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Posted: 14 years ago
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what did she instigate?? oh the chaii was too strong so she didn't want to drink it?? for that she should lose her baby and get thrown out of her house? yeah she instigated oh so much. she kept her mouth shut when hetal insulted her too whereas hetal sat there and talked bad about her to everyone in her home. yeah you are right sweety is the bad one hetal and hetal is so good! what has hetal even done to get anyone's respect. hetal is the worse character i have ever seen in a serial i hope she gets thrown out of the house soon. she was such a brat to mona when mona was helping her out and getting her married even that wasn't mona's fault and mona had to suffer so much. this is hetal's fault if hetal doesn't get punished now i'm done with this show. she's so ugly inside and out.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: muktha_cute

sweety deserves for wat all she had done to hetal
she used 2 always instigate and insult hetal
bhabhi ke samne toh sher ban ke phir ti hain par apni sasural mein billi
apna sara akhad hetal pe joh dikati hain y dnt she try it on her sasural


Nobody deserves to lose a baby. N o b o d y.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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If hetal is bad than Sweety is bad too just not as bad
But Vimmi is a match for Hetal. Vimmi is supposed to be an aunt-chachi. She acts and talks immature to Hetal. How will anyone teach hetal when she is wrong..I think Vimmi has ruled in Bedi family for tooo long that she forgets when a new bahu comes in the family even if she acts stupid or evil being elder she must teach her right and not stoop to her level.
What Vimmi said to Hetal in hospital room abt half heartedly trying to save sweety was so uncalled for. Hetal has been bad and she should have ignored Sweety's disliking Tea or whatever. Hetal's last sentence about Sweetie and the baby was very cruel which led Sweetie to leave the house. Hetal realized she made a mistake so she tried stopping her but too late dono me khinchaai huvi and sweety fell down the stairs.
Indirectly and to some extent I do blame Hetal for creating a situation which led to this accident..
If Hetal needs lesson than so does VImmi and Swetie.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yeah fine and i didn't see hetal having any sense on how to treat her new babhi. new husband. new sister in law. or new aunt. when hetal got mad at sweety about the earings...vimmy very nicely told her to share and the next time she wants anythign they will buy her ten times more than what she asks for as long as she keeps her heart pure. what did hetal do wtih athtat oh yeah get mona in trouble and hate vimmy chachi. when the new clothes came vimmy chachi gave hetal exactly the clothes she liked and wanted. hetal just kept being such a jerk that finally vimmy chachi stopped adn i don't blame here either. hetal and her parents made mona's life hell for a while and when mona's life got better hetal tried her best to make it stay hell. and now hetal comes into mona's house and makes her' family's life hell. and vimmy chachi is the bad one? what vimmy chachi si doign is standing up for herself and pointing out what is wrong as is an elder's job. chaiji very nicely explained to hetal after she made the car comment that it was innappropriate what did hetal do? did she stop? everyone's been explaining adn trying to teach ehr the stupid girl just wont' listen to anyone.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Are bhai we all agree Hetal has been bad. No one is disagreeing to that.
Vimmi has been nice and tried teaching Hetal and now she has probably given up on her so being the way she is.
But what I am saying is Vimmi being an elder and Chachi she should act bit more mature and handle situation better that is all. No one is blaming Vimmi completely here.
Fui, Hetal and Vimmi all have something in common. Immaturity to some level..My explanation and 2 paise.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Are bhai we all agree Hetal has been bad. No one is disagreeing to that.

Vimmi has been nice and tried teaching Hetal and now she has probably given up on her so being the way she is.
But what I am saying is Vimmi being an elder and Chachi she should act bit more mature and handle situation better that is all. No one is blaming Vimmi completely here.
Fui, Hetal and Vimmi all have something in common. Immaturity to some level..My explanation and 2 paise.


I think Vimmi being elder wants to be respected, she once said that both Amrit and She are MIL not Hetal..

I have not seen Vimmi lying, insulting her husband calling him names, sulking all time, talking bad behind family members back or tying to break up the family. Vimmi is loving and giving member of Bedi family, she loves her husband and all the family members.

Vimmi has raised a very decent daughter and she doesn't give any bad advice to her, it is due to her sanskar Mona is so loving and has build a strong family.

There is no comparison between Vimmi and Hetal, they are like night and day.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I will put it this way . Maturity and open arm welcome has NOT worked with Hetal as far as I see it . No one here can say that the Bedis did not welcome her with open arms and warmth and that it was SHE who rejected it all , simply by listening to that aunt Fui who taught her Hetli all kind of WRONG things .

So maybe an immature , Eye for an Eye approach will work better ? Feels Good to see Sweety not taking anything from her anymore . Feels good to see her being wary of Vimmy . Feels good to see her squirming under Kalavati's taunts .

Where has she responded to Chaiji's Maturity ? Where has she responded to Karan 's understanding ? Where has she responded positively to Gurnam and Satnam's fatherly love ? She only took ADVANTAGE of maturity of elders and behaved like an absolute jerk .

Maturity of elders should not be confused for weakness . The bad eggs of the younger generation need to realise it ASAP . Or they sit on the HEAD . They even go so far to insult an elder and take away his or her dignity , if unchecked .

And thats exactly what Hetal did . She maligned her ENTIRE sasural by telling LIES about them to her family ...that they are dowry demanding greedy mongers . When in reality they were decent people who never would dream of such a thing .

Their kindness , maturity was taken advantage of . She started taking them for granted and stripped them of their dignity behind their backs by sullying their reputation .

So one sees that maturity and Kindness has NOT worked well with Hetal . Its like feeding milk to a snake . A little bit of the SAME behaviour that she exhibits , if given back to her in proprtionate doses , will work WONDERS .

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I will put it this way . Maturity and open arm welcome has NOT worked with Hetal as far as I see it . No one here can say that the Bedis did not welcome her with open arms and warmth and that it was SHE who rejected it all , simply by listening to that aunt Fui who taught her Hetli all kind of WRONG things .


So maybe an immature , Eye for an Eye approach will work better ? Feels Good to see Sweety not taking anything from her anymore . Feels good to see her being wary of Vimmy . Feels good to see her squirming under Kalavati's taunts .

Where has she responded to Chaiji's Maturity ? Where has she responded to Karan 's understanding ? Where has she responded positively to Gurnam and Satnam's fatherly love ? She only took ADVANTAGE of maturity of elders and behaved like an absolute jerk .

Maturity of elders should not be confused for weakness . The bad eggs of the younger generation need to realise it ASAP . Or they sit on the HEAD . They even go so far to insult an elder and take away his or her dignity , if unchecked .

And thats exactly what Hetal did . She maligned her ENTIRE sasural by telling LIES about them to her family ...that they are dowry demanding greedy mongers . When in reality they were decent people who never would dream of such a thing .

Their kindness , maturity was taken advantage of . She started taking them for granted and stripped them of their dignity behind their backs by sullying their reputation .

So one sees that maturity and Kindness has NOT worked well with Hetal . Its like feeding milk to a snake . A little bit of the SAME behaviour that she exhibits , if given back to her in proprtionate doses , will work WONDERS .


well said and absolutely spot on.. Very bold ... Completely agree with you.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I will put it this way . Maturity and open arm welcome has NOT worked with Hetal as far as I see it . No one here can say that the Bedis did not welcome her with open arms and warmth and that it was SHE who rejected it all , simply by listening to that aunt Fui who taught her Hetli all kind of WRONG things .


So maybe an immature , Eye for an Eye approach will work better ? Feels Good to see Sweety not taking anything from her anymore . Feels good to see her being wary of Vimmy . Feels good to see her squirming under Kalavati's taunts .

Where has she responded to Chaiji's Maturity ? Where has she responded to Karan 's understanding ? Where has she responded positively to Gurnam and Satnam's fatherly love ? She only took ADVANTAGE of maturity of elders and behaved like an absolute jerk .

Maturity of elders should not be confused for weakness . The bad eggs of the younger generation need to realise it ASAP . Or they sit on the HEAD . They even go so far to insult an elder and take away his or her dignity , if unchecked .

And thats exactly what Hetal did . She maligned her ENTIRE sasural by telling LIES about them to her family ...that they are dowry demanding greedy mongers . When in reality they were decent people who never would dream of such a thing .

Their kindness , maturity was taken advantage of . She started taking them for granted and stripped them of their dignity behind their backs by sullying their reputation .

So one sees that maturity and Kindness has NOT worked well with Hetal . Its like feeding milk to a snake . A little bit of the SAME behaviour that she exhibits , if given back to her in proprtionate doses , will work WONDERS .


Not only the kindness has not worked with Hetal, she has brought the whole family on verge total collapse. She should be side lined and given an honest talk about Bedi families expectation from a member of a family, if Hetal cannot fulfil majority of the expectation, then she and Karan should be asked to live apart (if Karan also wants this) and visit the family from time to time.

This punishment and abuse cycle has to stop. It is hurting the whole family. Sweety lost her baby because of extremely tense atmosphere of Bedi household.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I kinda agree..it was hetals fault that she even said what she saidd.. she kinda ruined the atmosphere in the house, and sowed the seed of hate in vimmy and sweety's heart herself...she the fact they hate her is her own fault. Hetal said what she said and Sweety reacted the way she did because it was expected. That was all Hetal's fault. But, i agree! Hetal didnt intentionally push her. The fact that sweety was standing on those stairs at that time, was hetals fault. But, the actual fall was sweety's because she let her hand free and she fell.

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