kalavati - note page 12

Originally posted by: groovychica_22

i still hate hetal...sweety is pregnant...hetal has been whining about it since the day she came into the house and not taking any care of her. when mona came into the house she harrassed mona so much for every little little thing kept telling on her/exposing her/goading ambaji. she kicked sweety out of the house first of all. she wasn't very nice to sweety when seh came back. ontop of it she split up each member of the family and created so many fights among the individual ppl that no duh sweety isn't going to pretend to like her or care if she is impolite. she's pregnant...she gets certain cravings/can't tolerate certain foods that's common in pregnancy. even when the chaijimade parotha one day sweety didn't eat it because she couldnt' stand the smell of the butter..it made her nauseous. one day hetal will be pregnant she better hope the ppl around her don't treat her the way she treated sweety...and have more tolerance/patience/and understanding. if she had been in her own house...she would have been ten times worse than sweety and mona would have put up with it quietly. mona puts up with fui without complaining to anyone and fui is soo bad even today she's accusing mona of getting close to ambaji by making hetal look bad...if mona wanted she coudl have fui kicked out of the house wiht a snap of a finger. in contrast vimmy chachi is actually very nice. she initially explained things very nicely adn lovingly to hetal...hetal was the brat that finally vimmy stopped caring about her...and fine she had to do a little bit work because chaiiji is gone but until now she never had to do anything...and did she not do work in her own house before? and did mona not have to do all fo hte work from day one after she got married? and the family dynamic is of such that chaiji has always taken care of the house and running the house...satnam bhaii earns the money..everyone can live happily. chaiji never had to worry about money ever...each family has their own contribution otherwise how would it be fair that all day satnam bhaii work vimmy work and the chaiji, karan, hetal noone does anything? and ultimately the whole business they are planning to give everything to karan as soon as he is ready. i still see hetal's fault in everything. so what if sweety was a little bratty she could have handled the whole situation differently and the outcome woudl have been better. so far everyone has tolerated her being a brat she should have some tolerance too. the miscarriage is her fault. and kalavati has a set job/set role which she is paid to do...she doesn't have to do more than that. hetal's mother in law is gone than hetal should fill in the role and take over the responsibilities for a little while it's just temporary. kalavati is the servant but that doesn't give hetal the right to just dump everything onto her. kalavati has her own responsibilities in the house which she was doing...she wasn't just sitting around idly she was taking care of her chores for the day

Originally posted by: kajolj

With you on that, Kalavati should have helped out Hetal. Problem with Hetal she never wanted to do any household work what she is doing right now is only so Karan wouldn't say anything to her( my guess) beyond him she doesn't care about anybody in the house. If she had been willing to adapt and not tried to split the family I'm sure nobody in Bedi house would have left her to do the work all by herself. I'm sorry to say the way you behave with people is the same way you're going to get back sooner or later and that's exactly what's happening with her. Even though with Sweetie falling down she has no hand but who's going to believe that NOBODY because that's how her image in the family has been created.

Originally posted by: groovychica_22

i still hate hetal...sweety is pregnant...hetal has been whining about it since the day she came into the house and not taking any care of her. when mona came into the house she harrassed mona so much for every little little thing kept telling on her/exposing her/goading ambaji. she kicked sweety out of the house first of all. she wasn't very nice to sweety when seh came back. ontop of it she split up each member of the family and created so many fights among the individual ppl that no duh sweety isn't going to pretend to like her or care if she is impolite. she's pregnant...she gets certain cravings/can't tolerate certain foods that's common in pregnancy. even when the chaijimade parotha one day sweety didn't eat it because she couldnt' stand the smell of the butter..it made her nauseous. one day hetal will be pregnant she better hope the ppl around her don't treat her the way she treated sweety...and have more tolerance/patience/and understanding. if she had been in her own house...she would have been ten times worse than sweety and mona would have put up with it quietly. mona puts up with fui without complaining to anyone and fui is soo bad even today she's accusing mona of getting close to ambaji by making hetal look bad...if mona wanted she coudl have fui kicked out of the house wiht a snap of a finger. in contrast vimmy chachi is actually very nice. she initially explained things very nicely adn lovingly to hetal...hetal was the brat that finally vimmy stopped caring about her...and fine she had to do a little bit work because chaiiji is gone but until now she never had to do anything...and did she not do work in her own house before? and did mona not have to do all fo hte work from day one after she got married? and the family dynamic is of such that chaiji has always taken care of the house and running the house...satnam bhaii earns the money..everyone can live happily. chaiji never had to worry about money ever...each family has their own contribution otherwise how would it be fair that all day satnam bhaii work vimmy work and the chaiji, karan, hetal noone does anything? and ultimately the whole business they are planning to give everything to karan as soon as he is ready. i still see hetal's fault in everything. so what if sweety was a little bratty she could have handled the whole situation differently and the outcome woudl have been better. so far everyone has tolerated her being a brat she should have some tolerance too. the miscarriage is her fault. and kalavati has a set job/set role which she is paid to do...she doesn't have to do more than that. hetal's mother in law is gone than hetal should fill in the role and take over the responsibilities for a little while it's just temporary. kalavati is the servant but that doesn't give hetal the right to just dump everything onto her. kalavati has her own responsibilities in the house which she was doing...she wasn't just sitting around idly she was taking care of her chores for the day