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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sns23



I understand that, I agree that they feel the need to right the wrong that Prashant committed - and what they are doing is honestly appreciable.. But, they are committing a bigger mistake in the process.. Prashanth's betrayal was something Aarti could come to terms with - if not get over.. But this will be an even bigger betrayal - it is not just Aarti's future at stake here, it is primarily Ansh's future.. They want Ansh to have a father and family - What will that family do when they get to know that his biological father is alive?? Yash is a principled man, who will support Aarti, if he knows that she is completely ignorant of this whole deal.. But he will not be with them all the time right - Aarti and more importantly Ansh will face a whole load of trauma without any fault of theirs. I completely understand why the Dubey's did what they did, but considering the sort of circumstances that Aarti has gone through already, they could have been a little more thoughtful is what I feel.. They have ended up crippling themselves and Aarti in a horrible way :(


Shobha took the decision to bring Aarthi's and Yash together .the minute she heard him stand up to his Parents on the telephone ...In a joint family where the Patriach's word is the law..It took immense guts and character for Yash to do that.. Shobha is indeed taking a risk without thinking of the potential disaster coming Aarthi's way..But she knows how desperate Yash's kids need a mother. Scindia's came to Dubey's seeking alliance not the other way around. Prolly they think time will set things right .😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
@all superb analysis guys.
Loved reading dem all.
Today was one of d most action packed episodes.
Just that name changing thing was not acceptable but i know it won't happen.
Arya won't let that happen.
Dis name changing ritual was new for me have never heard about dis.
N it was quite a turn off for me too.
Hoping for another super episode 2morrow.
N GC in shower n towel was looking ufffyummmaa..
N finally was a relief to hear his voice n more screen space too.
I am glad GC was brilliant in that past present transition scene.
I loved it to d core.
N finally instead of cry baby we got hockey stick aarthi back.
All in all it was an amazing epi.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06

@Sur :Yup I wondered the same about kangans as well after Yash sees that flashback of Arpita where she was wearing the kangan but then in present its with Arpita's parents 😕...it could b either a blooper or mayb Arpita's mom wanted to keep that kangan with her as Arpita's only memory since rest of the belongings r with Yash 🤔



I don't know but I feel it would be really a rare chance to give it to Aarpita's parents that too by Yash...The way he lovingly saw it in the flashback scene but it may happen as said by Samnalyse that he seemed haunted by the sound of those kangans ...can it be the reason that after so many he heard the sound of those kangans that he had to part away and now its coming back to him ...Like love from his life has gone with Aarpita but will return in form of AArti...(sorry very poor in finding symbolism😳)
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Here I m hoping that in future Yash will stand in support of Aarti whenever her in-laws try to supress her or put her down ...

Something which Prashant never did ..that is supporing Aarti in life ...



In due course of time, he most definitely will. But for whatever reasons I hope he puts his foot down and stops this name changing business..

That being said, I loved the scene between Shobha and Aarti when she finally puts haldi.. the accusation in Aarti's eyes - saying how could you give what is just yours to someone else? And the understanding, the adoration and the pacifying in Shobha's eyes and actions.. Beautifully done scene.. Perfectly summarizes a mother's feelings during her daughter's wedding!
I soo hope Shobha stays the same and does not get mutated by evil tv mom genes..
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Posted: 13 years ago
One thing about Shobha we r forgetting ..in her mind Shobha still thinks Aarti knows the main truth about divorcee lie ...
So mayb Shobha thinks if Aarti is fine with the lie and already compromised regarding that divorcee issue ..then name changing will b nothing in front of that big lie ...
But little does Shobha know that Aarti knows nothing about that big lie ...
Shobha just feels once marriage happens ,Yash will b Aarti's savior and this whole name change fiasco will just pass away post marriage ...😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
Oh my god.
STILL reeling from the events of the episode and the incredible discussions in here. Fantastic, fantastic points brought up by everyone.
The more I think about everything I saw in the episode, the more I'm convinced that although we are mostly upset and disturbed by this name-changing and turning-Aarti-into-Arpita's-saaya riwaz, this is the point that the writers want to drive home. The screenplay and performances are doing that perfectly! This is drama. We react, but then we reflect...
All I really have the coherence to say at this point is "Poor, poor Aarti!"
She has SO many hurdles to face, and each one is tougher than the previous one...They just keep on stacking up, with no end in sight - Mira's comment (on page 12, I think) about what Aarti is going to have to deal with as a result of this punar vivaah sums it up very nicely.
I'm thinking about how Gurmeet and Kratika's characters were originally going to be called Siddharth and Smriti in the show...Interesting that it was "Smriti"...now that Aarti is basically being forced into the position of reviving the memory or smriti of a much loved deceased woman, I find it very interesting that the name was changed...I don't think I'd have been able to handle the emotional upheaval of that sort of link if the female protagonist's name hadn't been changed to "Aarti."
It's fantastic that a show like this one is bringing up all sorts of issues that we may not have considered before...Things that we, like Aarti, have never had to face...Aarti as a character and symbol of today's Indian woman is of increasing interest to me, especially now after this episode and the precap for tomorrow. How she deals with all of the obstacles that the past (both her own past and Yash's past) is throwing at her and how she finally pierces through Yash's unyielding exterior to settle in his heart forever is going to be an amazing journey to watch. The tagline of this show really couldn't be more apt: Yash and Aarti will have to battle the memories of their "past life" and the complicated, crisscrossing, suffocating links of that life to their present to be able to finally let go and begin a new life...together.
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Posted: 13 years ago
of course I havent seen the epi since i am at work but just read through everyone analysis and got a brief idea
a) I agree with jyoti if a hindu girl comes into a muslim family the name changes .. as we muslims cant accept hindu names ...etc etc ...but normally in a muslim marriage it dosent change ...in a hindu-hindu marriage with remarriage seems to be an abnormal custom ...who knows if this happens
b) hmmm so gc strips again ;) ...ah common people tell me its not for TRPs ;)
c) so many melodrams in the first 25 epis ... I dread to think what will happen further
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Posted: 13 years ago
I was kind of upset with Yash's attitude today. He said he doesn't want to share her things with anyone, he can share kids, aren't they hers too??
Why get married if you have so many issues within you, feel really bad for Aarti. Being a girl she doesn't get choice and he can put conditions.
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Posted: 13 years ago
What makes the situation even more sad, is that both Aarti and Yash have no idea what they are in for..
Aarti is doing this solely for Ansh - nothing else is more important than her son for her, and she is just thinking about his needs. Similarly - Yash is doing it only for his daughters. To an extent I think Yash has accepted the fact that he will have to marry someone else, bu I dont think Aarti has.. She is just going with the flow. But when the bubble breaks, and she has to go home to the Scindia house, where she will not have her Ma to bring her food if she misses a meal, or her bauji who is a pillar of strength - it will all come crashing down on her.
Yash on the other hand - has removed his heart and soul from this equation - all that is left in him for this wedding is indifference. Which is why I felt that even if he did get to know that Aarti was a divorcee, it wouldn't matter to him - for afterall - he wants a mother for his daughters, not a wife.. When he himself is living in the past, he cannot pull up Aarti for her past..

But all the indifference and misconceptions apart, if Yash and Aarti dont fight for what they hold dearest to them - Arpita's identity for Yash and Aarti for her own self, they will end up regretting it for the rest of their lives. New relationships cannot be built with old bricks.. Arpita's name will bring the end of this relationship even before it begins!

The Scindia's want to idolize Arpita and keep her in the equation forever - but they needn't rename Aarti for that - she will always be present in her two daughter's. And I cannot bring myself to empathise with Arpita's parents, they needn't have to claim someone else's daughter as their own to fill the emptiness in their lives.
At the end of the day, Aarti is not a doll who can be made to wear whatever costume suits the people she is with. I soo soo hope Yash doesn't agree to whatever blackmail he is put through..

Edited by sns23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Just finished going through the thread. Wonderful and soul-stirring discussions everyone.👏

The Great Takeover: In corporate terms, that would be the term used for the two takeovers today: First, Shobha's rights as a mother given to Arpita's mother. Second, and the shocker of the day, Arpita's dead identity imposed on Aarti. Were the takeovers a master stroke of Mother Scindia? Were they done to placate Arpita's family, because for some reason other than Yash's obsessive attachment with their dead daughter, they have some kind of hold on Yash's family?
I ask this for two reasons: First, like Yash, Arpita's mother too seemed to be still deeply grieving her daughter, not unnatural, but considering its a quite a while that Arpita's gone, she still doesn't seem to have come to terms with the loss, and in fact came prepared to resurrect her. That, like Samana said, is creepy. That throws some light on Arpita's mother's mental condition----not sound at all. Second, the senior Scindias never came across as emotionally charged people, never showed giving in to impulses, never showed that their heart rules the mind. How is it that they are in total acceptance to such an emotional appeal from Arpita's mother, knowing fully well what Yash feels about Arpita? In the name of custom? Naah!!! They are ones who wanted to break the mould and get a vidhwa for their son, remember? They didn't follow the rules there. Some things are just not adding up here.

Aarti Nahin Haarti: Aarti was keeping a low profile so far. She blew up the first time when she saw her parents bowing down to Scindias' demands and incurring expenses beyond their means---this marriage was putting her parents' old age into jeopardy. She came out strongly when her own identity was put on stake. The fighter in Aarti is slowly but surely emerging, and it'll be interesting to see how she faces the conundrum, with all righteousness and head held high. She is an orphan, was married to a loser, had great in-laws; her name is all that she has in the form of a legacy. She will stand up for that one thing that is really her own, her identity.

Yash in a Maze Called Arpita: He has trapped himself in this self-created memory maze, and is happy to be stuck there. When the maze was threatened with another name, the soft-spoken, mild-mannered Yash thundered like a bull; this territory was his soul link to his love, and someone was trying to encroach. But one long-remembered tinkling sound, and he wants to step out to explore, wants to know who is associating with the sound his love made; so, unwittingly he follows that one person who'll ultimately be his key out of this morbid maze

So, that's it. My two cents. Just loving the show. I'm glad they are taking the story forward nicely woven with the marriage rituals, and not making it jerky jumping from one to another.
Edited by InduG64 - 13 years ago

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