Krishna-why didnt your khana choke you??

Ok......am really not a happy bunny today...but I'm writing this with regards to Krishna's behaviour towards Pratigya as shown in the episode today.

Many posts get written here about the daily disintegration of Krishna's character and pretty much up til now I have always felt some individuals have been a bit harsh in dismissing Krishna(his character) and that those qualities that make him endearing to most of us are still in the majority to make Krishna's salvation entirely possible.

However his behaviour today with Pratigya made me wince painfully, because I feel today Baba himself broke that fundamental rule that he himself has been so magnificent at holding dear, and that is keeping important matters concerning a husband and wife relationship between husband and wife.

Today Baba instigated his family members, indeed gave them a free ticket, to boldly abuse and vilify his wife because Baba himself lit the fuse to this fire.

In a blind show of fury arrogance and downright petulance, he trashed and helped others to trash his wife. Rather than continue to have it out in the room, he took it outside and with all the arrogance of a son living under his Dad's roof, proved that he was their son first and foremost and not someone's life partner; a husband to whom a wife has entrusted herself and her life.

Don't get me wrong, Pratigya can be said to have done many things too which, either in ignorance or because she failed to rank her husband's importance correctly, have resulted in hurting Krishna. However two wrongs do not make a right.

Krishna knows only too well how painful a betrayal feels....however he too betrayed Pratigya today and that is inexcusable.

In every small effort that Pratigya made today, be it serving him dinner, or taking out his clothes, Krishna essentially dismissed his wife, and if that wasn't enough he basically tried to give her the message that he didn't actually need her – he would get food, would even be fed by hand and have broken buttons sewn without needing Pratigya for a second. That dismissive behaviour on the part of a husband is a betrayal for a wife – in all of those actions he is saying "you are the outsider in this house and I will demonstrate the point to you..."

Baba would never tolerate such treatment – so why should the woman he professes to love, without whom he can't breathe, have to do so?

Pratigya's bhashans get on my nerves at the best of times, but as a woman I felt Pratigya's pain today so I would like to see her really stretch Krishna on the rack for the way he behaved today, I would like her to unleash a stinging retort for his infantile and tantrum-like behaviour and tell him he can get his Amma to feed him and do everything else too coz Pratigya would rather kiss her own ass before she gives him any more sugar!

Men like this have to be taught a lesson – if they wanna be mummy's boys then they should never have gotten married and gotten a wife – and in this case it took Krishna putting a flippin gun to her head just to get wed to her! Moorakh!

Krishna, tumao laaj nahin aayi sale, apni chudail jaisi maa se nivala leke khai jabo beta, tuhaar mehriya tumko joote khilaygi ab beta – tab sala sudhar jabo!

U've got it right dear... I disliked the way he behaved with Pratigya. If she would have behaved in that manner, I dont think he would have tolerated it quietly..

Originally posted by: ArhainArhaan

i understand hes behaving rudely wit her buh wateva she said has hurt him..tellin ur hubby dat u n ur family r nah gona cum to ma sis's wedding wont it hurt him:(

Originally posted by: KriYa_life

Haan lekin aisa nahi karna chahiye tha.. wat if he behaves like that with you...

Tumho ka karoge???

Originally posted by: Dyehard

😆 Somebody has a temper! 😉 They dont call me MMG for nothing.....and i dont mean mad as in "paagal" type.... jab gussa aa jai to beta khair nahin....😡
But seriously, talk about petulance and bad grace! Imagine exposing her to his terrible family and leaving her vulnerable like that! It showed a very mean weak streak in him, and most disappointing to those of us who have been praising him to the skies.😕

But MMG I disagree that P has ever been so grossly at fault AFTER she committed herself. Before is a completely different issue, IMO. On the whole I agree Dye, but I wouldnt call her blameless either.....asking him why he wouldnt come into IG house is just plain dumb...

Loyalty comes with love, especially in this case. After she has accepted their relationship with her heart, she has been nothing but patient, giving and loving. Maybe that is her mistake - she realises that he is in a tough spot between her ideals and his sense of duty to his wicked family, and also that he feels inadequate about supporting her independently and protecting her from their abuse, and so she goes out of her way to treat him with kid-gloves, in the most kind way, factoring in his vulnerability.

But I feel that for a man of his pride, somewhere this kindness grates. He would, IMO rather have her rant and scream at him, than look at him with kind sad eyes. He feels like he owes her, and does not like that feeling. But P being P will never be unkind by adding to the vile clamour of that house. But the more she takes it without a protest the more his frustration is increasing!
But the bottom line is this. If you are frustrated dude, get up and do something about it, mard ban, be a man, like they say! Tough times call for tough decisions. yes you may have to overhaul your whole value-system, but if it needs to be done, then it needs to be done, no escaping it!
Definitely don't imagine that it is alright to take your frustration out on a wife who has just committed to you body and soul. Don't try and test that love when you actually need to be testing your own strenght of character!

Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

will reply fully in a bit!😊

@MMG Very well said! I still cannot believe that K had uttered this to P. More than P, K had gone through a lot for this marriage to happen and for getting P's love. After all these, if he says these foolish things , I really suspect his sanity. Their marriage is standing only on the foundation of love that too laid down by K himself (later strengthen by P), if that is questioned by the same person, ??????

He was the one said that he cannot even breath without her few minutes back.

I also didn't like P going behind K and silently listening to others taunts. She should have silently sat in her room and when he comes to their room, she should have confronted with him. This is equally like, 'o.k. lets leave the matter."

@RB as you said, I too was very upset Y'day. But l loved Pooja's acting, it brought me tears.

@ ArhainArhaan, she didn't tell that you and your family didn't come to my sis's marriage. She just informs the condition of IG and she also beautifully says that we should not be invited. Later as explanation '"sajjan singh ki pariwar se "not that you and your pariwar.

Moreover you love a person madly ,but you try to understand their words only in a negative sense, come on ....how can it be acceptable?. Can't you see the point that P cannot attend her own sis marriage?.

But please don't take that I am for P to attend the marriage. Same for her - if she madly in love with him, she should also see this as an act of humiliation and disrespect against her husband. This is my pov.