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Posted: 13 years ago
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CONSIDER HOW HARD IT IS FOR YOU TO CHANGE YOURSELF
AND YOU'LL UNDERSTAND WHAT LITTLE CHANCE YOU HAVE
IN TRYING TO CHANGE OTHERS

Suraj Pratap Scindia has been living by a set of rules that if you're not with him then you're against him. He doesn't take kindly to people defying his way of thinking so when they do, he tries to put them down by imposing ultimatums or trying to make them feel inferior.


He is all about his prestige and how things affect him never once does he consider his loved ones or other's emotions...When he made the mistake 30 yrs ago to get involve w/ Radha, he never thought about his wife and kid that were at home...The moment Radha let SP know that she was expecting, he started talking about his reputation and how her being pregnant will compromise him. SP's ego is the reason that Radha switched the babies (Yash & Aakash) at birth cause he never thought about what being pregnant and unmarried would do to Radha's reputation. But the saddest is that SP was rejecting his own flesh & blood, an innocent because of his ego.



Now that Aarti & Yash finally got Aakash into SM, Suraj Pratap gave them the task to get Aakash to change his ways and become a well mannered member of the Scindia parivaar in 7 days. SP's wife, Gayatri lets him know that she finds his condition to be unfair and she makes him understand that if they are in the situation that they are in today is because of his own doing so he shouldn't take it out on Aakash.


If it is hard so SP to mend his ways of thinking why does he assume that changing Aakash is the best way to go...IMO SP should start showing some sincere remorse for what he did and try to get to know his long-lost son before it's too late.



FORGIVENESS DOESN'T CHANGE THE PAST,
BUT IT DOES ENLARGE THE FUTURE

There's another person who is equally responsible for this whole mess that is affecting the Scindia family and that is Radha...Yash's biological mother. But unlike SP, she feels guilty and is doing everything in her power to set things right...She wants her two sons, Yash and Aakash to get what is rightfully theirs and for the both of them to be equally loved by their family members.


Radha didn't know where to begin to apologize to Yash for her past mistakes, the latter who had already forgiven his "badi maa" lets her know that he holds no grudges against her...And that he understands how hard it must have been for her to make that huge sacrifice of giving him up. Yash wants her to let go of the past and think about the future where all of them will be able to love and accept each other w/ their all virtues & flaws.



GROWTH IS NEVER BY MERE CHANCE,
IT IS THE RESULT OF WORKING TOGETHER
Yash Scindia never wanted to get remarried and neither did Aarti Dubey but after realizing that his daughters needed a mother & her son a father...they both gave their consent and did the Punar Vivaah.


The former used to be serious all the time but with time he changed thanks to his lovely wife, Aarti & their children.




Yash & Aarti have been through so many ups and downs and they've faced them together now they are stronger and more in love than before. One would say that falling in love with each other made every obstacles easier for them cause they draw their strength from their love...The depth of that very love goes beyond words and actions...It's a SOUL CONNECTION!!!

AS LONG AS WE TRUST, SUPPORT, RESPECT
AND LOVE EACH OTHER EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT

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yamunah79 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well written.. 👏 i agree with your each and every word
Sri_Radha thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Fantastic take👏 👏 👏 ..Well written👍🏼...It really testing times..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Zet: Fantastic picture take!!! As always you are spot on with your pointers.👏

Change is the only constant in this world...and if SP wants Aakas to change and mold as per the Scindia norms, then he himself has to change and mold himself as per a father whom Aakash needs so badly. SP needs to hear the underlying cry of help of this long-lost son and change his rigidity to softness.

Yash has learnt the lesson of forgiveness and to not be unreasonably rigid from Aarti. Remember how stuck-up he used to be regarding truth and lies? Remember that lesson Aarti taught the kids the morning after she disclosed her past to Yash? Yash had still not forgiven her, but he understood what she meant when she said that sticking to principles is one thing, but if by forgiving sour relations get back their sweetness, then one should forgive. SP too needs to soften toward Aakash...If he doesn't, then unknowingly he is giving rise to another rigidity...not his own, but Gayatri's. Gayatri is slowly changing her stance. And if she is not able to balance affections for both Yash and Aakash equally, then one can foresee many small storms brewing in the horizon. At the moment his dislike for Aakash is pitted against growing affections of Gayatri.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well written and Lovely take.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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beautifully written zetter. loved it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Zetter Thats a fab picture take 👏👏👏 ... I agree , SP should first look at himself in mirror and question whether he can ever change his egoist attitude or not before expecting Akash to change 😡... its easy to give advice and deadlines to others but first apply the same on yourself and u will know how difficult it is 😡😡

I love the positivity that AarYa has shown here since they both believe in changing present and future for better as thats the only way to forget the bad past 👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Amazing take Zetter👏👏
Those pics are perfect to express those words😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome take dear👏👏👏Loved it😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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WOW! Zetter, as always fab picture take dear 👏 👏 👏 ...this whole mess is only because of SP's prestige and ego. Only if he puts all that aside n show his lost son abit of interest and affection he will have a happy family.

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