Remarriage can be categorized into two aspects in Islam.
1. Marrying another person she should tell whether she is a divorcee, widow or unmarried what ever reasons may be that's all, if she feels some insecurities such as she doesn't wants her husband to have another woman besides her she could ask for a written statement in her Nikahnaama or the marriage registry there should be two witness to it on both the sides.if the bridegroom has given such statement i would not marry another woman he has to abide by it.If he has not given such statement he can marry another woman but he should inform his wife and should give the other woman too equal rights in all aspects if he brings a saree about 2000 for his second wife, he should give his first wife a saree with same price value, he cant do unjustice to her.
2.REmarrying her former husband again is not easy either, first he has to ask her hand before remarriage, produce two witnesses that they got married not as court marriage with their relatives on both the sides he has to provide her dowry that is mehr a husband giving amount of money or anything else according to his economical strength, even he can gift a Qur'an as his "Mehr" its not the money alone, even if he has given his bride a mountain of gold, after divorce he cant take it back or force her to give it back if his situation that he is going through in such an economical crisis he could ask the fifty percent of it , by lawful means of talk there should be a mediator between the two parties, or if the bride wishes to give some of the dowry she has got from her marriage she can help him no wrong in it, she cant give directly to him but through her father, brother, son, or her paternal or maternal uncles, because after divorce she has become a stranger to her former husband, the bride has the right to fix the dowry not the parents and if she is willing to give back no one has the right to stop it either, it is her own wish how she deals with it.After divorce her Probation period is 4 months and 10 days she has to spend in her husbands house like a stranger the reason is they may think of getting marrying again, the four months is that she gets her regular monthly periods, if she comes to know that she is pregnant after being divorced its the husband to take care of her providing food clothing and shelter until she delivers, if she feeds the infant he has to wait until the feeding period is over that is two years he cant force her to leave the home.And the husband cant divorce his wife when she is going through her menstruation cycle the divorce would be nullified.
3.The husband should not praise his former wife and the same applies to wife too, as it is clear that woman or man talking about their former life partners it would create a rift between them a jealousy both would get hurt emotionally and their remarriage could lead to a disaster.
That's it when i read your post i cant help my self about explaining it.
As for aarti she is totally in love with yash she is helping P only to make her parents happy she don't want to see them in pain.
Edited by lulujjjj - 12 years ago