Are feminists biased against men? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ANNMT

ek aurat hi aurat ki dushman hoti hai pahley ye sirf suna tha aaj dekh bhi liya after this post ... hum ladko ko to faltu mai hi dosh detey hai log , ladkio ko character loose declare kar diya jata hai if unka affair samney aa jaaye 😛 upar se shaadi ke baad taunt jhelti hai puri life , ladkey '' boys will be boys '' bol ke nikal lete hain , ladka drink karey ok ok ladki kar ley to hye toubaa , girl fetas ko abort karatey hain boy ke time party detey hain issey jyada double standard aur kya hoga ...ye yaad kyu rhega TM ko obviously

Lines in bold.Totally agreed.BTW why r u blaming the TM???Why dont you consider urself for that position?I've seen many of ur posts regarding one actress who is a legal wife of someone.And u leave NO stone unturned to bash her and her char too.You urself deserve this line better than the TM.Now dont pretend here as a goody one.We PVians love both Yash n Aarti.This is just a twist in the show and it will be solved very soon.No need to preach and attack personally the TM.We are all discussing it in a very healthy manner.Hope now u got it.

Originally posted by: Rituparnaa

Lines in bold.Totally agreed.BTW why r u blaming the TM???Why dont you consider urself for that position?I've seen many of ur posts regarding one actress who is a legal wife of someone.And u leave NO stone unturned to bash her and her char too.You urself deserve this line better than the TM.Now dont pretend here as a goody one.We PVians love both Yash n Aarti.This is just a twist in the show and it will be solved very soon.No need to preach and attack personally the TM.We are all discussing it in a very healthy manner.Hope now u got it.

Originally posted by: pal_maan

Yeh TM kya hota hai???

TM means Topic Maker.

In context to the Indian society, this is because females are the inferior gender here. Females are that group of the gender system who have been facing abuse and violence from men since time immemorial. 99% of the times it is men who are more abusive and violent towards the females here which is why all the feminists believe that IF at all a woman is strong enough to counter back and behave equally abusively then this is achievement.And this is also why even small girls who beat boys are not said anything but if boys do the same they are suspended..like you said because this is how the Indian society is.

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

I was just curious about this...recently the whole forum (including me) has erupted with anger at Yash shoving Aarti against the door. This is the second time he has displayed violent behavior against his wife, and that too in front of everyone.

Would you guys have reacted the same had Aarti ever shoved Yash or behaved violently with him? Sometimes, it seems to me that aggressive women are far more accepted in our society than aggressive men. Even in schools, if a girl smacks a guy people applaud her for being strong, and even the teacher turns a blind eye to it, but if a guy shoves a girl even by accident, he is given a suspension from school. I have seen this happen sooo many times in my life, and I was left having a sour taste in my mouth because if there is one thing i absolutely HATE, it is double standards. Why are women allowed to be abusive to men and applauded for it, whereas men are hated for being abusive to women?

Can anyone please explain this to me? And also leave your opinion on how you would feel if Aarti ever shoved Yash against the door. Would you honestly be as angry and hate her character, or would you applaud her. Tell the truth.

interesting point of view.

But i think u failed to point out one thing, the society does not and will not ever hail or applaud a women for abusing a man. They only do so when she stands up for herself. Etc when a someone (be it a woman/man) tries to misbehave with her...

in this cases, you cant call it a woman abusing a man, it's mere she standing up for herself. And the least we can do is appluade for her, cause honestly, no one comes forward much nowadays to help someone in trouble.

in the case of yash, aarti did not misbehave with him, she did not raise her voice/taunt him, yet he pushed her. Which very well translates into violence. But to be honest, as compared to palak's bday, this episode, I dont condemn Yash's behaviour, hopefully his anger is justified, but he just pushed her aside. He didnt physically want to intentionally hurt her.

But the very least he can do when his anger is subdued is to apologise to her infront of everyone, afterall, he insulted her infront of everyone as well.

p.s. double standards has been applied more to Aarti in PV than yash, like how everyone blames Aarti for everything eventhough its Yash who is angry. If yash makes a mistake, its aarti's fault. If aarti makes a mistake, out of the hse she goes.

Originally posted by: Rituparnaa

Lines in bold.Totally agreed.BTW why r u blaming the TM???Why dont you consider urself for that position?I've seen many of ur posts regarding one actress who is a legal wife of someone.And u leave NO stone unturned to bash her and her char too.You urself deserve this line better than the TM.Now dont pretend here as a goody one.We PVians love both Yash n Aarti.This is just a twist in the show and it will be solved very soon.No need to preach and attack personally the TM.We are all discussing it in a very healthy manner.Hope now u got it.

konsa actor ? kiski baat kar rhi ho ? mai mostly bolly sec pe hota hai but mainey kisi hero ki wife ko khuch nhi bola ritik , sharukh , aamir ...never , dont try to act smart , hawaa mai baatey mat karo proof dikhao ...i know mainey kisi ke baarey mai khuch nhi bola ...about double standard , girl ki purity pe question hontey but boys ki nhi , girl pure na ho so usey corner kar diya jata hai like vo secondhand ho gyi ho or uski koi dignity nhi rhi ho but boys ke liye asa khuch nhi hota unki purity kabhi question nhi ki jaati

Originally posted by: sjashy

interesting point of view.

But i think u failed to point out one thing, the society does not and will not ever hail or applaud a women for abusing a man. They only do so when she stands up for herself. Etc when a someone (be it a woman/man) tries to misbehave with her...

in this cases, you cant call it a woman abusing a man, it's mere she standing up for herself. And the least we can do is appluade for her, cause honestly, no one comes forward much nowadays to help someone in trouble.

in the case of yash, aarti did not misbehave with him, she did not raise her voice/taunt him, yet he pushed her. Which very well translates into violence. But to be honest, as compared to palak's bday, this episode, I dont condemn Yash's behaviour, hopefully his anger is justified, but he just pushed her aside. He didnt physically want to intentionally hurt her.

But the very least he can do when his anger is subdued is to apologise to her infront of everyone, afterall, he insulted her infront of everyone as well.

p.s. double standards has been applied more to Aarti in PV than yash, like how everyone blames Aarti for everything eventhough its Yash who is angry. If yash makes a mistake, its aarti's fault. If aarti makes a mistake, out of the hse she goes.

in bold , very true ...arti has a child but yash also has 2 kids ...but evry body asey act kar rhey they in shaadi like arti pe koi ahsaan kar rhey ho coz she is shaadishuda with a kid kon asi aurat se shaadi karega , hum to ahsaan kar rhey hai uspey jese vo koi secondhand CHEEJ hai

, jesey hum bike or scooter letey hai if second hand hota hai to uski keemat value kam ho jaati hai 😭, ye thinking bhot wrong hai aurat bhi insaan hoti hai usey hi kyu sahan karna padey vo hi kyu maturity dikhaaye 😳 .
..arey bhaayi tumhara ladka bhi to merried tha vo konsa brandnew tha vo bhi second hand hua asey to 😛