Hypocrites, aren't they?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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After weeks of being unable to watch the show, I finally took time out to watch the latest episode and was appalled to see Komal being beat up by Adarsh. I guess no matter how civilized and educated you get, in a state of anger, you only rely on your basic instincts. Where is the difference in the uncouth Krishna who is the first to pull out a gun in anger and Adarsh who mercilessly beat up his wife? Is it true that you can't run away from your roots, no matter how much you try?

Other than that, this was very much reminiscent of when SS used to beat up Amma. Or KN with Kesar. The threats with the chappals, the multiple abortions. And everyone, except Pratigya, but including Krishna, would sit quietly and let the beatings proceed. Isn't wife-beating the norm in their family?

So why were they all (SS, GD, KN, Krishna... and even Komal)... WHY were they horrified when Komal was beaten up? Shouldn't they be considering it a healthy sign that Adarsh is becoming more of a Thakur everyday? If SS and KN can beat up their wives, why react when Komal is beaten up by her husband? A bit hypocritical, don't you think?

It's a natural behaviour, and it's a shame really. We criticize others but often make the same mistakes ourselves. What would you do? Imagine if you were SS, a regular wife beater, how would you react when your daughter appeared beaten up before you, like Komal? Should this be a lesson to Sajjan Singh to reflect on his mistakes? Or is what he is doing right?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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what goes comes aroud 😊amma to a daughter of someone and kesar too a daughter of someone.
they r hypocrites differebt rules for daughter and daughter in laws😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I Think K Mentioned 3 Reasons For Pulling Out Gun...

1.Adarsh Has Questioned Komal's Character.

2.He Has Beaten Komal.

3.He Has Thrown Her Out Of GH.

So Beating Is Not The Only Reason.


Now You'll Reply That K Had Suspected His Wife,Had Thrown Her Out Of TN...But I Think Situation Is Completely Different.K Had Never Betrayed His Wife,He Had No Extra-marital Relations...But A Few Days Ago Adarsh Was Divorcing Komal For Another Girl.


This Explanation Is Only For K,Not For SS&KN.
Edited by -aHnAf- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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and komal was let adrash go from her just for adrash happness
but adrrash s k forgiveness frm komal


even komal not lettting his family knw about divorse


but now she has beeen thrown away frm GH

professer slap adrash now

not at that time when adrash was beating her like animals

tanmey gave hiss bike keys to adrash to run away in precape
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: elle45

After weeks of being unable to watch the show, I finally took time out to watch the latest episode and was appalled to see Komal being beat up by Adarsh. I guess no matter how civilized and educated you get, in a state of anger, you only rely on your basic instincts. Where is the difference in the uncouth Krishna who is the first to pull out a gun in anger and Adarsh who mercilessly beat up his wife? Is it true that you can't run away from your roots, no matter how much you try?

Other than that, this was very much reminiscent of when SS used to beat up Amma. Or KN with Kesar. The threats with the chappals, the multiple abortions. And everyone, except Pratigya, but including Krishna, would sit quietly and let the beatings proceed. Isn't wife-beating the norm in their family?

So why were they all (SS, GD, KN, Krishna... and even Komal)... WHY were they horrified when Komal was beaten up? Shouldn't they be considering it a healthy sign that Adarsh is becoming more of a Thakur everyday? If SS and KN can beat up their wives, why react when Komal is beaten up by her husband? A bit hypocritical, don't you think?

It's a natural behaviour, and it's a shame really. We criticize others but often make the same mistakes ourselves. What would you do? Imagine if you were SS, a regular wife beater, how would you react when your daughter appeared beaten up before you, like Komal? Should this be a lesson to Sajjan Singh to reflect on his mistakes? Or is what he is doing right?


U came clean n straight... they sure dealing the same problem differently.The same
Krishna didn't showed his anger[this fierce] towards his bro even whn KN tried to kill Kesar.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Takur represent society in the sense that we feel the pain for our own and in some ways we all are hyprocrites. We too feel pain for some but not others as we find excuses that they deserve it based on our perception and prejudice.

TBH, Saxes reaction too is different when it comes between daughters and DIL, Son n SIL but again my pov. Not to the extent Takurs but it is in them. Education has nothing to do with it as physical abuse has no barriers

Blood is always stronger than water and therefore each react accordingly and that is what they showed..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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&Another Thing...K Never Showed Anger With KN&SS...This Is Wrong.You're Talking About Old K.

He Has Changed A Lot&Protested Every Time...He Is The Man Who Saved Kesar.Then He Took Her Responsibility...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: starlight123

Takur represent society in the sense that we feel the pain for our own and in some ways we all are hyprocrites. We too feel pain for some but not others as we find excuses that they deserve it based on our perception and prejudice.

TBH, Saxes reaction too is different when it comes between daughters and DIL, Son n SIL but again my pov. Not to the extent Takurs but it is in them. Education has nothing to do with it as physical abuse has no barriers

Blood is always stronger than water and therefore each react accordingly and that is what they showed..

Exactly!!👍🏼 That's My Point...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In thakur families, men treat women like vermin, but in educated societies women r given respect, so adarsh did a lowly act according to SS, KN and KST!

As for SS & KN beating their wives, that was the past. Plus no one from kesar or amma's house came to save their daughters from physical abuse. Here komal came straight to SS, so the situation is different.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kriya37

In thakur families, men treat women like vermin, but in educated societies women r given respect, so adarsh did a lowly act according to SS, KN and KST!

As for SS & KN beating their wives, that was the past. Plus no one from kesar or amma's house came to save their daughters from physical abuse. Here komal came straight to SS, so the situation is different.

So if nobody there to ask u questions U can do whatever u want with tht girl...???how cruel...😲

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