Parallels of Aarthi and Yash's characters - Page 3

Originally posted by: urworstnitemare

SO I haven't been on IF for AGES! Nor have I posted anything but your 'yupping' kinda made me :P Notice the quotation marks- I didn't think you were 'yupping' at all, in fact, I enjoyed reading your post!

I think your analysis is bang on there! But I don't know if Aarti is looking for or needs a companion, maybe that's just the feminist in speaking. I feel like she is at a very vulnerable spot right now and is content being what she is, a mother.
And I can see why these two are so against the whole concept of remarriage, especially Aarti- remarriages can either be really good or very very horrid! Kudoos to the gal if she DOES agree to marry again- I would never be able to do that if I went through a betrayal like hers. Like you said, Aarti and her son don't seem to be needing a man in their life per say as much as Yash needs a mother for his kids...and I don't see Aarti being emotionally blackmailed by her MIL into a serious commitment like that either- in fact, I don't want Aarti to be blackmailed!

The show is going very well so far, but like you pointed out, its been like 3+ years, and the guy still doesn't know how to comb his daughters hair? I don't know, but that really bugged me. Maybe it shows how reliant he is on others when it comes to raising his daughters but...gah! He should be more independent! He should man up and learn how to not just claim that he is capable of taking care of his daughters, he needs to buck up and do it!

Woah! Talk about a being all over the place there! haha. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!!!!

Originally posted by: -enchanted-

Agree with the points. Yash's situation is actually a bit more difficult and complex than Aarti. There is of course the fact that even today Mother is considered the 'nourisher' and father the 'provider'. Taking care of kids comes naturally to mother esp,when they are so young. But that's not all that is to it. Yash can learn the ropes too with a little support and patience from his family and daughters. But that seems to be lacking. In Aarti's case.she shares a very beautiful bond with her son, and even Ansh seems mature in his own way. He writes that he misses his Dad in letters,but never says it outright to Aarti,in a way that could hurt her. Whereas in case of Yash as soon as he wasnt able to do his daughter's hair properly,his daughters spoke outright,that Dad doesnt know a thing and why dont they have a mother. And it did hurt him,you could see it in his defeated expressions.His smile just vanished. Ansh, on the other hand,it seems somehow,has better understanding of the situation. Maybe because his world revolves only around his mother as he has no siblings. Whereas Palak and Payal, it seems are more involved with teasing or fighting with each other while their father,fades into background.

Then of course Yash cant be there all the time for his girls,as he has a job to do. We dont know if Aarti,has one too. But even if she has there are Ansh's grandparents to take care of him. In Yash's case it his Bhabhi has her own family to look after and would be her first priority. His mother has to run the house. So despite their best intentions they may not be able to give Payal and Palak,the attention the require.

Originally posted by: Allbut1

Lovely analysis...Agree with everything you pointed out! Especially the part where you said that Yash will be needing Aarti more in his life than Aarti will be needing him.

I hadn't really thought about this before, but you raise some wonderful points and provide a bang on reasoning behind all of them, I really enjoyed reading them. After reading your post and then rewatching the episode, there is definitely no doubt that Yash's life is spiraling more out of control than Aarti's. Since Aarti is a mother, she has that natural instinct of taking care and nurturing Ansh, but Yash doesn't have that. He still struggles to do the smallest tasks for his daughters, and since they're two of them it becomes even harder to take care of them.

That's why I have been thinking that Aarti will have a mush easier time bonding and getting close to the girls than Yash will have with Ansh. But either way, watching how the relationships form between Aarti, Yash and the kids is basically the crux of the show, and I for one can't wait to see how they deal with that!

Originally posted by: ksnforums

I like the post .
Ur r right of the two Aarti seems to be more stronger and with her ma in law support she seems to be doing a decent job of of living her life and raising her child.

Yash on the other hand seems to be missing his wife a lot is living in the past.
Will be interesting to see how the two get along with the daily conundrums of living together but without the emotional and physical connect.

Originally posted by: maanddy

loved Aarthi and her mother- in law both changing into night gown/comfortable cloths for sleeping- my biggest problem with other shows where they sleep a ton of make up and double that jewelry) I agree, I really never understand why these people sleep with heavy sari and ornaments ON? Isn't it irritating? I can hardly breathe when I wear this kind of heavy sarees and Jewellery...Though I have worn sari for only 3 times...😆