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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: InduG64

@Red: Scindia sure bent backward to please Arpita's parents...even though they were the ladkiwallahs. Yash sure had it easy the first time around... a family his parents looked up to, a great girl, same status...all very hunky-dory. He didn't have to stretch himself to make anything work...all was given on a platter. But this time around everything is a challenge...nothing has gone right. He has his work cut out for him this time around. If he wants Aarti, he'll have to win her...he'll have to find a way to Aarti's heart, which in itself is an uphill task coz her insecurities will not let her be vulnerable to a man again...he'll have to convince Dubeyji...and most of all he'll have to win his parents. That's why this time around it'll be a passion play of the kind Yash and Aarti never encountered in their first relationships.😊


@Indu: And that's why Yash seems bewildered and baffled most of the time. And he is still in the realization stage - realizing things are not the way it was the first time. But the day is yet to come when he realizes he wants Aarti. I guess that's when he will figure out that he has to cross all those barriers before he can get her. Yeah, for Yash it will be a challenge of a lifetime because he already has the woman, meaning he's married to her, sleeps by her side, who is respectful, gives him no cause for complaints, takes care of his girls and needs, and primarily is accessible in every way but one. And that alone makes it a unique quest for her love and a unique challenge that in all likelihood he will enjoy, until some external challenges come into play like Prashant, child custody, divorce issue etc...

I wonder what the lifetime of this serial would be...2 years?

Edited by redeye2012 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jikky_84

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I really feel pity for Yash now. Whom all are he supposed to convince and impress? No one tells him the truth or facts, he has to find everything by himself and then make things right? I think he is in a very difficult situation where he really don't know what things went wrong?

Even though all are giving him reasons his heart is somewhere not ready to accept that Arati don't want this relationship.

I really don't think he will come to know about the facts that happened when he was unconscious but his brothers will do something which will make him to bring back Arati.



Exactly Asha. He's working on a handicap here. None of his family members are forthcoming...and he is confused regarding Aarti's reactions. Her so-called behavior has gone totally against what he has known about her...and he can't believe that even after doing so much for Ansh, she didn't deem him fit to be Ansh's father and walked out. Frankly Asha, I'm not in a mood for this cat and mouse game. He needs a reality check badly...and needs to make some effort to get to the bottom of his doubts, instead of accepting everything on face value.
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Kirthi: I think you can put your emotions into boxes if there is something you really don't want to acknowledge. It is not going to make them go away and makes them even more dangerous at such a point when they are unexpectedly triggered, but you can store them away somewhere where they don't nag at your conscious mind all day. That is what Aarti and Yash have done with their inner man and inner woman. And that is why they wanted to stay single, because when you are in control, you can decide what you feel on a daily basis.

But they got married and with their heated confrontations over the kids and related decisions, I think said man and woman had just peeked out. Then during the kidnapping fiasco, Yash's emotional dam broke and when he was shot, Aarti's trust barrier broke and for that moment they were both completely vulnerable. And Aarti swung from one extreme to the other, from not trusting him at all, to thinking he was god! I think this whole MU will balance things out because like Charishma said, she will understand that he deserves to be trusted but that he is also human and prone to making mistakes. He will realise she may be emotional and impulsive but she stuck by this marriage when even he didn't. It's a good thing.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

He will realise she may be emotional and impulsive but she stuck by this marriage when even he didn't. It's a good thing.


@Kirthi & Samana: Had to sneak in to respond to that wonderful line above. For a woman who had huge trust issues from the beginning of this relationship, so much so that she was almost leaving Yash at the altar and bolting, this was such a wonderful turnaround...she is holding onto the marriage when he let it go with one brash act and, more importantly, believing in him even now. I love this girl...when she believes, she believes...even against all odds. How can he stay immune to that?
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: InduG64

Aarti all sad-sad, and Yash a little mad-mad (He took away the kangans...she gave away the kangans😔)...😆



That is such an adorable way of putting it. Such a way with words. Luvv it. 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: InduG64



@Sonika: I echo your views regarding the show. I was never a Hindi soap buff...and never more than a serial at a time and that too not regularly. But PV has hooked me completely...I am totally in love with the concept and the way it's being dealt with, touching the present-day family issues...and in DC I have found my parallel residence. I love the friends I've made here, love the varied thoughts, love how accepting everyone is of each other's views, and love the to-and-fro discussions touching every nook and niche of an episode. 👍🏼



We love you too darling!
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Posted: 13 years ago
Are we going to see Aarti in action today? 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Indu

i think the schindia family is getting Yash divorced because they realized that Aarti isnt that type of women that they can control, order around nastily, she is a women with a backbone. I am ashamed to say I have seen something similar happen in my own family. when my grandma realized she couldnt control her DIL she decided to get my aunt and uncle separated and failed. They dont speak till this very day. so i actually didnt find the divorce part unique. i live in the us and see similar thing occur even here. so sad
Edited by Gurtiluv - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Just a day earler Aarti accepted that she loves Yash as a desciple and gave him position of GOD in her life. In whom she already had lost any trust, but kidnapping fiasco reinstated that. She trusted Yash, that he will come but instead of him her worst nightmare came, those papers.
Because of past experience she always lived with her guards on, which were let loose for moment. We always had discussion who will fell first and we believed it will be Aarti but now I feel it will be Yash, as this incident will make her shut those emotions again and she will be just doing what she feel she has to, her duties towards girls.
Can't wait to see how this love story unfolds😳
Lets see how Yash convinces his parents and Dubeys first...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Gurtiluv

@Indu

i think the schindia family is getting Yash divorced because they realized that Aarti isnt that type of women that they can control, order around nastily, she is a women with a backbone. I am ashamed to say I have seen something similar happen in my own family. when my grandma realized she couldnt control her DIL she decided to get the separated and failed. They dont speak till this very day. so i actually didnt find the divorce part unique. i live in the us and see similar thing occur even here. so sad



Right Sonika. Bahus are meant to be seen around but not meant to opine about anything or desire anything and meant to accept all injustices without a whimper...it's quite a general mentality. I'm amazed it happens where you live as well and sad that we tend to carry this malaise with us even when we settle abroad. Shows how deep rooted this regressive thinking is.
Edited by InduG64 - 13 years ago

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