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Posted: 14 years ago
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I completely agree - I have lost track of how many times Pratigya has slapped someone since the serial began
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lighthousepier

I completely agree - I have lost track of how many times Pratigya has slapped someone since the serial began



Oh please, don't start this again! It's not a 🤬 tally. If you can't see the difference between systemic abuse and character responses, then I just have to call your common sense into question. And like it or not, this show is ABOUT domestic violence - come out with your stand on it if you have one

And also, please understand I'm not reacting to you in person but what you're saying which has been said a TIRESOME number of times on this very literal-minded forum.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Domestic violence is wrong - period its not less wrong when the perpetrator is female - especially when it appears to be a repeated instinct
It should also be noted that there are many types of abuse - and the scars of emotional abuse run deep. We should not forget that for most of this marriage Prats was mistreating, emasculating, withholding affection and generally abusing her husband - systemically and purposefully - in fact it was her own solemn oath to make his life a living hell.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lighthousepier

Domestic violence is wrong - period its not less wrong when the perpetrator is female - especially when it appears to be a repeated instinct

It should also be noted that there are many types of abuse - and the scars of emotional abuse run deep. We should not forget that for most of this marriage Prats was mistreating, emasculating, withholding affection and generally abusing her husband - systemically and purposefully - in fact it was her own solemn oath to make his life a living hell.



What you're saying may do tremendous credit to your skill as a debater but none at all to your understanding. Of course there are many types of abuse but you're holding the heroine of this show up as a systematic abuser, an emotional and a domestic abuser, then all I can say is please, listen to yourself. or check your content filters.

Incidentally, we have not yet seen Komal hit Adarsh apart from in play, so we have not yet encountered systemic domestic violence by women on this show. Domestic Violence is wrong, you say. A very huge concession - the women of the world must scraping in gratitude.

ARe you female, incidentally? you must be.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very well written and I would prefer that this social message is shown in the serial than the romance.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapbubble



What you're saying may do tremendous credit to your skill as a debater but none at all to your understanding. Of course there are many types of abuse but you're holding the heroine of this show up as a systematic abuser, an emotional and a domestic abuser, then all I can say is please, listen to yourself. or check your content filters.

Incidentally, we have not yet seen Komal hit Adarsh apart from in play, so we have not yet encountered systemic domestic violence by women on this show. Domestic Violence is wrong, you say. A very huge concession - the women of the world must scraping in gratitude.

ARe you female, incidentally? you must be.
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I am female - thank you for asking. I am married and have 2 children - both a boy and a girl. I have also served as both Crown Attorney and defense counsel.
I know that principles should be applied consistently and judgements made sparingly (people who live in glass houses should not throw stones - or slaps - so easily)
I know that arguments should be well reasoned, based upon fact and grounded in logic - (causation, analogy, deduction etc.) - and when neither fact nor logic is one's side the tendancy is to revert to diversion, sarcasm or personal bashing - hoping noone will notice
Unfortunately for some most people do
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lighthouse - 👏👏👏😉 :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thank you,this was a very much needed post.I hope those whom you said have just considered it as Krishna's insecurity will think it over again.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

Iam not defending Krishna/AB here....If Prats really thought he is worthless...why the marriage?????OK,its to tk revenge...But why gave herself to him...her love n body n soul.????
The person who u love the most is the person who u hate the most.....
Love is something which u have to show unconditionally....will have to accept a person with his nagative traits too.....iam supporting Prats for her consideration towards Kesar....but what Krishna feels yest was...why Prats being blamed for everything unnessarily....any person who is in love madly will think like tht...Is it really necessary??????? Prats supported Kesar in the obortion case n against violence...but happened is history....Kriya face the real punishment...n Prats understood her fault......
After tht incident also...still she defends her...how the hell she believes in Kesar...She has to be little supportive in her fighting know??? Instead she believed her hubby's acting n withdrew the case.....😡 U all suppourted Kesar in tht too.Kesar knows soo much secrets,why the hell she is having all this to her till now...she knows how all they r illtreating her sis prats n Krish in tht house....If she is not able to fight for herself...she should atleast tell these secreta to KRIYA.

I felt really bad...Prats n Krishna faced soo much after the police case...But Kesar didn't even apologize once to Prats tht all this they r facing is only bcos of her....

In tamil there is a Proverb..."pathiram arinju pichai podu" means u know know to whom u should support.
Otherwise everything will go waste.U should not help worthyless ppl..it will go against u...it happened in my own life....Iam writing all this bcos I face all this...My hubby told...u don't know abt his SIL...n so don't support...we can support her from outrside...but now she is with everybody happily n me n my mom feeling bad bcos all of his family members doesn't talk with us anymore or respect us...only bcos of our support to my SIS,who is my hubby SIL... Iam sorry,Iam writing all this n getting litle emotional...

Krish will not ht\it her for God's sake...he will not but only a expression of guilt n hurt....even his belove wife told tht he is incapable...U don't know how it feels when a man already thinking tht he is not able to protect his wife....Istead of helping him out,she is hurting him.....Has she ever spoke abt his job b4...why the hell she didn't told all these while...b4 consummation of their marriage.Now tht he feels secure with ONLY her n she also hurting himm...Its like oiling the fire...or hurting the wound more n more..POOR GUY....

dear friend do u really think that just b'coz of teh sake of relations we should let the ppl of our home to suffer the whole life kal they will throw kesar out of this house and remarry shakti with soem other girl then still u ppl would say pratigya should stay away from the matter and being a self person she should watch it all just liek her hubby?but i dnt think so its human~
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lighthousepier

I am female - thank you for asking. I am married and have 2 children - both a boy and a girl. I have also served as both Crown Attorney and defense counsel.
I know that principles should be applied consistently and judgements made sparingly (people who live in glass houses should not throw stones - or slaps - so easily)
I know that arguments should be well reasoned, based upon fact and grounded in logic - (causation, analogy, deduction etc.) - and when neither fact nor logic is one's side the tendancy is to revert to diversion, sarcasm or personal bashing - hoping noone will notice
Unfortunately for some most people do



Oh my goodness! 🤔
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Yes, it was quite obvious that you are able to argue - it was quite superfluous to list your accomplishments - there's quite a bit of that 'razzle dazzle 'em' in your post. But idioms and articulation don't quite compensate for fairness or a sense of justice, do they? or an empathetic, even-minded view of a pretty straightforward story?

Then again you've picked your side already *shrug* - so justice isn't the goal here clearly 🥱

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