Mahaepi and Mahafriendship - Is it just Me? - Page 4

Hope,

yes , Komal has intelligence . She will start snooping soon . Its pointing to that .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

What friendship talks she gives , she has not made any friendship gestures by tring to come half way even in that . Even the friendship is supposed to be from HIS SIDE . She wont be upfront with him , go out for a real date with him , try to understand wHERE HE COMES FROM . All that she did in friendship is tell him about mithilesh !!! knowing fully well how jealous he can get . . I agree with Light ...........Krishna needs another girl to throw herself at him right under Pratigyas uppity nose . Its corny but its needed to jolt her as a woman . . Krishna is being trained to become a henpecked guy . U listen to me .Or u sleep on sofa. I dont like being touched .I dont like being looked at .This is the way I am .Accept me as I am . But I wont accept u as you are . U need to be moulded to my taste . Ur rough language has to go . Your manners need refinement . U need to be educated .U need to become the gentleman who will lay a red carpet when I walk . U need to understand my glares so that I dont need to reprimand u with words .U will get slapped occasionally when I lose my temper but u must not lift a finger to slap mE as my Atma Samman matters . U need to understand DHANG . . As Light rightfully said , even in friendship , its a two way street where u accept and like the other person first for what he really is . The moulding the influencing follows later . She doesnt even like him , love is door ki baat .Why does she want this marraige then , to keep Papa's educated nose up in society coz it is still conservative enough to quiver when DIVORCE is mentioned ?

Hey, Kools! Did you get his one right or what?😉 Just reading the bolded part I could see and hear Prats going after Krishna. If he has to change so much to win her love he is pathetic yaar!. Get a life and move on man! Does he really have to remind her he loves her every time she gives him the silent treatment. I have come across some manipulative women and she is right up there with them. The reality that's missing here is that the guy would have thrown down the gauntlet and found someone on the side while the wife takes her time to come around or asked for a divorce. Instead he is like a lap dog following her and doing everything she wants ...........he's now looking more like an obsessed lame duck, pathetic and spineless. What ever happened to the self-confident Takur who knew pura Allahabad? Soon he will have to have a personality transplant before Maidamji will give him any attention at all. Very disappointed.

I say get the man divorced, get him a second wife, the first was in name only anyways. Let him move on and be happy. The Sax family can continue to be terrorized at the thought of their eldest daughter being a divorcee. I dont' think we will ever see a full happy day at the Saxenas let alone an entire month. They are just a depressed lot.

Hope

Light

Originally posted by: lighthousepier

Hope

I have not finished watching all the epis - I am watching at both ends - so I may be missing something but - I just don't get it - Krishna is the person best positioned to actually help and/or protect the saxes - for a family so obsessed with truth and principle - I just don't understand what they think they are accomplishing from hiding it from Krishna?

Light

their daugther's antics have made him a frustrated lover and husband and brought out the worst in him at times i.e. gunpoint hostage taking, gol gappa scene, slap at pooja etc. all in front of her family. as theya re extremley supportive of her surreal mission they do not understand why he gets this violent and frustrated when all she is doign is keeping the silent oath that she took under her breath while the marriage rituals and verses were being chanted aloud round the wedding pyre.

they therefore think that the minute he comes to know he will harm her.

you know what they say about prophesy fulfilling, right? their hiding from him is what is going to get him mad? she has missed every opportunity to confide in him while he is in a listening mode and at his most accomodating, so he will end up fulfilling their prophesy because he will be hurt when he finds out that the friendship thing and dadi's blessings and the recent "beta beta" nara that prof has been saying is ALL A FARCE AND A STALLING TECHNIQUE.

Hope

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

Kool, Light Mera:

I saw many posts today saying that Komal was heartless.

if her reaction was one displayed by someone who is sensitive and not exposed to daily violence like Pratigya or Arushi then I would say yes that she is heartless.

However, while I am not defending her inaction, at least it seemed aligned with her character.

here is a girl that is constantly exposed to violence. her brothers are tough guys who never complain when they are way more seriously hurt than the graze that her hubby got.

hell shakti got hit with a glass vase on his head and krishn never sought medical help when he was fatally stabbed. she is not surrounnded by sissies so naturally she does not react dramatically when she sees a graze on her hubby's hand. she seemed concerned and curious which shows that she is not oblivious to what is happening and the fact that somethign is beign hidden from her.

her reaction today was aligned with her character just like Pratigya's reaction was aligned with her character and Krishna's refusal of treatment was aligned with his charachter.

seems heartless to the average non-violent person I agree but atleast it was realistic unlike krishna's behaviour.

Kool:

so typically speaking she does not see him having a grave injury in her estimation. ebcasue she ahs seen worse,

now had he not left her like stale bread at her maayka for so long without even the basic consideration of a phone call, she probably would have indulged even the smallest injury that he had to make him feel that she is a caring wife.

at present, she finds that any sign of caring or improvement on her part is inconsequential to erh relationship with him so she is reciprocating with the same detachment that he has shown to date.

too bad Krishna is in a same predicament but is not thinking as clearly and objectively as his sister. it would defintiely ease his stress and frustration.

BTW, she did show concern. she stopped eating her apple while he was being nursed and giving his explanation. she only started again when he was all bandaged up and ready to go.😆😆😆