Agree with u pooja 😃 but i don't think the CVs r showing K as orthodox...if that were the case he wouldn't have married P in the first case...n wouldn't have agreed to postpone their child for some time even after hearing all kinds of stuff from SS...its mainly about what people like nilima thinks of a man like K...she is P's friend n is shocked to see such a contrasting relation ...she would have never imagined that P would go n marry such a man n be happy with him...the P she knew wore modern clothes...but we know P is really traditional minded n doesn't actually care about it...we have never seen her even hinting of wearing even salwar after marriage...n we saw her agree wholeheartedly when K said that sari is tradition n DILs shouldn't wear modern type clothes in front of FILs n MILs...P is a sacrificing girl...she does it for her family n her love ... nilima is living with her husband only...she won't know what type of life P is leading...with in-laws , that too criminal minded in-laws and all...with feoticides , forced abortions, attempts to murder, kidnapping, beating, abuses , slavery n a host of all other problems surrounding her life...
nilima is wrong in assuming things...n her perspective of uneducated people also needs to change...nilima doesn't know that both K n P gives each other their space , not in all things, but in many things...K don't even know what was P like before marriage or in her college days to be precisely ...IMO they have never talked much about it...K was not interested in knowing her college life except for the fact that she don't have any close male friends...we saw how he cut off her musings about her college life n asked only what he wanted to know...after that the subject was discarded...n P gave him strong hints(first orally then through her article) about her desire to work but again he turned it down n P left the matter as it is...she never raised her desire to work again n also never let K know that she still wanted to work...in only that matter we can say P compromised...n ofcourse her little compromises in his house...the only compromise K has done is to agree to work , but when he found that he almost lost her , he did it with a lot more heart so that she would be happy...but P never ever expressed her desire to wear any other dress ...
both K n P have changed a lot after marriage ...both have learned to adjust, P more than K...both have adjusted to their new life...n we all know P has accepted K as he is...but nilima don't know that...she don't know the kind of strong bond of love kriya has... i think this whole diraama is for K to ask P to wear salwar...that's it...n here also P will wear it for him ... like she wore the shirt...
Edited by dhakarn - 13 years ago