29/3 Analysis Unit: Prashant Karega Kanyadaan - Page 17

Totally loved your take..especially the cad Prashant ..He must be resenting Aarthi for being a better child ..the one his own mother favors more than him..Ullu doesn't realize his own actions had resulted in Shobha supporting Aarthi..😡 .. He brought Aarthi into the Dubey family only to find himself outcast ...So since Aarthi is finding herself a new family...its her duty to fix things back to normal for P 😕

Sylvania, your post made me take another look at the Dubeys.

I have loved Shobha's character from day 1 and will continue to love her if her character remains the same. However, yesterday's Prashant-Aarti conversation got me thinking about how Prashant was as a son and the Dubeys were as parents?

Being an only son was he always selfish? Could the Dubeys have been at fault for not drawing boundaries for him while growing up ? As a mother, I know the one thing I always tell my kids are that there are always consequences for their actions and they ought to think ten times before they do something. Could they have been at fault for not teaching him to take responsibilities for his actions? Then, as a grown up, when his parents did not agree with the way he has turned out, did Prashant find a means to appease his parents by finding the perfect daughter in law.

When Prashant met Aarti, did he actually fall for her or did he see her as someone through whom he can make his parents proud? Yesterday the way Shobha spoke about Prashant sounded like she always knew he was a selfish person. So then after marriage, because of his selfishness, did he soon realize that he wanted a wife who would wait upon him and not his parents? In his selfishness, did he fail to see what Aarti wanted out of this marriage. That she wanted not just a husband but a father and a mother- a family.

Forming a relationship involves more than one person and breaking them too involves more than one person. I am beginning to feel that the whole Dubey family including Aarti is culpable of this mess:

1) the Dubeys for not instilling the right values in Prashant because these things are instilled from childhood. A person does not wake up one morning and decide to be selfish. It happens when he is not held accountable for his behavior since childhood.

2) Prashant the most culpable for being who he is that is a cad like Sylvania mentioned. Fine, he found someone else to stroke his ego and his own insecurities but there is no justification for not taking responsibility towards Ansh. He didn't have to stay married to Aarti to be a father to Ansh. No matter what his other priorities were, the minute he knew he was going to be a father he needed to make parenting his first and foremost priority.

3) Aarti, I think the only reason I would hold her culpable is maybe for not being able to see through Prashant's selfishness much earlier on.

So, Shobha absolutely loves Aarti but I wonder in a way if she is also trying to compensate for their mistakes with Prashant

@Gurtiluv :I agree about the real world ..yes its not easy for a woman to simply walk out on her man without trying ..I hv seen women in real life going all the way out to get their husbands back from the other woman even if it means loosing their own self-respect ...yes we might say this is wrong but this is reality ...but since PV is trying to give a certain msg to the scoiety to give a second chance to life again ,I m expecting in future Aarti to stand strong and humiliate that Prashant in same manner like he did to her in temple yesterday 😡

@Jake :Welcome to the thread 😃...Actually Mr.Dubey does not really want to loose Ansh ...he actually was fine when Gayatri said only Aarti will b accepted and not Ansh 😉...its Shobha who does not want to separate mother and son and so is ready to sacrifice their grand-son ..thats why me and Deeps were discussing that most of the characters in this show r real except for Shobha mayb because such positive flawless characters dont exist in real life ..we might applaud their courage on screen but we wont find a Shobha in real life ...😳

Hi, you brought a very strong and important part, but thats where Shobhaji is not like any other MIL, she treats her, not actually, fully accepted her as a daughter. She feels for her, they have been through alot. I am sure it is not easy for a beautiful single mom to live alone, our society is very cruel. She wants the best for her only and has no hidden agenda or selfishness.

They have shown strong bonding shown between Aarti and Ansh initially, they have even shown how void there life will be once they are gone. Just not stressed on it and Shabhaji belives Ansh needs his mom more than them. Plus Ansh is her life. And yes Prashant knows he has a son, poor Aarti has told so many times, but he doesn't care about him, even to ask about him.

Call me Deeps 🤗

I agree..P did not overnight turn to be a selfish ass that he is ...Along with the basic character ...the parenting also would have had a hand.. I would assume since Dubeys had only one child...he might be spoilt rotten being the apple of their eyes.. I would assume Satyendra Dubey is the same man even now..give into his ladla beta whose happiness and wishes are paramount to him...else he would not encourage Aarthi to meet P just a few hours before marriage...Did he even think what would happen if some one/Scindia's saw Aarthi meeting P ?😳

Shobhaji...who is now pillar of support for Aarthi...quite possible she is not doing as a fellow women...but someone who is trying to right the wrongs she has committed by not teaching P the right values a parent should have. She knew she failed as a mother to P...so she is compensating the sin..by being the best mother to Aarthi..be it fighting with Scindias for her identity or motivating Aarthi to make peace and find a soulmate in a Paragon of virtue Yash(who is a complete oppposite to her son P ..in terms of respecting a woman or standing for her right to bring Ansh post PV ).

Only difference is Dubey is loyal to his wife and family whereas his son is disloyal a**😡

Hey welcome 😃

And its not compulsary to do big analysis everytime 😆😳..u can place your random views about episodes even in one line and hv discussion with all ...😃

I know analysis unit word sound scary 😆 but trust me there r mixed bunch out here ..some do big analysis ..some write short ..some post pics or reaction emos ..some write one liners ...so dont worry 😃😃