How can Aroshi be so insensitive? - Page 3

Ruhi is right Arushi reasons for being insensitive and immature are different from komal. Not that it makes it right for Arushi. I did feel bad for Krishna today when he made it clear that sucksena always hurt his heart, and I am sure he is including Pratigya in that list.

But I felt that was sweet what he said to Arushi about how her husband would love her and respect her and keep her happy. Awwwwwww I only wish Krishna included educated in that list he could have won some brownie points.

Poor fella he is so clueless about proper code of conduct in defending a girl's honor. I wouldnt be surprised if Krishna has opened the gate ways of hell for Arushi. Angad would be hell bent on revenge now that he is been humiliated just like with Pratigya and he is not going away quietly. That is what upset me the most, Krishna tried to save Pratigya but he only ended up hurting her more and now Arushi has fell in the same trap and worst could happen to her. Is Krishna going to safe guard Arushi for the rest of her life. He cant and that is why what he did was so stupid I felt. Angad might have willingly gone quietly away but now Krishna has once again invited trouble. Who will we all blame then.

Hey Mrithula!!! ThAnX for agreeing!!! 😃 See, even I dont think that Arushi did the right thing when she spoke rudely to her brother-in-law... Its just that after seeing all the insensitive ways in which the Thakurs treat the Sucksenas, I find calling the Sucksenas, esp. young & immature Arushi as insensitive, just coz they happen to be the educated ones - quite HARSH and unjust!!!😛

Yup! Like someone said in some other thread - Krishna does the right things in the wrong way and so, it becomes sort of like digging a hole for himself and ALL his good-intentions are covered up by his uncivilized actions and are therefore unseen by the educated and civilized Sucksenas who dont really know/understand why/how the uneducated & uncivilized goon of their in-laws think/act the way the Thakurs do!!!

i also don't like Aroshi's behav very ill mannerd 😡 to express

there is one thing that is been nagging me for a long time on this forum. I want to say that civility and kindness and maturity is not connected to Education. Trust me I speak from experience I know a lot of people in my life who are as educated as they come top of the class and very successful but they don't have any maturity or civility in handling difficult situations but instead are cruel and break others hearts and they have no empathy. Empathy is something that comes from within you nothing to do with education but more to do with your nature. Many are saying pratigya deserves this ignoring from Krishna, but what needs to be seen is does Pratigya have any empathy. OR more importantly does Krishna. As far as Arushi is concerned she is spoiled for her own reasons not to do with education. We can blame Krishna's wild actions on his upbringing but I think even if he was educated he would act this way because of his family. Arushi could be uneducated and still say what she said today.
Education is used as a proxy to define the two groups and used to explain away their behavior and actions.
But I think more the reason is their upbringing, family atmosphere, their real character.

Originally posted by: loveanime

there is one thing that is been nagging me for a long time on this forum. I want to say that civility and kindness and maturity is not connected to Education. Trust me I speak from experience I know a lot of people in my life who are as educated as they come top of the class and very successful but they don't have any maturity or civility in handling difficult situations but instead are cruel and break others hearts and they have no empathy. Empathy is something that comes from within you nothing to do with education but more to do with your nature. Many are saying pratigya deserves this ignoring from Krishna, but what needs to be seen is does Pratigya have any empathy. OR more importantly does Krishna. As far as Arushi is concerned she is spoiled for her own reasons not to do with education. We can blame Krishna's wild actions on his upbringing but I think even if he was educated he would act this way because of his family. Arushi could be uneducated and still say what she said today.
Education is used as a proxy to define the two groups and used to explain away their behavior and actions.
But I think more the reason is their upbringing, family atmosphere, their real character.

Wah beta! 👏⭐️👏⭐️⭐️👏⭐️👏⭐️👏⭐️👏 Very well said. Empathy comes from within. Often other emotions like fear, anger, frustration and jealousy can cloud one's judgment and dominate their behavior suppressing the empathy that is within them. Our subconscious absorbs everything from our environment, upbringing and messages we get from our interactions with family and community and we act 98% of our lives from all that we have taken in through our senses.

Originally posted by: loveanime

there is one thing that is been nagging me for a long time on this forum. I want to say that civility and kindness and maturity is not connected to Education. Trust me I speak from experience I know a lot of people in my life who are as educated as they come top of the class and very successful but they don't have any maturity or civility in handling difficult situations but instead are cruel and break others hearts and they have no empathy. Empathy is something that comes from within you nothing to do with education but more to do with your nature. Many are saying pratigya deserves this ignoring from Krishna, but what needs to be seen is does Pratigya have any empathy. OR more importantly does Krishna. As far as Arushi is concerned she is spoiled for her own reasons not to do with education. We can blame Krishna's wild actions on his upbringing but I think even if he was educated he would act this way because of his family. Arushi could be uneducated and still say what she said today.
Education is used as a proxy to define the two groups and used to explain away their behavior and actions.
But I think more the reason is their upbringing, family atmosphere, their real character.

agree with u its true that civillity is not related to education in society some educated people's behav is worse more than illiterate people

You can't really blame her for being hostile

Originally posted by: MERARAI

If she goes looking at everything wrong with him she sure is going to find plenty. Even after he told her the good things he has done since the wedding, how he has changed in some ways, she shuts him down with "you only love yourself and a person who loves wouldn't have humiliated my family". Almost always generic, never the actual events that causes her so much pain. Not to discount her feelings but does she ever see the world from the other side of the table for a change? She'll be surprised at what she sees. She is getting her first look at it starting in today's episode. Tomorrow with Krishna unconscious and Amma laying into her will she finally acknowledge that she alienated the only person who stood by her since she came into that family. Kesar is a helpless and weak ally in her corner.

Originally posted by: c111

You can't really blame her for being hostile

Originally posted by: * Unnati *

Umm... Not sure about Pratigya & Arushi😆..but the only kid of Mr.Saxena who is a little sensible , is Adarsh.