21/3 Analysis Unit: Arpita ki Saaya? - Page 9

Past present and future ...GC nailed it with his 3 different expression 👏👏

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Updated my take on Pg 1 ..all read it plss ./.

Some very important points to ponder 😊

1)Yash hates lies ..hmmm 😉..In future will he hate Aarti for the biggest lie about herself ??

2)Name change ..yes it happens ...among Muslims its common ...as per my friend ,its almost compulsary among Maharashtrians in Mumbai and even today in many rural places after marriage name is changed as per the Sasural's wish ..

Only debate is whether giving first wife ka name to second wife is fair or not 🤔...it is unfair and if Yash and Aarti successfully protests against it ,then CVs can actually send in a strong message to all those families who r actually following this rule in India to change a girl's name after marriage ...😊

3) Kangan Symbolism proves Aarti will remain Aarti forever :thanks to Samana ka superb take 👏👏 ..I just noticed the fact that Aarti is trying to detach her chunari from kangan and is successful in the end which is an indication that Aarti will never allow herself to become Arpita's shadow but will maintain her own identity ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️...Arpita's mom tried to bind her forcibly giving that kangan of Arpita ,but Aarti will detach herself from Arpita's shadown and will remain Aarti forever 😃

sorry, i disagree with you regarding the name changing custom among muslims...i am a muslim..i can say with 100% confidence that there is no such rule in islam...may be its practiced in a few regions...but its not a muslim custom...

I just finished watching the epi online plus have been following around the forum much heated discussion abt the epi..

@sns23: I think I have an explanation for why the Dubeys are doing what they are doing. For one thing as many discussed already, they are extremely guilty of what their son did to her and want to fix that mistake ASAP. That is the reason for the PV in the first place, along with the fact that they do genuinely love the girl like a daughter and want her life to be blissful and brimming with all things good, because she is a good kid and has been through a lot what with her losing her parents and then her husband.

Now, the reason for this PV is Yash and the Scindia parivaar, though the latter reason is crumbling now. In Yash they see someone who is worthy of their daughter and they know how rare it is to find that, given all of the harrowing PV-hunting experiences they have had. Yash is righteous (as proved by the overheard phone conversation), from a respectable family, young, successful, etc but most importantly he shares Aarti's need for his kids' other parent. Now Shobha may not know that that is the only reason but she does know that it is one of them and maybe she feels like they can bond over their respective tragic pasts and rebuild.

Finally, I think she is less vocal than she would be otherwise because she is cowering under the guilt of the BIG LIE. Anything the Dubeys demand seems justified because she is cheating them in such a big way but also wants this marraige to happen at any cost because lord knows when another man of Yash's calibre from a respected, well-off family is going to come knocking at their door!

It is another story that the Scindias are nowhere near as seedha sadha as they once seemed, but I think Shobha is convincing herself to grit her teeth and make this happen for Aarti and Ansh as well as to lighten her own load of guilt by her son's abandonment. This mirrors the dialogue that she said yesterday that she felt like a burden had been lifted off her after Aarti knew the truth. Clearly somewhere, this is about the Dubeys too.

Oh and where are my manners?

Welcome to the AU! 🤗

@Nightstarr and 123mitul :When I said muslims ..I meant a hindu-muslim marriage where a hindu girl's name is being changed to a muslim one ...there was a friend of mine who had to change her name to marry a muslim guy ..so I made that reference 😳...

About the name changing ritual ../to b honest every ritual is questionable in our society as every ritual has its own share of flaws ...no ritual is perfect ,.but people blindly follow rituals as per their own convenience and beliefs

If Shobha uses Ansh again as blackmail to get Aarti to change her name, I will be so angry. The sad thing is that this is probably what is going to happen. Shobha knows she can get Aarti to dance naked in a pit of snakes if she so much as mentions Ansh's wants.

But If Aarti keeps giving in like this for Ansh she is going to lose herself and begin resenting even the poor child. She will take it out on him when he is older and the vicious cycle of blackmail will go on and on.

Yash better say no changing Aarti's name tomorrow itself. Otherwise be ready for a formidable verbal tirade from yours truly! 😡

Anyhoo, on that happy note, I am off to bed. 😃

Happy discussing, all!

Article from TT ...very interesting ...cant post it full as the website is not allowed on IF ..so just a part of it 😳

Originally posted by: sns23

Over the past few episodes and now especially after today, I have been asking myself just one question - What is wrong with the Dubey's? I understand that the want to see Aarti settled and all and that Yash is a great guy - but haven't they seen how the rest of the Scindia's more importantly - how unforgivably nasty Gayatri is? Why are they so hell bent on getting their daughter married into the family ? To an extent that they even lied for it.. Maybe I'm beating a dead horse, but this I feel is the root cause of all the problems, misunderstanding. They are so desperate to get this done with that they have made themselves so very gullible and susceptible that now, they themselves have been delegated to the sidelines. Had they been a little more firm in their stance/stand, they could have voiced an objection to the 'Aarti is Arpitha resurrected' ideology.. I find it very difficult to accept submissiveness to this extent on their part.