Cvs! Pratigya should not have to go through this. - Page 3

Originally posted by: pragati.tankha

She needs to leave Krishna and make him understand her worth.

she needs to leave K...okkk but wat she'll make him undersand dat K has not right to show his frustration on her (here the reason is wrong for which K was showing his frustration over pratigya) i remember wen pratigya was upset bz of the economical problems goin in her dad''s house,krishan came n adviced her dat he'll take a loan from one of his frnd so dat ur dad's problem will b solved.......and to dat sugestion she asked him to get out of the room n leave her alone.............now wat we'll calll this....... verbal abuse on krishan..........?? NO.......dat time pratigya was mentally disturbed,so she said those things in frustration..............she was not wrong there........than how can krishan become a abuser here............??

all these are normal arguments going between life partners,and taking this as verbal abuse n all is takin this relation on other grouds..........MY POV...

Originally posted by: stranger11

it is so nice to see that at least thr is some1 out thr who is not blind in seeing the problems with this relationship
seriously the story needs to change a bit

Thanks a lot.

Sorry Anu you know my POV is completely different here.

Originally posted by: telstra

well said asusual😉aisa hai anu ji that leaving spouse in such small matters is not a wisely act u cant break your relationship like that and god forbid if she leaves him both will suffer and both will miss each other both will b in pain as they both luv each other i lubalub krishna for everything he does and secondly i love prats also both have there positive negatives but surely they compliment each other this ios the beauty of there characters the motre we hate them at the end we love them double tripple 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Wow on minor arguments if people started leaving each other than no relationship would survive in the world

dear friend don't be too rigid on such issues.. life is compromise... for loved ones people do that as it makes you happy too... self respect and love both are essential...

if for these words of Krishna we suggest Pratigya should leave him then Pratigya should have left her parents when her mother slapped her, that was also abuse! a physical one in fact

safe guarding self-respect is of supreme importance but ego should not get so strong that eventually it separates a person from his near and dear ones, arrogance for self-respect will sour relations and one will be isolated... we also need people and love for survival and not just money

at times bowing down to your loved ones won't make a person small in fact that gives a pleasure and satisfaction of its own.... good that Pratigya is a strong woman, vocal about her rights and educated but being just that is not enough she can't live like a robot devoid of feelings.

Pratigya is not 'tolerating' Krishna or wasting life with him, he is a fundamental part of herself and her life and she cannot leave him because if she does then that separation will come at the cost of suppression of her feelings and well then looking at it from this angle she herself will be the cause of her abuse... emotional one is this case as she will not be happy leaving him, she will be forcing herself and going against her emotions to leave him which is oppression on her imposed by herself in the name of safe guarding her self-respect

i do not support any kind of violence against humans be it a woman or a man. And violence shall be condemned in all its forms. if we see physical violence against women at The thakurs then at the Saxes there are traces of emotional violence against women. Where Komal was emotionally abused and denied rights as a wife.

Originally posted by: Filza.T

Wow on minor arguments if people started leaving each other than no relationship would survive in the world

dear friend don't be too rigid on such issues.. life is compromise... for loved ones people do that as it makes you happy too... self respect and love both are essential...

if for these words of Krishna we suggest Pratigya should leave him then Pratigya should have left her parents when her mother slapped her, that was also abuse! a physical one in fact

safe guarding self-respect is of supreme importance but ego should not get so strong that eventually it separates a person from his near and dear ones, arrogance for self-respect will sour relations and one will be isolated... we also need people and love for survival and not just money

at times bowing down to your loved ones won't make a person small in fact that gives a pleasure and satisfaction of its own.... good that Pratigya is a strong woman, vocal about her rights and educated but being just that is not enough she can't live like a robot devoid of feelings.

Pratigya is not 'tolerating' Krishna or wasting life with him, he is a fundamental part of herself and her life and she cannot leave him because if she does then that separation will come at the cost of suppression of her feelings and well then looking at it from this angle she herself will be the cause of her abuse... emotional one is this case as she will not be happy leaving him, she will be forcing herself and going against her emotions to leave him which is oppression on her imposed by herself in the name of safe guarding her self-respect

i do not support any kind of violence against humans be it a woman or a man. And violence shall be condemned in all its forms. if we see physical violence against women at The thakurs then at the Saxes there are traces of emotional violence against women. Where Komal was emotionally abused and denied rights as a wife.

very well said 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Originally posted by: roshna1020

very well said 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Anu,

>I know you feel sorry for women.... Okay Amma is a woman - Please make posts to support her >against the cruelty that SS has shown on her.... no you will not because you don't feel sympathy for >her.. you think she is curel and in human hence that's when humanity kicks in for ya..

Well!. When Amma is abused (by whover), then the abuser is wrong, and sympathy should be
with Amma. In same way when Amma abuses some one else, it is same story. Law of nation
does not give right to anyone to abuse another person. And if two persons are abused, we personally
have right to choose to support one over other. It is not possible for me to support every one who
is abused, so even if each of us support say 10% then that is good enough. Coming to other
question of what is abuse/non-abuse in a relationship, that is difficult question. I personally see Pratigya in a healthy relationship, and dont find a need to blame one and side with other.

Originally posted by: anusarkar

Hello Filza,

Life becomes a compromise when one starts losing self respect and honor. Yes , I would suggest a woman to leave a relationship when she feels suffocated by the person who is suppose to love and respect her. Bowing down to one's loved one is special ,but only when that person respects and understands the scenario. Here Krishna has shattered her wish by completely ignoring her feelings about working.

Anu