Mahaepi and Mahafriendship - Is it just Me? - Page 5

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

it is sad. all krishna fans are feeling really bad at the stagnation of the storyline. today they barely showed a glimpse of them and even in that scene he seemed jealous of her love for her FATHER?😲

it is sad to see the character being portrayed as a lap dog. Arre why is he so desperate to win her approval.

seriously I know the krishna chracter is not real but if I ever encountered an otherwise strong personality like him who was being treated in this manner I would advise the person to take off the glasses, dude she does not love you. forget love you, she does not even like you. stop day dreaming. get a life and another wife.

seriously today's scene reminded me of a guy visiting a bed and breakfast or something and then suddenly taking on the housekeeper. 😆😆😆. his "who do you think loves you in the whole world" dialogue was so sudden and surreal, the only thought in my mind was WHAT?? Where did that come from? The girl will not let you look at her for fear that your gaze will result in her molestation and you think she trusts your affections enough to say your name as the answer to any questions where the word trust or love are involved?

man I am feeling so bad for myself right now. I started watching this show when the couple had good chemistry. it was my therapy from a disastarous show like pavitra rishta. and now it seems this one is going down the tubes too.

Serously is it just me or does the whole friendship suggestion seem to be a desperate attempt to delay the inevitable on her part? I don't see any gestures towards friendship from her end yet and the track has been on for over a week now. All I see is HIM using the friendship proposal reminder to repeatedly corner HER into talking to him. so pathetic. you know I did not want to say this because it is a crude thing to say but he is beginning to look "pwd" - if you know what I mean and believe me even that term is probably not applicable in his case as he ain't getting any. so maybe the term I should have used is hen pecked.

I joined for the kriya relationship but all I see is a miserable lead heroine and a desperate male lead. so your right I guess the only way to gain some pleasure here is to introduce the tried and tested triangle track. how sad to see a ghissa pita formula used in a show that i thought was unique.

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

Kool:

so typically speaking she does not see him having a grave injury in her estimation. ebcasue she ahs seen worse,

now had he not left her like stale bread at her maayka for so long without even the basic consideration of a phone call, she probably would have indulged even the smallest injury that he had to make him feel that she is a caring wife.

at present, she finds that any sign of caring or improvement on her part is inconsequential to erh relationship with him so she is reciprocating with the same detachment that he has shown to date.

too bad Krishna is in a same predicament but is not thinking as clearly and objectively as his sister. it would defintiely ease his stress and frustration.

BTW, she did show concern. she stopped eating her apple while he was being nursed and giving his explanation. she only started again when he was all bandaged up and ready to go.😆😆😆

Originally posted by: Opti

Did Adarsh not call her to explain that he could not come and Miss highhandedness snap at him and not let him talk?


IT is not whether she think any care on her part will help the progress in their relationship. My point is in such a situation does one really pause to think how an act could be beneficial or not? Does one not immediately react, without a thought?

Oh yes, she may have seen worse, but that does excuse her munching apple when her husband was clearly bleeding (looked more than a graze to me).

Kool :

In one of your earlier thread somebody commented that marriage is not a certificate for consummation. I did not get a chance to give my take on it then so I will do so now while we are in limbo over the friendship track

The way I see it, except for the West, Europe and Down Under, the Eastern part of the world is still predominantly a man's world. Illahabad falls in this man's world country.

Marriage is an institution created by man (not woman) (we will never understand why) and so the basic marriage package was also developed by man (rightly or wrongly) – the base package in my estimation includes consummation, procreation and recreation in that order. Friendship, romance and emotional intimacy are the fillers or feminine perks built into a marriage by a woman (not a man) for a woman's pleasure and to seal the deal. (Please excuse my blunt and crude explanation).

The marriage is wholesome and ideal only when it includes the basic package and the perks (which is not as common as we would like to believe) because then both the man and the woman are able to derive value from it rather than having lop-sided equation.

One thing is for sure, one cannot claim the perks when they do not want to fulfil the requirements of the base package. It does not work that way. Even in real life, If I took up a job and was given a base plus contract and I did not meet the basic job description, I would get fired not be given the "plus" part of package, right?

The way I see it Krishna's situation is like that of a confident and passionate baseball player who joined the team to get to first base, but the poor guy has not only been kept away from the diamond he has been made to sit the entire tournament on the bench. A person like this who feels that his talents and passion for the game are being ignored is getting all pumped up and riled up and tries to sneak on to the field during break time but the coach and the officials keep curbing his advances and sending him back to the bench

It is funny for me because when I see Krishna all I can think of is the famed Abbot Castello routine "whose on first" and one things for sure there is only one answer to everyone of Castello's questions i.e. whose on first, whose on second and whose - it's somebody but IT DEFINITELY AIN'T KRISHNA.

(sorry for hte bold above, having probs with my font editor)

BTW, I think I figured out the answer to my previous question - purpose of the "going no where" friendship track - the purpose is not kriya., rather it is a red herring - a distraction from the main and less entertaining or romantic track - teh SS elections.

That's ok they need to show things other than romance but it is disappointment when the bildup is a farce.

I realized what i did not like about krishna's evolvement - he went from being the strong silent type to a bumbling overtalkative everpleasing corny male. when the Krishna soundtrack plays now it does not show his as a strong presence but rather a goon. CVs please bring back the old chracter. get this dude to stop talking so much (though we love his one liners) and please stop this over firendly overtures on his part. his character is losing credibility.