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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ok guys i am not trying to defend her or say wheter she is right or wrong everyone has their own opinions so lets just look at the facts.

Fine sweety will blame hetal because she is in a state of shock. But what the hell is wrong with vimmy what could hetal do drop herself after sweety. Accidents like this happen all the time that doesnt mean the person who was standing close to you should be balmed. what if vimmy and sweety were talking by the stairs and sweety fell would they blame vimmy because she was close to her and didnt save her. OR what if hetal had falled would sweety be blamed for the fall. They need to use their common sense. Even Sweety, if she had been careful she probably would be able to maintain her balance but she wasnt listening or paying attention to where she was going. IF any of them actually saw hetal pushing her it would be a totally different case. I am sorry but vimmy needs to grow up. she has no idea what to say and where. She is supposed to keep the house together not break it. Was that even the time to start talking abt the fact that hetal doesnt like sweety.

Again this is not abt who is right or wrong, it is just the facts.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree wid u,but vimmy kind of supported her in room telling sweety,it was gods wish but wen they came out she blamed hetal,felt bad for her,i dont understnd wat vimmy meant by,accidents do happen,y make it worse by saying all dis now,it will create more rift,hetla told honestly taht she was trying to stop sweety to leave the room,i tink tomorrow too it wil be out taht dey had a fight,but y will hetal intentionally push sweety
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma

i agree wid u,but vimmy kind of supported her in room telling sweety,it was gods wish but wen they came out she blamed hetal,felt bad for her,i dont understnd wat vimmy meant by,accidents do happen,y make it worse by saying all dis now,it will create more rift,hetla told honestly taht she was trying to stop sweety to leave the room,i tink tomorrow too it wil be out taht dey had a fight,but y will hetal intentionally push sweety



Hoestly one thing I dont understand is that vimmy wants hetal to grow up but she herself doesnt know to behave. Chaichi needs to come back or her house is going to be in pieces. In fact maybe she should have taken hetal aside and asked her what happened or gotten mad at her aside but in front of family when everybody is mourning was totally wrong. she made everyones pain worse.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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vimmy never accused hetal of pushing sweety nor did she mention that they were fighting or arguing in the morning. infact she was even defending hetal because she specifically said that sweety made the accusation that it's hetal's fault because hetal was standing right next to her and didn't catch her...not because hetal pushed her. so she actually defended hetal by letting it be known that it was an accident and not intentional... and obviously after the event everyone will discuss and run over what happened and what could have been done to prevent it from happening...and hte obvious point is hetal was standing right next to sweety then how the heck did sweety manage to roll down an entire flight of stairs from top to bottom with hetal just watching...i don't think there is anything unusual or wrong with wondering the obvious and wanting to know exactly what happened. vimmy has been observing and seeing from day one how hetal's behavior and attitude is toward sweety but even so when sweety made the accusation she didn't let her harbor ill feelings towards hetal and told her it was an incident and it was just what was meant to be. and how the heck is the incident vimmy's fault?? these are not 2 year old kids that she needs to be baby sitting and following around all day long. so what they had a little argument in the morning vimmy did follow sweety afterwards to make sure she was okay and then left. was she suppose to spend the whole day with her following her around because of an argument in the morning?? nd when does hetal ever even listen to anything she says that she can try to diffuse the situation? and not just that but hetal has been so rude to her that because of hetal she got taunts from chaiji...from mona's bha...and so many from hetal directly that she has no reason to go otu of her way to defend hetal or think the best of hetal...she's obviously only going to care for sweety and take sweety's side on things having seen and had horrible experiences with hetal first hand.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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so far the family has left hetal off the hook for everything. vimmy got in trouble when hetal pretended to be sick. karan took the blame when hetal stole money to buy herself a necklace. sweety didnt say anything to anyone when hetal insulted her so badly she left the house. even the car incident after everything she still gets to keep the car. if everyone keeps forgiving her and keeps ignoring the things she does how will she ever get better? sweety was rude regarding the tea but hetal has been so much ruder so many times in the past. and her intentions behind anything were never pure. for every little thing she does she throws it in everyone's face. teh car she said karan should be forever obligated and indebted to her. even with teh gifts had sweety accepted them later she would have taunted her. she's really bad she needs to realize that she has to change and not be so bitter and upset about everything.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: groovychica_22

so far the family has left hetal off the hook for everything. vimmy got in trouble when hetal pretended to be sick. karan took the blame when hetal stole money to buy herself a necklace. sweety didnt say anything to anyone when hetal insulted her so badly she left the house. even the car incident after everything she still gets to keep the car. if everyone keeps forgiving her and keeps ignoring the things she does how will she ever get better? sweety was rude regarding the tea but hetal has been so much ruder so many times in the past. and her intentions behind anything were never pure. for every little thing she does she throws it in everyone's face. teh car she said karan should be forever obligated and indebted to her. even with teh gifts had sweety accepted them later she would have taunted her. she's really bad she needs to realize that she has to change and not be so bitter and upset about everything.



yes they can punish her for the things that she does wrong but not something that she didnt do. She DIDNT push sweety.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nigo123



yes they can punish her for the things that she does wrong but not something that she didnt do. She DIDNT push sweety.


yes and if you read my post above i say she did not push sweety...and also noone thinks she pushed sweety. vimmy only says that when you were standing right next to sweety why couldn't you have tried to grab her that too only once she is out of the room. inside the room everysingle person said it was an incident it was noone's fault this was what was meant to be...but the truth of the matter is that hetal has not been considerate of anyone's feelings from the moment she entered the house...the way she is being treated now is only a reflection and a result of the way she treated everyone when she entered...and she did show immaturity and insensitivity towards sweety from the start. and she could have handled that whole chaii thing much differently and had she not been so rude everyday since entering the house the whole episode would not have happened int eh first place. but now at least she needs to learn and realize and change...if at some point they don't show her that her behavior and attitude is unacceptable it will just keep getting worse and worse and worse. they have already shown her so much tolerance but i think now she hit her limit. if they don' t draw the line she is never going to get better. again directly it was not her fault but indirectly it really was. and i think she needs to realize that. one day tomorrow she will be pregnant and she is going to watn to be pampered and spoiled then and chaiji even told her today it's sweety's turn but tomorrow soem day it will be your turn and we will spoil you the same way when that whole parotha scene happened. she's just not understanding at all.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree no one says Hetal pushed Sweety but lets step and look at the circumstances which led to this accident. From day one, Hetal has never let go of an opportunity to taunt Sweety. She has abused her, made fun of her to such an extent that Sweety could not take it any more. I would just not blame the pregnancy hormones. There is also a limit to which a person can take non-sense without reacting and Hetal pushed Sweety beyond that limit. Sweety felt that she could endure it no longer and decided to leave the house. And this accident happened. So while Hetal did not actually push Sweety down the stairs, she definitely created the circumstances that led to the accident.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I just cannot resist adding my 2 cents to the title of this post. Hetal is not God, agreed but she can atleast try to be human. Thats the least people can expect of her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know for sure if hetal was in sweety's place she would have said sweety pushed her!
Hetal lied to much in the past, and it is now biting her in the *ss!

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