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Anjaani

@an_jaani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: steffroc
loved your post beta Ghanta atma saman😆😆
Pratigya has no attma saman

she lacks it

she is unpad, stubborn

and $%O23i201"$"$

bas baat khatam 😆

PS: from now i know the reaosn whyi hate prats🤣🤣

agree with what u said...... hate is strong word for me but i definitely dont like prats caracter

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SABAH

@Sabu0211

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Why should she say sorry when she havent done anything wrong??????????:S:@ i think that what she did was the right thing 2 do

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: lastmin
Wow!! I understand u r not happy about Pratigya's atma samaan. I also understand that she should not have said anything about her personal relationship in front of everyone. However, what were her choices? To sit for the pooja w/o telling the truth?

It was for her family's peace of mind that she "CHOSE" to get married. I am not taking sides here, but there are times in our lives too when we stay quiet to mainatin peace and there are times when we must speak up - agreed she should have spoken up b4 things reached this stage - but she was listening to Krishna's wishes when she didn't. Also she already paid the price for blurting out the truth in front of everyone as Krishna had slapped her then.

I think that since things had reached such a stage in her life, the cause of the problem that happened was Krishna not Pratigya, so it was not right to demand an apology from her.

On the other hand, if like you wished she had apologised, what would that imply? Was it right for the Thakurs to treat her the way they did? Was it right for Krishna to slap his wife in front of everyone?

I hope I am not hurting your feelings - but this is just my point of view based on my own experiences in life!!

No u didnt offend me I respect your view

My point is............Stretching it this far to the point of not having a marraige ..............is not done .What does she want , a divorce ?Even after all tis stretching if she enters the house victorious is it really a victory ?Coz in their hearts she will create hatred in the sasural peoples mind .

Marraige is of some months only till now and she is creating such a ruckus ? What about adjustment , love , striving to bring happiness in the family u marry into ? She keeps boasting of her perfect sanskaars ..........where r they ?I dont see them ! If she has issues with Krishna sort them out , talk to him .Tell him what exactly offended u , what hurt u .

She has seen with her own eyes how much sasural people bent although they were grooms family by constantly coming to her door to ask for her hand . That is a big deal by Indian standards . But she is stretching this issue too far and for what ?what is her goal ?Granted she may win this ego round but then what ?

This is not atma samman it is blunt ego . Apologising to elders is not bending as such . She told in front of all elders in a joint family that I am leaving the house .SHE told it first . R they supposed to be happy about it ?

What is this issue of a slap she is making ? She slapped Angad , Her mom slaps them all the time ..........Slaps r a way of life there it seems . Her husband slapped her when she embarassed him by shamelessly blurting bedroom secrets in front of a gathering . So is her problem with a slap as a way of life ?If so she is hypocrite as she herself slapped Angad and Nainaji slapped her but she demannded no apology . Who is she kidding ?

She is making far too much about this and being so non adjusting , so arrogant are not sanskaars at all . My opinion purely .

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MERARAI

@MERARAI

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Kisski atma-sammaan hoti hai usko doosaron ki samman ka bi fikr hota hai. Jo sammaan uski andher nahi hai woh doosaron ko kaise degi. You can't scoop in a ladle what's not in the pot. (translated ......hey Shumi, chattiyil irindhaadhane aapayil varum", right?😃

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MERARAI

@MERARAI

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

No u didnt offend me I respect your view

My point is............Stretching it this far to the point of not having a marraige ..............is not done .What does she want , a divorce ?Even after all tis stretching if she enters the house victorious is it really a victory ?Coz in their hearts she will create hatred in the sasural peoples mind .

Marraige is of some months only till now and she is creating such a ruckus ? What about adjustment , love , striving to bring happiness in the family u marry into ? She keeps boasting of her perfect sanskaars ..........where r they ?I dont see them ! If she has issues with Krishna sort them out , talk to him .Tell him what exactly offended u , what hurt u .

She has seen with her own eyes how much sasural people bent although they were grooms family by constantly coming to her door to ask for her hand . That is a big deal by Indian standards . But she is stretching this issue too far and for what ?what is her goal ?Granted she may win this ego round but then what ?

This is not atma samman it is blunt ego . Apologising to elders is not bending as such . She told in front of all elders in a joint family that I am leaving the house .SHE told it first . R they supposed to be happy about it ?

What is this issue of a slap she is making ? She slapped Angad , Her mom slaps them all the time ..........Slaps r a way of life there it seems . Her husband slapped her when she embarassed him by shamelessly blurting bedroom secrets in front of a gathering . So is her problem with a slap as a way of life ?If so she is hypocrite as she herself slapped Angad and Nainaji slapped her but she demannded no apology . Who is she kidding ?

She is making far too much about this and being so non adjusting , so arrogant are not sanskaars at all . My opinion purely .

Kools, let's not forget she slapped Krishna twice at her engagement to Nitin and he raised his hand but never hit her. If he really was like his bro or dad he would have trashed her by now as he said to her once. She doesn't want to see the good in him, she is ready to nitpick about every little thing that's not right about him, truck loads of criticisms and not a scoop of praise or gratitude for anything, not even for the rabdi. E kya sanskaar hai? Someone has to tell Prats that what you go looking for in life you will definitely find. Why not look for the good in him instead at least she has a chance to have a happy life instead of creating a miserable existence for every person she encounters.

BTW, can anyone tell me one person who is happy today bec' of Prats and her behavior and actions? Just one person. please! Even she is not happy. That alone should be a big wake up call to her for where she is heading............all the way to the edge of the cliff.

Edited by MERARAI - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

my biggest objection is to the slap issue .

It is ok for her if Naina slaps her . Did she demand apology from mom ?

Her Dadi bluntly called her characterless ....that was a big slap on her face .I dont see her demanding apologies from her Dadi .

She herself slapped Angad in the train . So the issue is definetely not about slapping as a way of life but the cause behind the slap .If so , then the cause behind the slap shud be justified to her .

Well the cause behind the slap is justifiable in Krishnas eyes . A man cant tolerate his manhood made fun of in public which is what she did .

And The apology is for saying Im leaving the house ..........does one talk of leaving the house this way in a joint family after springing it on them that hey Im not sleeping with ur son ? R they supposed to party or sumthing ?

R others supposed to have their point of view or no ? Or only Pratigyas point of view matters ?

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#17

She herself slapped Krishna as Mera points , coz she felt justified ......so Krishna too felt justified in giving her a slap for shaming him in public . Is this so hard to understand ?

So she and her sanskari family can go around slapping people coz they feel justified but Krishna shudnt ?

So the message to gals out there is marry the guy u thought stalked u , refuse to consummate with him for life , make issues within two months of marraige and head for divorce ?

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damon_biteme

@damon_biteme

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

Okay I wrote this on Meraria's post and won't mind repeating myself.
Aatm Samaan means self-respect. Self-respecting people are sensitive about other peoples' self respect. They don't go one brusing other peoples Aatm Samaan even if they are wrong. Self respective people don't go on insulting other ppl.

These are signs of a person suffering from inferiority complex who have a a very low self esteem. The attack other people to make feel good abt themselves. To counter there low self esteem they inflate their ego.

Edited by krishna_chalbo - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#19

guys i edited my post and added this Slap point .I want creatives to notice this . I was hoping she wud be dumped but Krishna has instead walked out on his doting parents .....I dont like it .They may be chauvinistic , uneducated , but they love him more than this girl .Its not done .

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damon_biteme

@damon_biteme

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Posted: 15 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
guys i edited my post and added this Slap point .I want creatives to notice this . I was hoping she wud be dumped but Krishna has instead walked out on his doting parents .....I dont like it .They may be chauvinistic , uneducated , but they love him more than this girl .Its not done .

That bothers me too this man leaves all his loved ones for a girl who doesn't care a damn abt it. Why? 😕

Edited by krishna_chalbo - 15 years ago