Hi everyone!!! You can call me start as the name says or mursy whichever you like 😉
Ok so I was busy with stupid exams and start the show with everyone else BUT I am all caught up with episodes now so here is a little something what I think'
First of all can I just say that I love the pace if the show: its not too fast where it seems like its missing things and its not slow as a snail's pace- it seems perfect at the moment as we are seeing both character's history and at the same time seeing the kind of people they have become based on the situations they have been presented with.
A few facts:
1. Yash's wife name Arpita and Aarthi's name both start with an A 😳
2. Arthi has a son and Yash has two daughters opposites to what they could deal with
3. Yash's sister seems to be the bad guy of the show (so far)😈
4. Yash's kids have no problem with a new mother coming- In fact they are asking when a new mother will come😊
5. Both Yash and Aarthi need each other in their lives but Yash needs Aarthi more contrary to societal believes ( will discuss this)
6. Aarthi and her mother in law's relationship is one of the bright aspects of the show
7. Both Aarthi and Yash's families seem to be on the modern side- Aarthi's family more so than Yash's family but his is not all that orthodox either ( loved Aarthi and her mother- in law both changing into night gown/comfortable cloths for sleeping- my biggest problem with other shows where they sleep a ton of make up and double that jewelry)
8. Both Yash and Aarthi are super protective(or overprotective) of their children and would do anything for him
9. Yash will have a hard time accepting Aarthi because he loved his wife but I think Aarthi will have an even harder time accepting Yash because while she might still love her ex-husband but the betrayal overshadows that love and she will have trouble accepting any man in her life after that because she doesn't trust them L
If anyone else can think of anything that I forgot to put up here please tell me! 😊
Now about Aarthi and Yash needing each other in their lives- what stood out the most to me is it seems like Yash needs Aarthi in regards to his children more than Aarthi needs him contrary to societal views that Aarthi needs a man in her life. While both parents are important in a child's life, even though Aarthi's son wants his father and thinks all the gifts given to him is from his father but that too is Aarthi's doing as even though the father was piece a s**t for leaving them she still gave her child a portrait of a perfect father who gives his son anything he wants. I love the fact that Aarthi fulfills anything her son asks in his letters. Now in regards to Aarthi needing Yash in her life and a father figure in her son's life- they do need him and I am not saying they don't need him but its not because Aarthi can't handle everything on her own contrary to what society would believe so. She needs Yash in her life because her son needs a living breathing father figure in his life and she needs a life partner in life to share her life with him.
Yash on the other hand NEEDS Aarthi in his life but mostly for his daughters. While Aarthi seems to have things under control in regards to her house and working outside- Yash doesn't have that. He doesn't have things under control at his house because even though it has been years since his wife died he still hasn't accepted that fact and been there for his kids. His kids are left to be carried by his mother and sister-in-law and its true that their nice people but they could never be a mother to those kids and that's something he could never change. He told them if they can't care for his kids and leave them to servants to tell him and he will take care of them himself- but he hasn't even learned how to brush his daughter's hair properly and he has been caring for her for the past three years.
I found this very interesting because the society we live in we often think that a woman with a child NEEDS a man but Aarthi has proven that she doesn't need him for the traditional role of working and feeding the family but rather needs him as a companion and Angsh a father figure.
If you actually made to the end of this post of me yuping and yupping😆 then I applaud you 👏
Do tell what you guys think!!!
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