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So many implications today. Where do I start?😆
Is it just me, or is the way Ansh was supporting his one hand with the other indicative
of some injury???
I hope to god Gayatri didn't hit him before locking him up. That would be 🤢😡. Aarti would surely move out. Maybe Ansh gets injured while in the room. I hope there's no injury at all. But, i'm thinking there will be a little something. Poor Anshu. He can't get one day of rest in this house. There's always at least one person after him.
Honestly, I just want the reactions of the men to Gayatri's stunt. Pari and Vidhi are great, but they're too into pleasing Gayatri to stand up to her. We need a Yash or, (I hate to admit it) Senior Schindya.
I'm expecting Yash to explain the whys and wherefores of his family to Aarti though. They live together, but they aren't open in that way. This family exists in different units.
For example, when everyone came to Yash's room because he was sick. As soon as the seniors left, the whole tenor of the room changed. The brothers and their wives were much more open with each other. Then you have ArYa and Pari-Prateik. On their wedding night the younger couple let in ArYa, but only after Vidhi and Pankaj had left. This extended family, like real extended families, operates with tiers. ArYa are their own unit of course. But Aarti would have a hard time understanding this because with the Dubeys, everything was expressed honestly, and with complete faith that no one would misunderstood. Yash will have to explain his family, specifically his mother and father. And why sometimes, keeping certain things to herself, will only be better for ArYa. They wouldn't be doing anything wrong either. Seniors are seniors, but ArYa are adults with their own children. They can forgive and forget within the peace of their little family of 5.
PayPal are only around 6, but they already behave like old ladies with too much time on their hands. Seeing Ansh getting away with such a stunt probably left them a little insecure. Their papa had just last night yelled at them for jumping around on his bed. But the way they reacted gives truth to Aarti's words (which were repeated by Yash today😳). The one about how children "bahut nazuk hota hai". Their minds and bodies are very fragile. When it comes to ArYa's attention, how spiteful and secretly hateful his daughters have become (with the influence of Gayatri and his Bua), heads will role. But don't you just love the message of that one little scene (between Gayatri and PayPal)? We were meant to make the connection between how they talk and how some bored elderly housewives talk. Those whose world is very tiny, and without any honest understanding of generosity or kindness. Everything is done because of how it will look. They're often spiteful and mean. I'd like to say it only comes from having no identity of your own. But I think it also has a lot to do with their husbands as well. Those who are happy and comfortable in their marriage (and those who love their husbands), often appear more sorted and kind. Women who are oppressed in their marriage in some way, are often like this. PayPal are being trained to be such housewives. I wonder what Aarti will have to say about this. I wish Yash would hurry up and give her the reins to PayPal's situation. His dithering is resulting in more buildup of resentments on PayPal's behalf.
I feel like the dynamic between ArYa and their children would be fine, if it weren't for PayPal's interfering grandparents. Half of the time he's only resisting Aarti's 'new-fangled' talk because his parents are trying to shove "new Arpita" down his throat. Today he took Aarti's advise and handled Ansh gently. Implication being, if Ansh is disciplined in this manner, than PayPal should also. Yash really has no choice now.
I am afraid though, that Gayatri's actions will push Aarti over the top. She rarely talks (except to the seniors that is😆). She keeps to herself. She dresses and feeds the kids. And that's about it. I almost feel she's just waiting for an excuse to end the charade started by the Dubeys. Yash has accepted Aarti as his new wife. He's resistant when it comes to his heart. But he's already surrendered so much ground. He asked her to drive. He listened to her throughout his 'sickness'. He has surrendered his daughters (to some extent). But Aarti seems to be living in limbo. She's neither here nor there. She hasn't made any effort to make any lasting impact on the household itself. She does what she's told, and what she's expected to do (in terms of PayPal), but that's about it. I know its weird. I mean, what else could be she doing right? But somehow, when I see Aarti, i see her biding her time, not joining the house. if that makes sense 😆
Maybe what it comes down to is the ability to love. Yash is quite capable, but Aarti has been burned. I think maybe life has just made her stand-offish by nature. But something needs to happen to make her care. There are plenty of interpersonal causes within the house, that she can get involved in. For example: Pankaj Vidhi situation, and Pari's work situation. These things will maybe make her feel more like her competent self.
PS: Wouldn't it be great if at some point Aarti did leave (not now, but maybe when divorce truth comes out), and Yash wooed her back? We already know how romantic he can be 😃. I want him to pick her up and haul her off just like he did on bachelor party night😆. Yes, oh yes.
Is it just me, or is the way Ansh was supporting his one hand with the other indicative
of some injury???
I hope to god Gayatri didn't hit him before locking him up. That would be 🤢😡. Aarti would surely move out. Maybe Ansh gets injured while in the room. I hope there's no injury at all. But, i'm thinking there will be a little something. Poor Anshu. He can't get one day of rest in this house. There's always at least one person after him.
Honestly, I just want the reactions of the men to Gayatri's stunt. Pari and Vidhi are great, but they're too into pleasing Gayatri to stand up to her. We need a Yash or, (I hate to admit it) Senior Schindya.
I'm expecting Yash to explain the whys and wherefores of his family to Aarti though. They live together, but they aren't open in that way. This family exists in different units.
For example, when everyone came to Yash's room because he was sick. As soon as the seniors left, the whole tenor of the room changed. The brothers and their wives were much more open with each other. Then you have ArYa and Pari-Prateik. On their wedding night the younger couple let in ArYa, but only after Vidhi and Pankaj had left. This extended family, like real extended families, operates with tiers. ArYa are their own unit of course. But Aarti would have a hard time understanding this because with the Dubeys, everything was expressed honestly, and with complete faith that no one would misunderstood. Yash will have to explain his family, specifically his mother and father. And why sometimes, keeping certain things to herself, will only be better for ArYa. They wouldn't be doing anything wrong either. Seniors are seniors, but ArYa are adults with their own children. They can forgive and forget within the peace of their little family of 5.
PayPal are only around 6, but they already behave like old ladies with too much time on their hands. Seeing Ansh getting away with such a stunt probably left them a little insecure. Their papa had just last night yelled at them for jumping around on his bed. But the way they reacted gives truth to Aarti's words (which were repeated by Yash today😳). The one about how children "bahut nazuk hota hai". Their minds and bodies are very fragile. When it comes to ArYa's attention, how spiteful and secretly hateful his daughters have become (with the influence of Gayatri and his Bua), heads will role. But don't you just love the message of that one little scene (between Gayatri and PayPal)? We were meant to make the connection between how they talk and how some bored elderly housewives talk. Those whose world is very tiny, and without any honest understanding of generosity or kindness. Everything is done because of how it will look. They're often spiteful and mean. I'd like to say it only comes from having no identity of your own. But I think it also has a lot to do with their husbands as well. Those who are happy and comfortable in their marriage (and those who love their husbands), often appear more sorted and kind. Women who are oppressed in their marriage in some way, are often like this. PayPal are being trained to be such housewives. I wonder what Aarti will have to say about this. I wish Yash would hurry up and give her the reins to PayPal's situation. His dithering is resulting in more buildup of resentments on PayPal's behalf.
I feel like the dynamic between ArYa and their children would be fine, if it weren't for PayPal's interfering grandparents. Half of the time he's only resisting Aarti's 'new-fangled' talk because his parents are trying to shove "new Arpita" down his throat. Today he took Aarti's advise and handled Ansh gently. Implication being, if Ansh is disciplined in this manner, than PayPal should also. Yash really has no choice now.
I am afraid though, that Gayatri's actions will push Aarti over the top. She rarely talks (except to the seniors that is😆). She keeps to herself. She dresses and feeds the kids. And that's about it. I almost feel she's just waiting for an excuse to end the charade started by the Dubeys. Yash has accepted Aarti as his new wife. He's resistant when it comes to his heart. But he's already surrendered so much ground. He asked her to drive. He listened to her throughout his 'sickness'. He has surrendered his daughters (to some extent). But Aarti seems to be living in limbo. She's neither here nor there. She hasn't made any effort to make any lasting impact on the household itself. She does what she's told, and what she's expected to do (in terms of PayPal), but that's about it. I know its weird. I mean, what else could be she doing right? But somehow, when I see Aarti, i see her biding her time, not joining the house. if that makes sense 😆
Maybe what it comes down to is the ability to love. Yash is quite capable, but Aarti has been burned. I think maybe life has just made her stand-offish by nature. But something needs to happen to make her care. There are plenty of interpersonal causes within the house, that she can get involved in. For example: Pankaj Vidhi situation, and Pari's work situation. These things will maybe make her feel more like her competent self.
PS: Wouldn't it be great if at some point Aarti did leave (not now, but maybe when divorce truth comes out), and Yash wooed her back? We already know how romantic he can be 😃. I want him to pick her up and haul her off just like he did on bachelor party night😆. Yes, oh yes.
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