Originally posted by: *queenme*
arushi is a severely ill mannered girl... she doesnt respect anyone.. not even her own mother... today when nainaji was trying to make her understand, she kept going against her own mother infront of everyone at the pooja...which girl from a good family would do that?? saxena family are all hypocrites.. how can they criticize komal when theyre own daughter doesnt know how to speak infront of guests or how to speak to the son-in-law of the house...? i agree that maybe krishna's way was not right but if u look deeper, its clear that krishna did step up and save arushi from angad's evil intentions... krishna knows angad better than anyone else so really, i wish arushi thought before she spoke... she needs to learn manners...she has no excuse to behave so rudely.. atleast with komal, it is expected considering her background and the kind of environment she was raised in... but what excuse does arushi have?? she knew better than to speak to krishna like that...
OKItoki!!! Was it only me - who didnt see ny 'guests' in the pooja other than the pandit (who can surely be ignored 😆) OR Lori, oops! I mean Roli 😆 (who is considered as an insider among the Sucksenas & knows everything about them!) OR Krishna (who is NOT a guest but a family and also considers the Sucksena house as 'apna hi ghar hai'😉)..... So, I think its possible for a spoiled, stubborn, immature and educated young girl to misbehave/go against her own mother in front of her own family when all she can think is that she is the right one and her mother is being too kind to the wrong one and unfair!!! I am definitely NOT saying that it was a nice/right thing to do, NOPE! And I was sad to see/hear Krishna expressing his hurt feelings and to see all his now-messed-up good-intentions!! And since Naina did SLAP even Arushi, I think they have got the right to scold/criticize their own daughter-in-law aka Komal!!!
Now, about Arushi's way of speaking to her brother-in-law, I think she herself explained the reasons (which BTW, are good enough and explains her reaction!) behind it when she was speaking with Roli later on!!!
I think her reasons/excuses are way better than Komal's whose actions can NOT be based on her upbringing coz according to her background, Women/wives like her mother and bhabi HARDLY talked back to their husbands, forget about raising their voice at their so-called husbands and were treated like animals, right in front of Komal, for no reason at all!!! So, I am just surprised that Komal can act soo differently than her own mother or bhabi of her very own background... I think, Komal acts the way she does coz she is spoiled, immature and uneducated where as Arushi acts the way she does coz she cant love/like/respect the people who ruined her sister and brother's lives and she is immature and spoiled as well!!!😆
And before u get into celebrating that Krishna saved Arushi from Creepad's evil intentions, I would like to remind u that Creepad DID ask for Pratigya's forgiveness and even got a sign of hers on the sorry-note bcoz of Krishna's very good-intentions of saving & impressing her as well AND the outcome of that incident was the misunderstandings between KriYa and the marriage-for-revenge channel!!!😉
Yes, I'd like to believe that Krishna, atleast by now, knows Creepad better than b4, and would keep an eye on him, just in case he starts putting his new revenge plans into action - after digesting the effects of Krishna's prasad, ofcourse!😆
Well, Arushi IS an immature girl for certain reasons, right? Like, not thinking b4 speaking and being stubborn with her own mother and etc.. Duh! she even throws her tantrums at dadi - remember, when dadi disagreed to send her for comp. classes???
I think that she knows her manners well enough, ie. Me dont thinks her manners towards her ANOKHI Bhabi or ANOKHA Jijaji has got nything to do with her being educated or not or makes her into the ANOKHI educated girl who doesnt know how to behave properly with UNIQUE elders among the in-laws!!! 😆
BUT Arushi can definitely DO with some lessons on 'How to behave properly with the junglee Thakur-in-laws/elders who insults her family right, left and centre and ruined her siblings'lives' or may be on 'How to think before speaking and act nicely, while she is being angry at a certain someone, who after ruining her siblings' lives, is now thinking of getting her a husband!' Yup! That would definitely help her a lot from the expectations of her to jump off a cliff!!!🤣
Edited by limits - 15 years ago