Aarti's Issue with men in general..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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After watching whole week Episodes I noticed one very interesting thing in Aarti's nature or behaviour towards men in general 🤔...
Aarti in the shopping mall slaps that guy for trying to touch her but later when she returns home she tells her MIL that she should hv said sorry to the guy and should not hv slapped him ...but in front of that guy in the mall she acted tough ...
Then Aarti shows a hocky stick to Pratik for asking money 😆 and later in the train even though Pratik helps her out in front of that tickey checker ,but still Aarti hesitates to thank him and continuously addresses him as a gunda 😆 ..But when she comes back to her MIL in the train ,she tells her that a "Good type of gunda" helped her out 😆.So basically she appreciates Pratik for helping her out but in front of Pratik she acted tough and does not really appreciate him
Then Aarti on phone rudely talks to Yash regarding the advance money but Yash still agrees to give her the money because he feels that she is right but still Aarti does not appreciate Yash's fair decision on phone .. but later in front of Pratik she does appreciate that his brother is a fair guy 😉😳...So again the same thing ,she appreciates Yash in front of someone else but she does not appreciate him directly on his face ...
Moral of the story is Aarti has a certain issue with men in general especially after she was betrayed by her ex-husband who left her for another girl ...She is scared to appreciate or trust Men on their face because she feels later she might face betrayal or disappointment from that same guy ...So she is over-defensive in front of men but mayb behind their back ,she will appreciate them if they r genuinely good ...Its the trust factor which Aarti has completely lost over men after what Prashant did with her and so she has taken for granted that No Men can think in a right way ......
She is either apprehensive to speak to any men like we saw in that toilet encounter scene between ArYa where she does not even look at Yash when he says excuse-me 😉 or she tries to b extra-rude with men because somewhere she feels that being a divorcee ,guys might try taking advantage of her ..Also she makes sure never to appreciate them on their face even if they r good because like I said she has lost the trust factor over any men whether they r good ,bad or ugly ...
Will this punarvivaah with Yash change Aarti's general thinking and attitude towards men remains to b seen now ...🤔

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Posted: 13 years ago
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completely agreed.. aarti's clearly knows what she is doing ...but she doesn't want to get hurt by some one by trusting a person or appreciating them what they r.. she is just maintaining a safe distance from men which she vl feel good for her however one day she is going to be madly in love with yash which we all knew 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jyoti didi hats off to ur patience 1st as u summed up whole week episode over here👏

I think in general being a Divorcee Arti has a bad image about men in her mind so only she is behaving like that towards all men irrespective of their character...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pesi11

completely agreed.. aarti's clearly knows what she is doing ...but she doesn't want to get hurt by some one by trusting a person or appreciating them what they r.. she is just maintaining a safe distance from men which she vl feel good for her however one day she is going to be madly in love with yash which we all knew 😉

Yes exactly ..she does not want to get hurt for the second time again ..the reason why even if she realises that the guy is good or the guy is not really at fault ,she hesitates to thank them or appreciate them in front ...because she has lost that trust and so she is not sure whether what she is thinking for a particular guy is completely right or not ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Strawbella

Jyoti didi hats off to ur patience 1st as u summed up whole week episode over here👏


I think in general being a Divorcee Arti has a bad image about men in her mind so only she is behaving like that towards all men irrespective of their character...

yesss basically she did a love marriage ..which means she trusted a guy ..loved him ..married him ...but her trust was broken in a very ugly manner ..thats the reason she is afraid of trusting any other men in her life ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent analysis of Aarti's character... I completely agree with you...after her husband's betrayal she was so hurt that she is afraid of trusting any man ...so of-course it will be worth watching how will this punarvivah with Yash help to change Aarti's attitude towards men...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Nilam-

Excellent analysis of Aarti's character... I completely agree with you...after her husband's betrayal she was so hurt that she is afraid of trusting any man ...so of-course it will be worth watching how will this punarvivah with Yash help to change Aarti's attitude towards men...

Actually Yash seems to exactly opposite to Aarti in this case ..Yash does not hv a painful past like Aarti and he still loves his dead wife ..thats why he does not hv the trust issue regarding women ..we saw he easily trusts Aarti's judgements on phone and agrees to give her the advance money ...so I guess its the opposite views and past experiences of these two individuals which will bring them close post marriage 😳...
Aarti will see that not all men are like Prashant when she will notice how Yash is still in love with his first wife even though she does not exist today 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Actually arti feels that prashant took advantage of her vulnarability (she is an orphan) so this time again she does not want to trust anyone & advantage of her being a divorcee somewhere she feels that all men are oppurtunists I will not comment much on yash's past as its yet to be told & according to TB articles their marriage did had some secrets
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priya291188

Actually arti feels that prashant took advantage of her vulnarability (she is an orphan) so this time again she does not want to trust anyone & advantage of her being a divorcee somewhere she feels that all men are oppurtunists I will not comment much on yash's past as its yet to be told & according to TB articles their marriage did had some secrets

Yess Yash's past is still kept a mystry and we dunno how Arpita's death happened and how was their relationship when she was alive ...mayb all will b revealed after their remarriage ...
But so far looking at Yash's cool and composed nature and also his self-talks with his wife's photo ,it seems from his POV he had no issues with his wife and still love her 🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice points..Jyoti 😊
I m sure Aarti's view will change once she has a good look at Yash 😆

Yes as I said she is in All-men-are- Errr.. Stupid mode.. 😆 hence her reaction I feel is kind of exaggerated and impulsive when it comes to men esp after what she has been through..

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