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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: harianjana

I truly still was scratching my head about the character of Sarita...As far upto me, even though they didn't show a POV of Raj, I can understand it...

Raj always was different from his family, and he who was more interested in art, some how fell in love with Divya, and loved her. He teached her how to be a proper girl, and made her what she is today. For me.. Raj considers Divya as his own and had whole emotional base on her. When she went away, he lost his emotional base and became detatched. I am okay with Raj's character till now.. Yes, but because of his bubble world... he made every one suffer.

And Divya... she was the most clear character for me, except for the reason why she stayed away from Raj. She was behaving like a normal girl, as human. A girl if she loves a boy truly, will think of him as her whole world, and gets obsessed with him. And thats what happened with Divya also, but she indeed decided to accept the truth and move on. As far I loved Divya... she was a bit more matured compared in the three...

And now come to the biggest caricature for me in the show...
Sarita... She know before marriage that Raj don't love her, and as far as what her characterisation was shown today, she was not a girl who fall for obligations easily. So why did she marry Raj, is it because she loved him. Okay, so for me it's sarita who appears to be more posessed and obsessed with Raj... and was the one who blames others for her mistakes. She was blaming every one except Raj for her situation, when it was Raj and herself, who was to be blamed. So I can't sympathise wiht her character at all...

And I am lookign forward for some scenes of Divya and Raj only, because those were the scenes where I can't find the competition of screaming


As for Divya , i think she was impressionable age . I have my full sympathy with Sarita as have seen this kind of situation with many woman , already said money does not give you class , Its the circumstances in life which brings change in you . I can not understand , why Raj did not tell sarita himself about his marriage before getting married . why to blame girls always May be she was also told that things will be alright after marriage . When all the time house is comparing her with CB,s cb and about her sacrifices in the show . how will she feel , sometimes you just break down and she became just like them . you heard her screaming , but you felt her pain . Here Divya is not at all at blame . Problem is , what happened when sarita heard all this , is not unfolded yet . so i am with open mind . yes i am not in favor of Raj kind of person who are without backbone in real life and succumbed to pressure , spoils another person,s life also


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Neerjaa


As for Divya , i think she was impressionable age . I have my full sympathy with Sarita as have seen this kind of situation with many woman , already said money does not give you class , Its the circumstances in life which brings change in you . I can not understand , why Raj did not tell sarita himself about his marriage before getting married . why to blame girls always May be she was also told that things will be alright after marriage . When all the time house is comparing her with CB,s cb and about her sacrifices in the show . how will she feel , sometimes you just break down and she became just like them . you heard her screaming , but you felt her pain . Here Divya is not at all at blame . Problem is , what happened when sarita heard all this , is not unfolded yet . so i am with open mind . yes i am not in favor of Raj kind of person who are without backbone in real life and succumbed to pressure , spoils another person,s life also


agree with u di...
I am leaving Divya for a while here and agree with u about Sarita...
Okay she got married because she was told by her in laws every thing will be okay after marriage, if so ten years is a great time, and it appears that she was confident about her parents supporting her, so she could have break it up. but no she didn't do it, and if we thought Sarita did it because of the obligations pertaining to her family, then she wouldn't have directly challenged her MIL about sending her away. So its what that makes out to be more complex for me
and also, it was clearlyevident that Sarita loves Raj... And that makes me more fused because, I didn't understand even now what made Sarita love Raj, because Sarita viewed Raj in a totally different way,I mean he was very much chaged. So why she loved him?
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: harianjana

agree with u di...

I am leaving Divya for a while here and agree with u about Sarita...
Okay she got married because she was told by her in laws every thing will be okay after marriage, if so ten years is a great time, and it appears that she was confident about her parents supporting her, so she could have break it up. but no she didn't do it, and if we thought Sarita did it because of the obligations pertaining to her family, then she wouldn't have directly challenged her MIL about sending her away. So its what that makes out to be more complex for me
and also, it was clearly evident that Sarita loves Raj... And that makes me more fused because, I didn't understand even now what made Sarita love Raj, because Sarita viewed Raj in a totally different way,I mean he was very much changed. So why she loved him?


Hari , in arranged marriages when you are engaged to the person , you already have given him place in your heart and start weaving the dreams . She does not know about Raj earlier and heart at the last moment when all were waiting to Raj to appear .God knows what happened after that but she was shocked . Were it her parents who told her it was just fling he would forget her , Raj,s parents who convinced her that that girl nothing to Raj as she was from rich family and Raj,s parents looks greedy kind as its rags to riches background with no class . you can not forget your roots or set up , it remains engraved in you ..And how long you can live without saying anything in that crass atmosphere where you are daily compared with Soap ,s DIL who is like cow . and taunted . its just matter of survival . You do not have your husband support when that guy know how she is being treated .
Divya is not involved here but indirectly she was dragged .Why many indian woman stays in the marriage after getting physically and mentally abused . In conservative family mental set up is closed .
And Divya was quite young that time in impressionable age where she was attracted to Raj . If she would have been married in that family at that time , all the love would have been gone out of the window . Raj is weak person who can not take stand .
waiting for the story to unfold ,as Sarita,s outburst cleared many things ..If she was convinced about Raj ,then she was happy and waiting for him at her wedding night .


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Posted: 12 years ago
Seriously i thing there is gonna be a love triangle as being shown now but it looks like Sarita might turn negative(although i don't want that to happen)
Edited by Asyaforever - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Asyaforever

Seriously i thing there is gonna be a love triangle as being shown now but it looks like Sarita might turn negative(although i don't want that to happen)


Sarita might not turn negative but Divya is definitely going to turn a mahan Devi
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: JaiJagannath


Sarita might not turn negative but Divya is definitely going to turn a mahan Devi


If you care for the people or as Divya did , being herself in her teens , took the responsibility of her younger siblings ,Struggled in Mumbai , how she would have coped with the harsh realities of life alone is not a small deed . She is not bossy or wants gratitude from her siblings , Listens to them , quite humble person ..Yes must have felt hurt when Sarita accused her of ruining her marriage when she was nowhere in the picture directly . Do not blame Sarita , she was not thinking straight , in her desperation after listening that her marriage is ruined because of the person , is getting married herself . that was the last straw for her , 10years long period ,getting only abuses and tauntings from that crap house , without any support from the person who married her . Here none is at fault . Sarita does not know the real person Divya or about her actions 10 years ago . Divya being a responsible , honest person , listening to Sarita,s accusations feels herself guilty somewhere . I do not think she needs to be called mahan devi . In real life also few people still left who think about others before themselves .
For me its Raj , who is the person who has to sort himself out . It was really sad when Sarita left the house and standing outside his shop looking at him with tears in her eyes and he just threw one glance at her side and was busy with her work . if you have a animal at home you are attached to that person , if he was not interested in marriage why did he married a girl and then telling her that he can not accept her . Poor girl goes on suffering as a maid for all these years . I do not find this story love triangle . It can be mature subject , handled with reasoning ,without turning anyone negative . but in this TV world , with the channel , impatient to have immediate TRPs ,may hinder the storyline
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Posted: 12 years ago
Neerja is absolutely right, feel sorry for all four who are involved. Sarita & Raj are not bad persons, but what had occurred in their life have made them very bitter towards the only person who they think is the cause of all the bitterness in their life, and Sarita thinks Divya is the cause, she is the solution too. While Divya is unknown about this fact, she could have asked Raj why he didn't wait for her, when she did for ten years but she didn't. Her nature is not shown like that, she is shown to be very understanding person & she accepted the fact & decided to go on with her family's wishes. She is NOT shown to be "MAHAAN" but very understanding person. And that is the fact which is seen in her own family. And that is how it should be in real life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
just curious Is this D rani's project for to fix Raj and his wife 's marriage or she wants stay dil ke qareeb to Raj babu..?...with her old wine love.😕 whatever it is i would prefer her to stay with under her burkha ...
Girl!! dont show ur face as u r on duty of Mission impossible..😆
cvs where do u get this weird story ?😕
btw my NAYI UMEED already has been started to shaky ...😆
Edited by kinara17 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
lolzzz
I can't my self from stop laughing when I read many points here...
truly... I am scratching my head...
haan but in my second here, I will definitely present a research paper on different types of mind, based on here
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: kinara17

just curious Is this D rani's project for to fix Raj and his wife 's marriage or she wants stay dil ke qareeb to Raj babu..?...with her old wine love.😕 whatever it is i would prefer her to stay with under her burkha ...
Girl!! dont show ur face as u r on duty of Mission impossible..😆
cvs where do u get this weird story ?😕
btw my NAYI UMEED already has been started to shaky ...😆

Kinara, glad to see ME here (and of course you too) cuz just came totally heartbroken from BRKD cuz all my letters to the PH, Z had no effect. How could they? I sent them when it was TOO LATE. How can you revive a DEAD PERSON?? Decision was already made, but was hoping against hope.
That said and trying to revive my own emotional self, came here, signed up for NL1 (since was very active on the NL there), saw EDTPVENU, familiar names, and most of all AGREE WITH YOU. Why? Cuz yest when watching this epi, I said WHAT? Ouch My reaction same as Gaurav's. Our CB already knows that MISSION is IMPOSSIBLE. But to make it possible requires someone like her, right?
Whether she stays in burka or not, so so glad that Sarita STOPPED HER COLD, as moi predicted.
Dekhna yeh hai ki what happens aage aage. Is Divya going to be a naukarani from Sarita's mayka/village whatever?

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