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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: an_jaani

n i have read over n over again.....that komal should be happy because she hasnt been physically abused.....

^^oh yeah , i READ those comments as well.. and here's what i wan to ask:
is not being PHYSICALLY ABUSED the only thing that makes up for a girl's happiness?😕😕😕😕😕😕😕 is physical abuse the ONLY ABUSE ???😕😕😕
ooh ooh..and then remember when komal returns, they ar all "decoriating the house" and all smiley smiley... i hate this, behind her back they don't give a damn abt her, and in front of her they start all this fake DRAMA agar itni hi parwa hoti, toh jab usne call ki, tab SAXENA JI kehte: that no beta, she is OUR DAUGHTER, go and get her... she is OUR DAUGHTER - nothing that happens in the family shud be a SECRET to her... did he say that? did ANYONE say that?
did ADARSH say: no she is my wife, a MEMBER OF THIS FAMILY, and if she told me to bring her back i SHOULD bring her back...??
and he is advising KRISHNA on being a GOOD HUBBY? THAT GUY can't stay a SECOND without his wife.. that guy won't let even his FAMILY raise a hand on his wife... in fact in-laws kya, i am damn sure krishna wudnt allow even pratigya's OWN FAMILY to raise a hand on her! does adarsh have all these guts???????
he doesn't deserve komal guys... isko ROLLY hi milni chahiye thi as a wife!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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can some1 make a KOMAL appreciation thread guys?
seriously i LOVEEEE the character! she rocks! i dont want any adarsh and komal thread, i want a KOMAL thread! there so much bharaas i still want to take out! make a thread so that i can keep catching up on their scenes and commenting!😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Kesar's words to Shakti today struck me as very appropriate for Komal also. She said that even if you live with an animal for sometime, you develop some feelings for that animal. However, Adarsh has not even developed those feelings for Komal in all these months. He doesn't show an ounce of affection towards her.
Adarsh is doing exactly what Shakti is doing to a woman ...........making her feel UNWANTED , destroying her self esteem .

Exactly Shakti abuses his wife physically as well as mentally but because one can see the marks on her body, he is hated and Komal's plight is recognized. Yes Kesar is facing a horrible situation, but so is Komal both women love their husbands and have received nothing but abuse in return be it physical or mental and while one is visible for a short period of time the other is long lasting and can transform in to depression ruining the individuals life. Mental abuse is a much deeper wound and cannot be cured by any medical treatments it must be cared for by affection and acceptance which is lacking in Komal's as well as Kesar's life I personally would not mind if both women filed for divorce they deserve better anyways !!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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how cool it wud be if they brought in some new hero for komal? ;);) or or if they replace that jai with some good hero, like i dunno naman shaw maybe!😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

how cool it wud be if they brought in some new hero for komal? ;);) or or if they replace that jai with some good hero, like i dunno naman shaw maybe!😆

Sid ............I wont be surprised if the JAI KOMAL track starts with Jai deciding to RAPE komal .He is a very bigda hua youngster and I didnt like the way he was talking of Komal to his friends . And Thats where Krishna will come in , he will beat him up real bad while Aman will press charges against Krishna and try to get HIS brother off .Thats the time Pratigya will stand AGAINST Aman .It will also be CVS way of glorifying Adarsh as he will ACCEPT komal inspite of the rape . Of course , no one will pay attention to the fact that what else can Adarsh do anyways now .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Kesar's words to Shakti today struck me as very appropriate for Komal also. She said that even if you live with an animal for sometime, you develop some feelings for that animal. However, Adarsh has not even developed those feelings for Komal in all these months. He doesn't show an ounce of affection towards her.
Adarsh is doing exactly what Shakti is doing to a woman ...........making her feel UNWANTED , destroying her self esteem .



Kools excellent post. You have said everything. And i was about to add this in reply to your original post but u beat me to this but i will still add my pov. From my pov Aadarsh is treating Komal exactly in the same way Shakti is treating Kesar. Rejection which Kesar faces from Shakti due her complexion has killed herself esteem and on the other side the rejection Komal facing from Aaadarsh because she is uneducated, uncouth and raw. I actually felt her pain when she challenged Aadarsh how everyone treats her as an outsider.

I totally agree Komal should file for divorce on the grounds of impotency and ater the accident for all u know it might turn out to be true. The best part is SS might also support her, I still remember when SS got her from Sucksenas when Pratigya went back to her Mayaka and he did tell Amma he will get Komalia divorced.

Another thing what i don't understand about Aadarsh is: agreed he had this stupid idea he will save his sis by getting married to komal and thanks to krishna he did manage to get married to komal. that was then but now he knows his sister is happy with baba and has a husband in the form a putty in her hand who dances to her tunes. So komal is useless in that aspect of ensuring his sister's safety as she has her personal bodygaurd. Aadarsh obviously doesn't love komal and thinks she is not and ideal partner for him so why doesn't he divorce her? i mean you are already treating her with contempt and you yourself are not happy so why carry on the facade, just divorce her. And if he is has a conscience which tells him that it is not correct to divorce her then doesn't the same conscience tell him not to treat his wife in such a derogatory manner.

BTW its not related to the topic but when Kesar was talking to Shakti today i actually wanted shove Pratigya's head into their room and ask her do u think this marriage is worth saving. How is it helping kesar.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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KC do u think Jai will RAPE komal
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Sid ............I wont be surprised if the JAI KOMAL track starts with Jai deciding to RAPE komal .He is a very bigda hua youngster and I didnt like the way he was talking of Komal to his friends . And Thats where Krishna will come in , he will beat him up real bad while Aman will press charges against Krishna and try to get HIS brother off .Thats the time Pratigya will stand AGAINST Aman .It will also be CVS way of glorifying Adarsh as he will ACCEPT komal inspite of the rape . Of course , no one will pay attention to the fact that what else can Adarsh do anyways now .



and all i'd be doing throughout this track is :

i've had enuff of adarsh's mahaanta yaaaar!

i REALLY hope they show a more komal-centric track.. though i know any track wud eventually be a kriya track.. but still i'd REALLY like a track liek: temporarily kill off adarsh, and have jai komal story!😆😆 ofcourse with a DIFFERENT jai! or a track where jai "TRIES to rape komal, but can't, adarsh however divorces her.. and jai komal story chaaalu!😆😆i just think she deserves some1 else yaar! she truly doesn't deserve a loser like adarsh!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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OMG OMG OMG Krishna_chalbo: i ADOREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE UR SIGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo


Another thing what i don't understand about Aadarsh is: agreed he had this stupid idea he will save his sis by getting married to komal and thanks to krishna he did manage to get married to komal. that was then but now he knows his sister is happy with baba and has a husband in the form a putty in her hand who dances to her tunes. So komal is useless in that aspect of ensuring his sister's safety as she has her personal bodygaurd.
Aadarsh obviously doesn't love komal and thinks she is not and ideal partner for him so why doesn't he divorce her? i mean you are already treating her with contempt and you yourself are not happy so why carry on the facade, just divorce her. And if he is has a conscience which tells him that it is not correct to divorce her then doesn't the same conscience tell him not to treat his wife in such a derogatory manner.
BTW its not related to the topic but when Kesar was talking to Shakti today i actually wanted shove Pratigya's head into their room and ask her do u think this marriage is worth saving. How is it helping kesar.

the coward is not letting go of komal because he fears that if he does that to komal then using his idea SS and family will get even with pratigya.. you see a well educated man who has a decent job too.. thinks that marriages are like games children play... you hurt my doll i will destroy yours..
anyways their limited brains cannot perceive that one can be happy with a uneducated companion so this way thwy will never be assured of prats and in the process not let komal get a life of her own...

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