The baby doesn't bring them together...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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While a sweet episode today, reading some of the comments I think it is time for a reality check as well:
(i) A baby doesn't bring two people together. Period. If a couple is loving and desiring a baby, a baby can be a blessing. If a couple isn't ready for a baby together, that baby will drive the couple apart. I have heard of many men cheating on their wives when they are pregnant or have a new baby. In this case, Yash and Arti aren't ready for a baby together, Yash isn't ready to accept her as his wife even (only as the mother of his children), so this baby can cause a lot of friction between the two when Yash finds out. IN THIS CASE, the baby can create a big problem.
(ii) I was impressed with the whole psychiatrist track and wish they would have pursued it. Yash has fixed beliefs about many things...that a person loves only once (this is such an outdated ridiculous idea from old hindi movies which is the only place it exists, it has never existed in real life), that by loving another woman he is cheating on Arpita etc. etc. He needs someone to sort out his thoughts with him and what makes sense and what doesn't. The big mistake here is that both Yash and Arti weren't emotionally ready for this marriage, especially Yash, so this is creating a lot of trouble.
(iii) Lets face it, Yash isn't a 'real' man, he is a fictitious idea. He is what women would love men to be (to some extent). He is a creation from a WOMAN'S MIND. Just like Edward from the Twilight series is also the creation of a WOMAN'S MIND, what we would hope a man could be like. But there is so much about Yash that isn't found in the vast majority of men. First of all, men don't do well without women in general. Case in point: women survive a lot longer after their spouse dies, but men die quite quickly if they don't find someone else. Men move on quite quickly. How many men do you know that pine for a woman? Not saying there aren't there, but the psyche of most men is to get out there and find someone else. While most women feel connected with their spouse when they are able to share their FEELINGS with them and talk, men feel most connected by SEX and physical contact. Yash doesn't seem to be acting like most men either in this way. Just saying...for all those women out there who think Yash is so dreamy, well, he is, because he is literally dreamy. Even the actual actor Gurmeet Choudhary thinks Yash is a bit of a wimp - Gurmeet believes in getting married again and moving forward with life and not living in the past like Yash does.
(iv) Acting is quite inconsistent in these last couple of episodes. First of all, as a former poster mentioned, Arti drank the least bhang of the three and yet Yash and Aman remember SO MUCH MORE than Arti. How does that make any sense? Also Arti is in a haze when telling Aman to leave but then she becomes so remarkably clear headed that she actually remembers that Yash doesn't like the rain. Don't those two seem completely lucid and normal while they are in the rain? They don't strike me being in a drug haze at all. So the acting is a bit hard to believe here.
(v) Also, lets say that Arti doesn't remember the night. But the next morning, wouldn't she be sore enough to know that something happened? All of this, just doesn't add up.
Just needed a reality check! Most people are so happy to see these two together like this but there is so much wrong and inconsistent about it as well. We all want to see these two together, but this is literally the worst way for them.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice post but there are possibilities for this baby to unite yash and aarthi.like when yash gets to know aarthi is pregnant.he will have no choice but bring aarthi home.even though he does not want to, the scindhiya family would not let him go easily. so when yash brings aarthi home we may have an understanding yash... plus when a person have a sudden shock he/she wont understand anything and will try to recollect the incidents happened one by one.this is the same case of aarthi. yash was all normal before the incident and suddenly asked her to leave for bhopal which results in aarthi thinking what has happened to yash and what is the reason for him to go to bhopal all of a sudden.i wrote this all from my understanding. in some cases u may be correct too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post...but i hope he new unborn baby will united AarYa together...

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