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I have always been a silent viewer of this forum and have never written except for responding to written updates and voting in the CM. But yesternight's crying and weeping of Pratigya's forced me to write this one.
The character of Pratigya has always been an inspiration for me right from the day she slapped Angad and refused to subdue to his eve-teasing, to the developments in her relationship with Krishna. but one thing I really hate now in her is interfering with others.
Lets get back to the days when she tried to help Kesar and ended up making a fool of herself when Kesar herself went to the police station and withdrew the case, with hopes of a better married life and caring the least about Pratigya's self-respect (serves her right now đ)
And now Arushi, yes we know all she did was for her sister's welfare3 but she should've stopped right there when Arushi stated that all she was doing was out of jealousy that Aman was more eligible as a groom than Krishna.
So I really think it serves Pratigya right as well on what Arushi is inflicting on her and I'd really wait for the day when she stops tolerating all that due the sisterly love of hers and raise her voice against Arushi's stupidity.
P.S. I drew these two comparisons because I found them relevant to two incidents in my own life as well. The first one was that my cousin brother, he didn't speak or behave well with my bhabhi (sister-in-law) though he never got physical (not in front of us so that's all I know) Though all my family members used to snap a word of critisism each time he behaved that way, when I gathered guts to speak against it by wanting to take bhabhi to Pizza hut with me (and obviously Bhaiya was against it), all I got was a good quantity of rebuke from all those family members as well as my bhabhi. I concluded she loved the doormat life of hers and henceforth I stopped my conversations with her.
The second was when I tried to correct my sister on her habits of frequent partying and getting too close and casual with her male friends, by complaining to my Maa, an instant response was that since I as never interested in these facets of life, I am getting jealous of my sis and don't want her to do the same. At the end all I had to do is change my room so that I don't listen to her conversing on the phone and get more jealous!
So all I concluded that one can advice someone only and only ends up making a fool of himself if he tries to make someone's issues as his or her own.
Gawd! I typed too much of my personal issues, but I feel better now after having shared my problems!
And, what do you think about all my views I posted for Pratigya?
The character of Pratigya has always been an inspiration for me right from the day she slapped Angad and refused to subdue to his eve-teasing, to the developments in her relationship with Krishna. but one thing I really hate now in her is interfering with others.
Lets get back to the days when she tried to help Kesar and ended up making a fool of herself when Kesar herself went to the police station and withdrew the case, with hopes of a better married life and caring the least about Pratigya's self-respect (serves her right now đ)
And now Arushi, yes we know all she did was for her sister's welfare3 but she should've stopped right there when Arushi stated that all she was doing was out of jealousy that Aman was more eligible as a groom than Krishna.
So I really think it serves Pratigya right as well on what Arushi is inflicting on her and I'd really wait for the day when she stops tolerating all that due the sisterly love of hers and raise her voice against Arushi's stupidity.
P.S. I drew these two comparisons because I found them relevant to two incidents in my own life as well. The first one was that my cousin brother, he didn't speak or behave well with my bhabhi (sister-in-law) though he never got physical (not in front of us so that's all I know) Though all my family members used to snap a word of critisism each time he behaved that way, when I gathered guts to speak against it by wanting to take bhabhi to Pizza hut with me (and obviously Bhaiya was against it), all I got was a good quantity of rebuke from all those family members as well as my bhabhi. I concluded she loved the doormat life of hers and henceforth I stopped my conversations with her.
The second was when I tried to correct my sister on her habits of frequent partying and getting too close and casual with her male friends, by complaining to my Maa, an instant response was that since I as never interested in these facets of life, I am getting jealous of my sis and don't want her to do the same. At the end all I had to do is change my room so that I don't listen to her conversing on the phone and get more jealous!
So all I concluded that one can advice someone only and only ends up making a fool of himself if he tries to make someone's issues as his or her own.
Gawd! I typed too much of my personal issues, but I feel better now after having shared my problems!
And, what do you think about all my views I posted for Pratigya?
Anupamaa
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
