."Pankaj and Pratik will certainly think that both Radha and Yash-Aarti r sort of plotting against the whole family by getting Radha in SP's room at night so that SP is left with no option but to marry Radha"...

here I beg to differ...I don't think Pankaj-pratik and family will think that Radha -Yash-Arti are plotting...that will put them into dark...they may think of Radha but not Yash and Arti...Pankaj will definately object but Pratik believes that Yash-Arti will always do good for the family.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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may be aarya ka kam easiy ho jayega
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Posted: 12 years ago
#14
awesoome take jyo..
agree with arti's practical view about PV of SP-RADHA...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome take jyo yes i agree with your post thanks to the CVs for giving the valid reason for SP - Radha PV , but i think its too early they could delay it for a while , actually after seeing the spoiler pics radha in SP room i was very angry at her not even a single thought crossed my mind that ishita plan, even if SP agrees to get remarried towards radha , the children esp the two P's and their family would be against it, i dont have any idea about aakash but if ishi poisons his mind then he would be the first one to be against SP remarriage.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am not against the punar vivah but this is very early...even for a proposal of punar vivah. I would have preferred if they had waited at least for 6 months after Gayu's death before thinking of this...they could have had a leap of 6 months if they wanted to introduce this so fast, except that the pregnancy would not have worked then.


They could have shown the birth and then a leap of 6 months before putting this idea forward...or they could have had other tracks for a few months (PV time) and then shown this.


The fact that is so soon after Gayu's death and when Radha is the woman with whom SP had an affair after his marriage to Gayu makes it unpalatable to me! 😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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lovely post Jyo di👏
I agree with u. In my family I have seen how loneliness effects a person. Example is my maternal grandmother. Though her family was there and took care but still she was lonely and it affected her health. If her children had insisted her to get married again then it would have been better sighhh

So a big yes from me👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I've seen lots of Punar Vivah in my life and I'm not against it. But proper grieving time should be conducted I feel!


I knew that Rad would always love Cas even though she tried to put it very far far in the back of her mind.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Companionship is something everyone needs no matter at what age and that's what CVs are trying to show...so I have no issues about SP-Radha PV!
In a way, it is a loop closure for their relationship as Radha has been living a lonely life all this while and so she does deserve a second chance!
What will happen now is Cvs showing us how Radha has to win the hearts of the big children that she means well and does care for them!!!! So, in a way Radha is in the same situation as Aarti a year ago!!!
Cvs showing us young or old, the issue of PVs are nealy the same!!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jyo, i am in favour of SP-Radha's PV. Its not the characters but faces of many old people who have lost their partners n need some companion.

But I feel this is too early to think of SP's PV by AarYa. At least 5-6 months time should have elapsed in bet.

SP is still in shock n not come out the grief. This is a acute phase n he will feel lonely but some time should be given that he is trying to adjust with life, his lonelyness but unable to do. Gradually he finds a friend or companion in Radha who is staying in the same house n understanding or helping him to tackle his problems. Then AarYa taking a lead for their PV would be ideal.

At this stage, SP would refuse as Yash had done. Yash was shown an exceptional case who use to love his dead wife so much n was obsssessive for her. More realistic approach can be given to SP's case.

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