From unusally real to usual drama- Pls stop - Page 2

Originally posted by: zeezee55

I think kids are not as fragile as you think. They are pretty tough and Ansh is one tough boy - as you have seen from past episodes. I think Arthi knows her son well enough to know that he can handle it. I don't think Arthi is a weakliing at all - yes she was crying, of course she was crying but i don't think it was a cry of weakness. She could have done what Vidhi did but Gayatrhri would have marked her for good. I think it was good for Vidhi to take that approach. Because i think if Arthi had used that tactic, Gayathri would not have acceded but since it came from Viddhi, it worked.

I think you cannot compare that accident with this. Every child is different

Children are more resilient than you think - unless you bring them up as fragile things - keeping all bad away from them that they are not able to grow strong mentally. Strenght of mind comes from experience of life's curve balls thrown at you AND if it is a child, how the adult react to the child's experience of having a curve ball thrown at him. If you stand with the child and say 'here i am , don't fear, we will work this out together' the child will not become a messed up kid. Arthi did just that - she talked him out of his fear, she comforted him, she supported him, she became his light - despite her own fears and sadness - what a wonderful mother. Her first thought was to give strenght to her son.

I agree if Arthi had sat outside the door cyring and screamiing ' my poor boy,, you are being torturted, of what fate is this for you to be tortured like this... and so on' yes if she did that the boy would have been scarred for life.

Yes kids are fragile but they are also very resilient and overcome things faster than we adults. With the right kind of support - they will become strong confident personalities.

Originally posted by: SallyAmanda

My mother wouldn't have told Dad if my grandma has scolded her or done anything humiliatiting to me and my siblings!!(Of course we're very naughty and leave no stone unturned in making dadi get phsyche!😆) In a joint family like mine and the Sindhiyas everyone has a different way of expressing his/her view and if you do not like it(eg.G3 whos way was completely inhumane😡) problems and tension is sure to arise! And you cannot go around complaining to your husband like,"Honey,your mother scolded our son today" or "Honey,your mother locked up our sin today"

Please don't trivalise the issue like this...i can almost hear gayatri's tone in the manner yor are potraying arati's complaining to her hubby...If it is a matter where one thinks that the grandmom is unjustified, it has to be raised to hubby or anyone concerned...there is nothing wrong in sharing your concerns with the person you married...Again i will say ...too much obsession with sasuma

If Aarti or any other married woman does this,the sasuma would get angry and her target would be Aarti again! and that makes the serial typical one and not yesterday's episode.

I am with Aarti on this one and with the CVs..

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

Ria, I agree with you!

I think I'm one of the few people in this forum who still thinks Aarti's character is very realistic. No matter how courageous a woman might by, her heart would break into a million pieces when her child is locked in a room crying for her.😭 God, I HATE Gayatri more than anything. She's no less than an evil rakshasi.😡 But my heart broke for Aarti and I totally felt that the entire scene was very realistic. No woman would want to go charging at her MIL when her child is locked up, because her primary concern would be getting him out, and if it means crying and begging, so be it. Even I would do the same, and I reckon many here would also.

Yes, this serial does seem a bit saas-bahuish at the time, but then again...in many parts of society, DILs are still treated like this by families like the Scindiya parivaar. As a new bride, Aarti cannot be expected to defend her rights and start standing up for herself yet, because she still does not know the family...heck, she hardly knows her husband, so how could she summon up the courage to tell him about Ansh, fearing that he would support her husband?

Originally posted by: aaliyakhan

ladies above...pls think laterally. aarti had many options...

1. ansh being the priority...ask vidih or paridi to keep ansh company while she talks to her MIL in private...ask her politely to let her son go...if the woman does not budge...

2. call yash...and if he doesnot come and help her then he is not the dad that aarti wants for ansh...and by now she should know to trust him...if gayatri is once caught she will never venture to do this kind of thing again...again if yash is not reachable.

3. threated to call police...gayatri being the khandani type would never allow this and would oblige...

somehow i have never been the one who suffers in silence...and i dont think it brings you and good as even after putting aarti through so much all gayatri did was torture her more...so why suffer...wake up and put an end to this nonsense.

I agree with you Ria completely on Aarti's reaction to this whole incident. I'm ready to give even Gayatri a benefit of doubt, simply because she is a patient. I have a feeling she has Alzheimer's disease.Yesterday she forgot her name, although it was funny to watch. I was going through wikipedia when this line just caught my eyes

Originally posted by: adigaag

I agree with you Ria completely on Aarti's reaction to this whole incident. I'm ready to give even Gayatri a benefit of doubt, simply because she is a patient. I have a feeling she has Alzheimer's disease.Yesterday she forgot her name, although it was funny to watch. I was going through wikipedia when this line just caught my eyes

"As the disease advances, symptoms can include confusion, irritability and aggression, mood swings, trouble with language, and long-term memory loss. As the sufferer declines they often withdraw from family and society"

God this is one dangerous disease. Check out this link for more information, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alzheimer's_disease