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redeye2012 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
Awww...come one @Sam, you really think I didn't get where the principal was going with that talk.

My objection is to his approach. Just like Mrs. Lobo, he too dived right into their personal equation. And his concerns for the kids are admirable, but I didn't think much about his ability to express them without intruding in a counselor-like fashion. He should have focused on the kids and said 1) their behavior reflects the situation at home 2) I hope everything is fine as the kids have to make some adjustments in the home environment. 3) Have you had a talk with the kids? and many more such diplomatic questions.

BTW, the imaginary conversation was my sarcastic and exaggerated take on his approach where he focuses on the couple's relationship and their love for each other, instead of on the kids (as I indicated above).


Edited by redeye2012 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Samana: I agree that even by themselves Yash and Aarti were very good parents...in fact they did better than some of the parents shown in the serial itself...Dubeys and the Minister, for instance. Those three are great kids ...it's just that they have some behavioral problems due to unfortunate circumstances and a certain bad influence. Yash and Aarti just do not realize that even if they do not want to merge their Marital relationship...their Parental relationship needs a merger. And for the latter to happen the kids need to see a United Parent Front with some semblance of overt affection and friendship...(that's why their queries regarding the "kiss" have such in-depth meaning)...Remember how they enjoyed sprinkling water on their parents in the garden...when they were on one side and mumma-papa on the other , enjoying the water play? This is what the kids want and need. Yash and Aarti might have remarried but their kids are still being brought up by single parents with one taking one child under his/her wing at a time...and sometimes taking unilateral decisions without taking the other in the know-how. (E.g., Yash knew what was bothering Palak, but didn't feel the need to consult Aarti regarding the little one's stage fright, till Aarti came asking about Palak.). It's only recently that Aarti is tying to include Yash in the kiddy decisions and trying to make him proactive. The speeches written separately, and not wanting to interfere in other's handiwork lest it bothers the other, gave out wrong signals to the kids. Unfortunately, they have taken "we have married to give each other's child the absent parent" too literally. It doesn't work out that way.
Edited by InduG64 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Red: 😆 Totally got the sarcasm but I interpreted the meaning behind it too literally.

It would have definitely been more gratifying if the principal had asked the questions you mentioned. A much simpler solution that loving each other would be if they just talked to their kids, something that Aarti used to be great at, which is why Ansh took to Yash, on deepening levels, so quickly. But the dunce doesn't even know her own power and gives her hero, Yashji all the credit. Aside from being painfully corny, that is dangerous because it shows how little she understands what actually worked for her kid in this whole process. Like we were discussing over the weekend, it worries me that Aarti's worship of Yash is coming in the way of her solid parenting chops pre-marriage, same with Yash, though his chops were not quite as solid.

@All: So yesterday, I was kind of lamenting the fact that we will never get to see how the PV kids turn out in the far future...and I started thinking about what they would be like...and then I wrote a little piece. But now I am really scared to share it because I read it too many times and can't decide if it makes sense or is completely vacuous. So if I paste it here first, will you tell me in all honesty if it is any good? If you like it, I will think about making a separate thread for it. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Samana: 👍🏼 🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Indu: Who better than an editor? 😃

Here goes...

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Kal

Palak waited for the furour to die down near the school bulletin board. She was more or less sure of what she was going to see there and didn't fall prey to sense of the urgency that seemed to consume her classmates. When the crowd around the newly posted rank sheet thinned, she walked up and without bothering to search for her roll number, or name, glanced at the top of the list and read:

Class Ten: Second Mock Examination

Scindia, Ansh Y.
Percentage: 94.5
Rank: One

Palak heaved a resigned sigh and read on:

Scindia, Palak Y.
Percentage: 94.2
Rank: Two

No, it was too cruel! She followed her finger in a horizontal line across sheet for their individual subject marks and indulged herself a moment of righteous anger as she found she had beat Ansh in almost every subject and violently cursed the one subject that had dragged her average down, mathematics 88.0%. Oh, and he would gloat, about getting first rank, even if it was by 0.3 marks, about girls being weak in math, even when she had beat him by 4 marks the previous exam! He was insufferable!

As her rage at the impending injustice simmered, her finger, perhaps exerting more pressure on the thin marksheet than was strictly necessary, leaving a dent in its wake, stopped short when she saw Ansh's marks in English, 90.5%. "Not bad, Nangu," she thought to herself, "not bad!" Her mind immediately went to the innumerable nights her mother had sat up, trying to explain to Ansh that there was beauty and meaning in poetry, when all he could see was incorrect syntax and a convoluted use of words. "Why does he use so many words when he could say it in one?" was Ansh's constant, whiny refrain to which Aarti had patiently explained again and again, that it didn't just matter what you said, but how you said it, an important lesson for Ansh, considering it was his dream to be a lawyer.

Aarti was right, of course...about the poetry, but Palak knew better; Ansh didn't need poetry, or maths or any of the other subjects they studied to become a lawyer. He was a natural. If there was anyone that could make a jury believe that the sun rose in the west, it was definitely Ansh. Palak smiled indulgently at the thought of her brother's gift of gab, a gift she had resented bitterly and admired fervently by turns. Her smile widened as her mind wandered further back to the first time they had competed, how he had taunted her about her stage fright, how she had hated him, how it had all seemed so important! She chuckled softly at the memory as she caught sight of her friend, Dhriti, whose concerned expression was swiftly replaced by a grin mirroring Palak's.

"Someone looks awfully happy. I knew it. How much did you beat him by?"

Palak was disoriented for a second. She had almost forgotten where her thoughts had started, the marks sheet.

"Oh, I didn't," she said with a shrug, "He got me this time. Bloody maths. It's okay though. We still have the final exam to go, right? How'd you do?"

Palak looked up saw Dhriti's expression go from bewildered, to confused to downright furious.

"WHAT DO YOU MEAN, IT'S OKAY?!" bellowed Dhriti. "Palak, you kept me up ALL NIGHT with your calls and texts, agonising over the possibility that Ansh beat you, going over every exam paper in your head for the hundredth time, wondering if it cost you marks that you failed to mention the significance of clothing imagery in King Lear or drew that pie chart wrong or didn't justify well enough why the arms race was one of the main causes for World War I...and…oh, I don't know! And now you're saying IT'S OKAY?!"

Palak smiled sheepishly at her friend, who hadn't even begun to describe the minute anxiety Palak had felt and amply expressed, "Yeah, it's not like it's the final exam right?"

"That's what I said LAST NIGHT, but NO...YOU SAID that the mocks decide how you are going to do on your boards and if you didn't beat Ansh, you would DIE, or worse, quit school and let your dadi-bua teach you how to become a trophy wife, because that's all you'd be worth!"

By this point Palak's eyes were dancing with mirth, looking at the exasperated face in front of her; she made a heroic effort to control her laughter. Eight years later and she was all too used to this. Nobody really understood the way her and Ansh worked. To put it plainly, they were inseparable...most of the time. They studied together, helping each other, each filling in as a de facto tutor when the other needed it, only relying on others when they hit a roadblock that neither of them could solve (like Ansh and his aversion to poetry!). The family seemed to have learned over time that it was better not to interfere in their study sessions unless solicited, knowing that when they were done, the duo would come out on their own to fill the house with their special brand of laughter and chaos. Ansh would start with his dramatic retelling of mundane events at school, and Palak would interject with her dry, caustic one-liners and soon the whole family would be in gales of laughter. Ansh and Palak, Palak and Ansh: they completed each other's sentences and read each others' thoughts.

But all the camaraderie, the friendship and the kinship stopped completely, twice a year: exam time. From the day before their exams started, the two would start studying separately, being secretive about their schedules and refused to help each other with anything. The family had long learned the hard way that it was futile to try and make peace during this time. When forced into a conversation with each other, the two would snap and mock relentlessly, and before anyone realised what was happening, there would be a full-blown turf war on their hands, and so the Scindia house remained sombre and for the most part, deathly quiet during this time every year, their sister Payal being the only one who remained carefree and unaffected by the tension mounting between her fiercely competitive siblings.

The friction would abate only slightly after the examinations as Palak and Ansh awaited their results, each swearing some dire consequence if they didn't come first, torturing their friends and relatives alike, until the tension rose to a head the night before the results. But miraculously, as some would call it, they would snap back the moment the results were out, once again the best of friends, once again inseparable. They met at the main gate after school on these days, the second rank would buy the first ice cream and the latter was allowed to gloat precisely as long as the ice cream lasted. It was tradition.

Palak sighed. "You want to come for ice cream?" she asked Dhriti, "My treat." She saw her friend give her a look of complete bewilderment, throw up her hands and walk away. Poor Dhriti, she was new to the school this semester, and hadn't learnt the way most of Ansh and Palak's friends had that they were not to be taken seriously during exam time, but Palak liked her and hoped she hadn't scared her away forever. She shook her head and made her way to the main gate where Ansh would be waiting---or gloating rather. "Better get this over with," she thought with a determined smile.
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Samana: BRILLIANT, my dear friend!!! Do you even need an approval of any sort with that superlative piece? I just loved it to bits...And yes, the editor passes it without any edits...won't even ask you to stet any wandering comma. 👏 👏 👏

Tomorrow always comes...and today is never yesterday.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Samana : Thats some awesome piece of script writing 😉👏👏👏...if CVs r stalking ,I wont b surprised if this is lifted up and we actually get to see an exam track of Ansh and Palak 😆😆...I feel the scenario u presented applies for all siblings and not just the ones caught in a remarriage scenario ... Most of the siblings who r of same age hv a tendency to compete among each other and prove to b the superior one especially in competitions or exams 🤔..as long as the competition looks healthy and is taken in a sporting spirit by both the siblings , I feel its natural and fine but when this same competition starts affecting them from a psychological POV ,thats when issues take place ... In case of Ansh and Palak , they r not yet hving that sporting competitive spirit , so if one wins and other looses , it affects them badly ...they r yet to share that brother-sister bonding with each other and this is where Aarti-Yash needs to come together and develop that bonding between both ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
This picture is so symbolic ... Yash and Aarti both r the pillars of their family and they hv got the blessings of Ganeshji 😳😳...So they can never loose in any mission 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Saf : Awesome take 👏👏...most of us here r hoping that Yash is putting up an act to expose Bua 😆 but then the promo indicates Yash actually misunderstands Aarti ...so lets see 😕...whatever it is , Bua needs to b exposed 😡😡
@Indu : Awesomee take 👏👏... I loved the point u mentioned about noone is a born parent .. a parent is born when a child is born .. thats a brilliant point ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️...I loved the fact that both Yash and Aarti r not hving a easy ride like the Neelam mission but r facing lots of hurdles and disappointment to reach their destination this time and r given the perfect reality chks in the way by their own kids and their principle 👍🏼...
Yash-Aarti after Neelam mission , had become a bit over confident and thought whaever plans they will make will turn into gold but now both will put in much more efforts and will b much more proactive towards their kids to make sure no negativity affects them ever and they learn to share their happiness and emotions with each other like siblings 😃
Even now Yash blaming Aarti for that speech change is another wrong step by him 😡..Unless he trusts and understands his wife , how can he expect Palak to trust and understand Ansh or vice versa 😡...Like the principle said , kids will learn whatever they see in their family ...
@Redeye : Interesting and humourous take especially that convo 😆😆👏..I think no mention of Payal because she was not in same class and so far mayb she has not done anything really bad which needed a reminder 😕,...The irony show was really interesting ..on one hand Aarti and Yash r praising each other saying how their individual kids hv accepted each other and on other hand both kids r busy drawing haloween pics of their opposite parents 😆😆...I hope AarYa sees those pics and further get some reality chks since they seem to b in real hurry to declare how their PV is a success 😆
I cracked up with this para of yours ...
"Mr. Lobotomy: Please don't mind. When couples don't love and have sex, it causes tension between couples and they begin to argue and fight. And when the children see this, they come and behave exactly like that in the classroom. So, when you fight, do you pull each other's ears and call each other names?"
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Now I really wonder what was going exactly in Principle's mind when he was asking questions about their marital life 😛😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Sam:

Superlative imagination. It requires its own thread.

Just a few thoughts/questions/comments...

1. What does Palak want to be when she got older? Ansh wanting to be a lawyer is an interesting choice of profession.

2. Whether he wants to be or not, I see Ansh as having leadership qualities more suited to running businesses ethically and that are socially responsible. Some green technology business, for instance. He's straightforward and a straight shooter, perhaps strongly influenced by Yash here. He'd be influenced by Aarti in taking people along on the journey, motivating them etc. where his sense of righteousness combined with the gift of the gab would make him successful.

3. Nangu as a pet-name - Great touch!
Edited by redeye2012 - 13 years ago

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