baa and bajal are responsible for turning hetal in to a bad DIL...from the beginning when ambaji was telling hetal to change herself for them baa started her advice of never listening to your in laws...they kept giving her bad advise...when hetal was asked to cook for everybody...it was bejal who influenced her to only cook for karan...and till now they havent given her one good advice.,..
bejal tried to break mona and anu's marriage by bringing another girl and trying to get her close to anu which is the most disgusting thing ever...she influenced the girl to go after a married man and still makes life hell for mona...
so these two have no right to ask amabji for any explanations or judge her or talk about sanskar since they have none themselves...instead they should be thankful that after all their deeds ambaji still forgave them and kept them in the house where HER son is the sole earner
if she can forgive these two then they better accept ambaji and aditya...