9/5/ Dragon Club: Missing the Point - Page 11

Love you anaysis Samana, exactly my feeling but better words:) I love Yash is taking interest in Ansh. Yash is doing right things but his approach is wrong, he want full control. He knew on his first day to new school, it was Ansh who put aside his mom's anxiety and said Mom I will be OK, it is just new school. It seems he is not trying to understand him but just want to fix him😕How dare Gayatri stop Aarti from going? Would she have stayed at home if one of her sons were missingGayati went beresk when yash got sick, and punside little boy so badly and she is saying that now😡 Or maybe she forgot that too😕

@Mansi: Why thank you! And I loved the theme of your take. My answer is yes. But I think yours is better. I hadn't thought about Aarti's stance that way, because emotionally (very emotionally), I saw events unfold through her eyes today. But you are absolutely right in the way you have painted her in the larger picture. Because she is constantly preoccupied with Ansh, nobody is able to tell the difference between when she is being paranoid and when her concern is genuine. She has sort of given Yash the license to speak the way he did, though obviously not intentionally. We have been saying that she needs to find a way to get her message across that doesn't immediately tread on toes.

And I loved your suggestions, especially the last one about the five being interconnected. True story!

@Jyo: I agree wake up call is right. These two need to understand that their ego clashes are not only pointless but also dangerous. They need to agree on a course of action and they have to take each other's thoughts into consideration because the simple fact remains that not all kids are the same and Aarti knows her son and the way he works and Yash doesn't really know PayPal, but he is the only one that can get through to them. I have a feeling Yash is going to want to punish PayPal harshly and Aarti is going to interject and ask if she can handle it differently. Yash will not be able to refuse. And then I think Aarti might pull a Fraulein Maria and give that dinner table speech that makes the kids so guilty about what they did!

@DMKJ (sorry I don't know your name and I didn't find it on the list): I agree. I don't think he meant anything mean by what he said but my comments were sort of trying to highlight how clueless he is. The problem I find with him right now is that he is making huge decisions, solo without most of the relevant information! That is what is bothering me most.

@Asha: I am mad at Yash but the way you get mad at a loved one. He is exasperating me by not listening to anyone and inadvertently causing himself pain in the process. He could have given Aarti some credit for knowing her child, I think.

@Jyo, beautiful analysis👏👏

I felt so bad when Aarti was sitting on floor and crying helplessly, what a performance by Kratika, I think she was at her best today, I was about to cry today seeing her in such condition... Jo bhi hai, she is the closest to Ansh and naturely she would be worried the most... Yash's point too is not wrong, he is not biased, otherwise he would not tell Ansh in yesterday's episode If PayPal tease u then u should tease them back... He wants to be a father to him as much as Aarti showing concern to PayPal, but Yash fail to understand mother's emotions as Arpita died so early into PayPal's ages, so he might didn't live this much moments with her or might never put into such situation to feel it, remember he didn't even know which kind of gift to give Ansh, his life is much surrounded around his two daughters after Arpita's death, so his knowledge into that matter is not really big... While Aarti has been much independed into taking care of Ansh and that is why she is too protective when it comes to him and she understand better PayPal as she herself lost her own parents, as they says jis pe beete hai wohi jaanta hai!!!!!!...

@Asha: Your points are absolutely right. The whole mess is a result of improper communication. But you know, setting communication right is easier said than done. First egos have to be sunk. And then both need to accommodate. Let's see how this pans out ... I can just imagine this crisis, because I too am a mother and this situation must be a nightmare!

Loved the way Aarti told off G3...a mother's plight!

Finally getting time to go watch the epi .. shall update my views in a bit =D

@Zee: Today I think we have to spare the Casanova a bit ... he sounded genuinely concerned for Aarti when he told her not to worry! Plus they have given him the job of calling the Police Commissioner so I hope that keeps him busy and he has no time for other things!😉

@ Samana, he should have given the credit to Arati for knowing Ansh better but still she also didn't properly asked him what was the reason thet he don't want to go to school.

Originally posted by: 49erFan

Loved the way Aarti told off G3...a mother's plight!

Exactly, I was like well done Aarti in that very scene, witch Gaytri need to shut her kachchra mouth 😡