23/7 Dragon Club:Bua Vs AarYa:Who wins ?

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tarantulla_p

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Posted: 13 years ago

#151

@indu, @kirthi,@saf, et all, well written all. Gotta run, operating on dangerously low sleep levels. Gd nite, have fun discussing

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MelodiousDreams

@MelodiousDreams

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Posted: 13 years ago

#152

@Kirthi: I loved the entire conversation between the Principal and Yash-Aarti a lot, and a huge part of that was because of the subtleties in the scene. Even if Yash and Aarti spoke up for Ansh and Palak, respectively, there was a lot of concern evident in the way Aarti reacted to hearing about both of her kids. With Yash, I felt that while Aarti was reassuring the principal about Palak, the wheels in his head were turning, and that's the first thing that came back to me when the precap played out. If Yash is actually accusing Aarti for real, then that little nuance could be significant. If not, there's always the very logical explanation that he was still thinking about the competition or something else that concerned him. Meh. This is probably the first time I'm thinking so much about a precap! I think I'm going to just let go now and leave the worries for later.

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angake

@angake

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Posted: 13 years ago

#153

Red absolutely! He has no business to find out if Yash and Aarti are in love or are just happy to indulge in mindless bedroom aerobics without any love and so on and so forth. But I am glad that he did ask them that no matter how crude it sounded not because of what the Principal seemed to imply that only if you have love between the parents will everything be all right in the kid's world. I loved it because it was high time Yash and Aarti faced some harsh realities and I am glad it was a random principal turned counselor who showed them that. The extent of their realization is yet to be seen.

My son's best friend's parents are divorced and yet they are together every step of the way as far as their kids are concerned. So yes I absolutely believe that love is not a necessity in raising emotionally stable children. Yet it is their biological kids. That brings me back to the point that I have been wondering about since I watched the episode. In a case like Aarti and Yash's marriage, ie a marriage of convenience, is respect enough to sustain their relationship especially in regards to the children's emotional well being?

And I agree with you and I have reiterated often enough on this DC that till to this date Yash and Aarti has never had a proper discussion about their kids. And just for that I am glad that their illusions were shattered. 😈

EDIT: All right my friends. Happy discussing. Will catch up with you guys tomorrow.Good Night! 🥱

Edited by angake - 13 years ago

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MelodiousDreams

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Posted: 13 years ago

#154

@Red: LOL! That take of yours is epic! I'm going to watch the Yash-Aarti doctor visit as soon as I finish writing up this reply! Aerobics! That will always be iconic...Gotta love the dialogue writer!

A few random thoughts that went through my mind as I read your take:

- "Please don't mind" is one of those hilarious lines that I feel like I've heard in a Hindi movie I watched...Can't remember which one, but the character said it so often that I wanted to tape his mouth shut!

- Yash looking like Johnny Depp! Ahaha, I thought Gurmeet looked so much like Johnny Depp in the second promo for the show! Ah, full-circle again today! Loop closure with a twist!

- Why does Aarti always have to tackle the difficult/awkward situations by herself? The woman has done more than her share of work here, but the duties and expectations are only increasing, it seems! Yash, help her out, please!

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redeye2012

@redeye2012

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Posted: 13 years ago

#155

@angake:

I agree it is an interesting point raised especially in marriages of convenience.

Without seeming like I am generalizing, I think it is possible that such a situation might have been averted even with just respect between the two. Yash completely trusts Aarti when it comes to their kids and Aarti knows the father can take a bullet in his back.

I felt most of the aggravations here were caused more due to a lack of common sense than love between parents, parenting, or anything else.

1. Why couldn't Yash write the speech with Ansh?

2. Why couldn't Yash give it to Ansh before he went off to sleep and ensure that the speech was OK by him? Someone questioned what if Ansh didn't understand Yash's handwriting?

3. Why couldn't Yash check in on Ansh early in the morning, let's say, right after his jogging? To check a few minutes before they had to leave before school was not sensible.

4. Competition or not, parenting or not, why couldn't Aarti check in on both her children?

Of course, we won't forget the active machinations of Bua in all of this. But for her, who knows things might have chugged along just fine.

I am reminded of the time when my brother and I were about the same age as Ansh and we lived with our grandparents along with our two unmarried aunts. It was the older aunt who'd supervise our homework. I was usually good about it, but my brother was totally flaky. One time, despite my aunt's repeated questions, he forgot to mention the assigned homework in maths. He remembered it next day literally 10 minutes before we had to leave for school. I still can recall the panic my aunt got into. She went into a tizzy as she grabbed his math notebook and did the problems herself, all the while yelling (with love and frustration) at my brother for not telling her sooner. And from that time on, she'd personally look into his every notebook herself, in case my brother forgot.

I mention this example to show that any caretaker with a bit of concern and common sense would adapt to the little googlies children throw at you.

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Indu Ghosh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#156

Gosh..with change in my daughter's school timings this session, my morning DC time has taken a beating. By the time I come on scene everyone has gone to keep their dates with Mr Sandman. 😭

@Kirthi: I am so in tune with your thoughts regarding parenting. You know one of your points reminded me of this:

The most important thing a father can do for his children is love their mother.

Without love and a proper husband-wife relationship they can become good guardians but not good parents...and by saying that I am by no means undermining those couples who are separated/divorced yet manage to bring up their kids well. A child is very sensitive and very observant toward the undercurrent between his/her parents. They blossom in not only the love their parents give but also in feeling safe in the warmth of their parents' mutual love and friendship. Here, both Palak and Ansh sense the incompatibility between their parents, though they may be too young to put a finger to it. That is why the knowledge about "the Kiss" was so important to Ansh and the girls when they queried their parents earlier on. And yeah, the Princi was spot on...he showed the real mirror to Aarti/Yash.

@Borna: Agree that precap was a cliffhanger...so don't even want to speculate. But I personally feel that is again one of Yash the dunce's knee-jerk reactions...He probably equated Aarti's overtures toward Palak with the ones she made during the birthday fiasco...that Aarti wants to win over Palak by hook or by crook...literally.

@Z: Thanks re. Oh...I go into a thousand silent applauses whenever I see them tackling sensitive issues with such sensibilities and maturity and, more importantly, in a staid manner.😊

@Aparna: Thanks, dear friend. 😊

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Zetter

@Zetter

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Posted: 13 years ago

#157

Goo Morning All!!

@Borna: Great take 👏...Yes the famous precap that left everyone wondering WTH is wrong with Yash??? 😆

@Red: 🤣 a very very interesting and entertaining take Doll 👍🏼 👏 Love it!It's true that Yash is sensing the "love waves" from Aarti but as usual he is playing blind but how long is he gonna keep running away for?? 😉

@Indu: Oustanding analysis as always my AM coffee Buddy 👏 👏 👏 👏 ...You've hit it out the park again ...AarYa need to work together and i hope they realise that cause their children need them as a unit not as a mom & a dad like u said...Can't wait to see how they handle this new obstacle 😊

@Aparna: Right on Doll 👏 👏...Cluless sure was AarYa and i'm happy that they were knocked off the high they were on and got a reality ckeck from the principal

@Mansi: Fantastic take 👍🏼 👍🏼 ...I've been asking myself that question since the day this boa took over the role...what really is her purpose besides "trying" to make Aarti's life hell and playing a reversal cupid for AarYa? IMO she's just irrelevant

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kinny_ranvir

@kinny_ranvir

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Posted: 13 years ago

#158

loved Principal - arya meeting...

hope precap was a natak by yash to get to truth. if not, it wud be a big disappointment by his behaviour towards arti...

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Zetter

@Zetter

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Posted: 13 years ago

#159

@Jyo: Marvelous take Dear 👏 👏 👏...ITA the principal gave AarYa a much needed reality check now they can work towards helping their children to accept each otherThe AarYa scene in fro,nt of the idol was too cute...I liked the way Aari gestured Yash to pray and he just nodded and start praying...Unknowingly Yash has slowly started to give Aarti the place of his wife 😳

@Samana: Fab analysis Sweetie 👏 👏 👏...I was great to have a third party's POV to show AarYa that what they assumed they've achieved scuccessful with their children was only temporary and that there was a bigger problem beneath the surface...I know that AarYa gonna be sucessful this time around cause they will be working together as a unit plus they've got Lord Ganesha's blessings 😃

@Abby: Fantastic take 👏...Divyam is a veryb talented cutie pie...It broke my heart when Ansh asked why his dad wrote such a bad speech for him 😭 😭For the past four years boa has been with Palak 24/7 and i think she listens to her cause she doesn't believe that boa would ever lie to her or hurt her but that is what boa is doing by coming between Aarti & Palak and telling her all those horrible stories about stepmoms she hurting that little girl more than she's hurting Aarti 😡

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Zetter

@Zetter

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Posted: 13 years ago

#160

@Saf: Lovely poste as ever 👏 👏 ❤️

@Deeps: thank you very very much for the beautiful caps & for all your hard work Dear 🤗

@Salvatiore-Nina: Yes i'm a huge Nikita fan...I love them to pieces ❤️ They are my primetime AarYa with a lot more action (i mean guns fights) 😛 😆 😆

EDIT: As for the precap...I would like to think that for once Yash would use his commond sense and not just what he thinks to be the truth and accuse Aarti of such horrible thing 😕Waiting for tonight's epy...I'll have to keep my finger off the mute button cause i might be tempted to give it a workout when boa starts talking 😆

Gotta go get dressed and head out...You guys have a wonderful blessed day *muah*

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