Adarsh needs some home truths - Page 2

amazing post! agree wid u 100%

oh how much i longed to see a post like this!
keep it up yaar chak de phatte!

is sab mein, THEONLY PERSON WHO SUFFERED MOST WAS KOMAL!

and u know wht sucks? i was catching up on pratigya episodes, and what SUCKS is to see her in-laws b*tching abt her behind her BACK! especially that so called "sis in law" of hers! SNOBBY RUDE EGOISTIC i tell u! just becuz somebody does not know how to pronoune honeymoon u make fun of them??? just becuz they are used to eating non-veg u look at them like they r some horrific disgusting alien??? :S:S

all the sax's kept doing throughout th story was :"humari bichari pratigya..humari pratigya..kis ghar mei gayi..kaise rahegi" BLA BLA BLA... did they ONCE look at how they have treated THEIR bahu till date?

the girl had NO FAULT, no FAULT of hers... her brother set up her marriage, and she married! JUST LIKE THAT! and u know what - even she got married in a family whose style is SO OPPOSITE to the one she was used to, even she married a guy she didn't loive, and she married him becuz of her parent's and brother's PRESSURE! yet did she throw around all nakhras and ronadhona after marruage????/ did she? NO! whtever it was, she tried to fit in... she fell for her husband.. she repeatedly kept after hhim.. she even told him that if ONE HE TALKS TO HER LOVINGLY, she'd do anything.. and i FULLY believe she WILL DO JUST ABT ANYTHING - if ONCE ADARSH talks to her lovingly.. if once he shows that he has affection for her as well!

yea komal keeps shoving the money factor in their faces..per what else can a girl do whose hubby doesn't even LOOK at her ? :S she's the one who always approaches him... husband ko toh APNI family se hi fursat nahi! and i am just surprised that nobody is pointing OUT TO THIS SAXENA FAMILY HOW WRONG THEY R! v r still being made to believe that all they did was right?! WHY??

final point:

my heart was CRYING when i saw the post-marriage scene.. when i saw how on one side pratigya was welcomed with soooo many rituals so much happiness (ander se chaahe sab khafa hon ya ghussa hon ya bure log hon) but whtsoever she WAS WELCOMED, when she entered he rin-laws it LOOKED LIKE THERE WAS A NEW MEMBER COMING IN! her hubby was ROAMING AROUND HER lovesick! all the ladies were roaming around curious to see the "new dulhan" and praising her when they saw her!

and when KOMAL entered her house : WHAT???? her father in law CLOSED THE DOOR ON THE NEIGHBOUR'S FACES????? instead of telling them that they'g got a NEW MEMBER IN THE HOUSE! whatever circumstances were for the marriage - the fact was that KOMAL WAS NOT AT FAULT AT ALL in all this matter... they shud've kept their grudge against krishna FOR KRISHNA.... is this how ADULTS FUNCTION? woh daadi boht buzurg banti hai - did she not know any better????? reeet riwaaaj traditions??😕 where was the kalash, where were the post marriage welcoming game? 😕
her mom-in-law did one aaarti! that's it! array they didnt even invite the neughbours to come and take a look at their daughter in law? and all i am asking is, is sab mein IS BICHARI KI KYA GHALTI HAI? she was all happily playing around in her place... when ADARSH ..mahaaan ADARSH came up with this REVENGE idea, ke he wud marry krishna's sister! and that's it! they brought her in and threw her int he room! and what next - gave her this SIMPLE SA ROTI FOR BREAKFAST?????????????????????????/ is that how u welcome a NEW BAHU in ur housee????????????????


i don''t care how shareeef the sax's are, i am honestly sayign this: if i had been shown the cold treatment the day of my marriage, with every1 just leaving me in my rooom, no guests no happiness around, on the contrary with all these sad faces, i WOULD HAVE WALKED OUT RIGHT THEN AND THERE! ek toh shaaadi bhi larke ki marzi se hui uski, upper se she isn't even getting the rights of a wife???? :S:S

ppl keep INSULTING HER.. that mahaan daaadi keeps dissing her... and her DEAR HUSBAND JUST KEEPS LOOKING ON ANGRILY? dude that's how u protect ur wife's honour? that's how u welcome a new bahu?? if u want her to change, then u shud ATLEAST MAKE AN EFFORT... atleast nainaji made an EFFORT!

and finally - somebody shud ask these saxenas how they wud react if somebody did the same thign with their ARUSHI? if the guy marries her willingly, and takes and dumps her in some corner, the whole in-laws constantly taunting her, belittling her, and her hubby not even LOOKING AT HER LOVINGLY, even once! :S

and yea komal wants to sleep with her hubby... so??? does that make her a s***??? hubbies can desire their wives, WIVES CAN'T?????? 😕

all in all, lovely post.. dil khush ho gaya par ke!

p.s: am a new member of pratigya forum.. just caught up witht he show this weekend.. but caught up with pretty much most of komal adarsh scenes.. and komal has already become my FAVOURTIE CHARACTER ever man! it is a rare TREAT to see such a bindaaaas female character for once! amazing yaar! =) usually this kind of attitude v just get to see in prostitue kinda characters... but to see a hubby-loving girl with such bindaaaas character is a treat yaaar! 👏 the onl fault the poor girl has is she was RAISED in an illiterate home - and i honestly don't see any reason she shud be constantly taunted for this! if a kid is brought up in a home where the mother is constantly beaten, and she's not educated on such issues, then reallyy how can u blame if the kid grows up thinking that it is OK to beat women?? if a kid is grown up being taught that wives are just there for havign kids.... then how can v blame if the kid grows up believe JUST THIS??? :S

i definitely want her to file for a divorce man! infact, she shud now go start taking some eng classes ON HER OWN.. and THEN ask for a divorce from adarsh IN ENGLISH.. that wud be a real SLAP on all their faces! ad YES, accuse him of IMPOTENCY! 😈 the dear mother of pratigya got quiet a shock to find out her daughter didn't have any intimate relations with her hubby... but she never thought abt finding out how her son's married life was?? :S

superb post Kools.... there's nothing left to say.....

Ignoring their part of responsibility in whatever situation they find themselves in is one of saxes' trait it seems......mainly the ever so right trio - shamu, adarsh and prats

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

after sax knew that komal is not pregant they didnt put any effort into probing why? they left off the matter like it happens everyday...


Even there SHE was blamed by Adarsh . U put my family thru hell by raising their HOPES ! The pathetic EDUCATED man did not even have the sensitivity to see that she was pathetically trying her best to have a real marraige and in one of her numerous childish attempts , thought that may be a rumor wud finally put him in action .........at least to uphold that rumor and to see the happiness on his FAMILY's face Adarsh wud attempt at WORKING on the marraige .

oh oh and here's MY question: WHERE did this pregancy thign COME FROM HAAN? as much as i saw, SHE wasn't feeling well, so she went and got the lemon.. and told the mom-in-law to make a dish for her.. she got a bit dizzy... WHO STARTED SPECULATING and then CONGRATULATING each other without even directly asking her? (again i may have missed an episode here so correct me)..

per from what i saw, SHE NEVER EVEN SAID ANYTHING on this! how can he tell her she LIED? uski ghalti hai kya that she is so naive and she didn't notice all these wierd ppl staring at her? can't a girl not feel well? 😕 waisey toh they don't even approach her, and baby ke soch ka every1 was all happy.. yeah RIGHT she is gonna give u a baby... i say, she shud get adarsh to sleep with her, and after she has a baby she shud just LEAVE them! and take some classes, educate herself, and live on her own with her baby, or better yet find some guy who wud TRULY LOVE AND CARE for her and protect her!😈 taraste rahe "bache" ke liye... then they can all go after her asking for forgiveness!

Thank you Kools for making such a post... Seriously, Adarsh seems to have regressed and his contempt for his wife is now open for everyone to see. Why do these educated Saxes like to make a spectacle about their personal lives?

The problem is that Komal is not Pratigya and Adarsh is not Krishna for the abuse to be recognised. If such behaviour was shown by Krishna, we would have floods of posts condemning the abuse. But the abuse is done by Adarsh and the victim is Komal, therefore the abuse is acceptable.

Komal had a forced marriage. She is the only one who had no choice in the marriage. Rest of them made a choice, and therefore for Pratigya or Adarsh to say they were forced is bull. If the choice is taken away from you , then one can claim that they were forced.

As Adarsh is the one who initiated this marriage it is up to him to take responsibility to either make a go for this marriage to work or give her the respect and end it.

I dont understand what he has to complain about. He has a wife who seems besotted with him and would follow him like a puppy if only he gives her little attention. Most husbands want wives to serve them hand and foot, and Komal would do that because of her love for him.

I seriously wish the CVs recognize the abuse in that household towards Komal. But I dont have much hope because till date the Saxes have not reflected about any decisions made by them. They are hellbent on living from past humiliations and insults and not looking into their own behaviour. They prefer to blame others instead of taking responsibility for the own actions.

Originally posted by: Aeryn

I don't know why the CVs are hellbent on not showing the saxes reflecting on their behaviour and learning from their mistake......

exactly..😕 why is everythign they do portrayed as "right".. no family is all "right".. there r flaws in every family.. and for anyone who thinks "komal" here is wrong, the flaw in saxena family is NOT KOMAL. the flaw in them is that they think they are "right abt everything".. that only they are these EXTREMELY IZZATDAAAR family who runs by rules is kind educated considerate.. EGO is the main problem here.. ofcourse that is a problem in thakur family too, per unki family ko acha kaha hi kisne?😆😆😆😆😆 their family toh is portrayed as being "wrong"... what sucks is a family that is portrayed as always being "right" is NOT so right ... honestly guys, if i was in komal's place, i wud've thrown a divorce the very next day in all their faces and gone!

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

oh oh and here's MY question: WHERE did this pregancy thign COME FROM HAAN? as much as i saw, SHE wasn't feeling well, so she went and got the lemon.. and told the mom-in-law to make a dish for her.. she got a bit dizzy... WHO STARTED SPECULATING and then CONGRATULATING each other without even directly asking her? (again i may have missed an episode here so correct me)..

Kudos. I was waiting for this post. Komal is like

Lion cub left to stay with a pup. I wonder how she is living with boringSucksenas.

Sadly sum people think that she does not have any right to keep desires like a normal married girl.