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Tanthya! sorry sweet, for going heavy duty Hindi on you, but I kept thinking and could not come up with an adequate English word, so I went with it.
It sort of means... a dilemma, a situation when you are caught between the devil and the deep sea, but it is a word with deeper connotations of Dharmic conflict, essentially not knowing where your dharma lies. </font>
Hey Tanthya here it is ,well Dyehard has give a very good explanation on VIDAMBANA but in simple words.....
Vidambana" Pretty different word...
In general terms Vidambana means dilemma or confusion..
In sanskrit.... different meanings of
vi?ambana — cheating;
vi?ambana — all these jokes;
kare vi?ambana — criticizes;
eta vi?ambana — so much cheating; ...
vidambana [ vi?ambana ] n or vidambana f
S Mocking, ridiculing, deriding.
2 Imitating; assuming the appearance, form, or character of. 3 Supernatural assumption of a form.
Hope this helps.....