Gyatri does have a good point

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Posted: 13 years ago
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She brought up 3 boys and they seem to have been brought up well, cant fault her parenting skills here but Ansh is sometimes quite rude and likes having his own way too much, Aarti seems too indulgent at times

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dude really????????? I mean so you lock up the lil one whose cheeks are still falling of his face and is soo kissable for hours in a dark room and keep him hungry and thirsty all day?
So where does the point get solved in that???
Basically she scared the boy for life. Now to get rid of some of that scaring a normal parent would actually have to be even more loving an indulgent. So you think you've taken one step forward but it's actually ten steps back.

Oh and speaking from experience being a mommy of a 4.5 year old boy who has never once yelled or raised her hand at her extremely high energy boy. Plus a mommy whose parenting ideals are very close and matching to aartis style. It works. My baby can be a bit naughty but just like Ansh once talked to and explained to is quick to understand and mend his ways. He is sooo loving and constantly innovating ways to make gifts and surprises for his mumma papa.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I really want ansh to throw her in swimming pool
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Posted: 13 years ago
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really...u support locking up a kid...god I am surprised people like u exist and thats why cases of abused children. are u a woman...no. a human being?
I could not sleep after seeing the episode and was constantly kissing and cuddling my 5 yr old who is just like ansh.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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See at times even I have seen people threaten to lock kids in a room to discpline them and may be even do for a few seconds...But it is very different from what Gayatri did

a) she has never loved Ansh...so she did not have his best interests in mind and she is not his mom
b) these parents are very loving and caring for their kids...and are just drawing the point that discipline is also crucial and kids need to learn their limits
c) these locking threats are always followed by intensive counselling session where you explain the kids as to whey they were punished and how much wanted they are.
Nowhere it is close to gayatri's behaviour which cannot be justiified under any scenario.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am totally shocked! U r justifying Gayatri's behaviour?
may be she brought up 3 boys..so?!
her sons turned out well becoz they were inherently good ppl, also as Prateek once said, yash used to be in hostel, so more than gayatri its Yash's calibre that he turned out to be the perfect gentleman that he is, similar for Pankaj and Prateek!
Gayatri's behaviour was abominable and despicable!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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This incident has scared the heck out of Ansh. He was the only one in the Scindia house having masti. Now everyone is so so serious. What a boring home! It will take him time to come out of this trauma inflicted by this wicked woman.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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she has alzimer she forget about what she is doing and luckily ansh enter in the room and she lock it
just she wants to teach arti to keep mum and work as servant,coze she came with son,and gay doesn't like and yash accept him thats why gay mad
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliyakhan

really...u support locking up a kid...god I am surprised people like u exist and thats why cases of abused children. are u a woman...no. a human being?

I could not sleep after seeing the episode and was constantly kissing and cuddling my 5 yr old who is just like ansh.

Arent you getting a bit personal here? I think your post was rude. I did not say I support her locking up the boy, I said her point about bringing up 3 boys properly seem valid as all boys are well centred, polite and seem to have good values...but I do think Ansh needs a stronger hand than Aarti's, sometimes she seem too indulgent when he is rude.
I thought there were rules about personal attacks but it seems like that only pertain to Actors and characters (who are not even real) Surprised at the Mods. I AM a woman but these things happen everyday in every country, even ones with those who have all the laws etc against child abuse.and trust me there are some that a LOT worse than locking up a child in a dark room AGAIN before anyone gets on his/her high horse I AM NOT CONDONING LOCKING A CHILD UP..
Also, if that was such a bad case why did Aarti keep her mouth shut, and the 2 other DIL, if anything that is what will encourage the child abuse
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: celina30

She brought up 3 boys and they seem to have been brought up well, cant fault her parenting skills here but Ansh is sometimes quite rude and likes having his own way too much, Aarti seems too indulgent at times

hey girl this is child abuse we are talking about there are ways punish kid not bully them just hav to to lock away this sychopathe in mental hospital for threating so young kid this way it's totaly inhumaine

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