Originally posted by: LoveStruck21
Gosh. Prats & Krishna have really split everyone in this forum up. LoL.
I actually just started watching this show recently, I live in the states, and for some reason we are behind, by a lot. I would come to the forum and realize how far ahead everyone else is, so I started catching up on YouTube. LoL....anyway...
Ok. I feel for both Prats and Krisha, I like both of them, they both have a reason for the way they behave. As for today, what Krishna did was very wrong; I will not defend him in his actions, however, considering where he from (family background) HE didn't think it was wrong. -- Do u honestly think that he never ever felt it was wrong??? Then why does he compare his amma nd bhabi to a tied cow and Pratigya to a sherni??? Wat exactly makes him think that Pratigya is not like his amma or bhabi??? Like Adarsh, I wanted to yell at him, but because Adarsh was raised differently Adarsh saw how wrong his actions were. Like Komal for example, she thought Prats was wrong for talking to the guy as well, and said that Krishna should slap her, I say, when a female says such things about another female, you know that kuch screw to dhila hai. --Ok, So I do find it mostly Adarsh's fault for not even trying to understand Komal coz Adarsh didnt go through ny thing that Pratigya did, not even close and since he was the one who suggested the marriage between him and Komal, he should definitlely be the one to try nd understand Komal!!! Now about Komal, during the first few days in their marriage, I thought Komal was just being a brat...but slowly, I found most of her complaints very reasonable!!! Not reasonable coz she feels bored at that house...But no body smiles (I guess she counts Naina Ji more as the cook then as her mother-in-law, so doesnt care if she is all smiles 😆) at her or even talks to her...I mean ny normal girl would feel awkward in such situation and Komal is so far from normal, so her fuming and not wanting to go back, I find them reasonable!!! Plus, in todays episode, she completely changed my opinion of her...She actually wants Adarsh to like her, even if she doesnt give a damn about his family!!!
I know that Krishna can be refined, if Prats tried, I am sure that she can alter his behaviors, I mean in his family the women get treated like crap. Prats was justified in her anger today, and all the other times I feel that both parties are so stubborn that they refuse to see the others qualms. -I have to agree with u here...Both of them are sooo stubborn! I know its frustrating, but I actually like that about them! 😛! No matter how hard Pratigya tries, Krishna can only change if he WANTS to, coz u see, Krishna is someone who does wat he thinks is right, so if HE doesnt think that the change is RIGHT then, fat chances of him changing!!!...Yes, Pratigya can become a very good reason for whom he will WANT to change...
I don't wish that Prats let go of her dislike of him, however, I think that if she explains to him WHY his actions are not done, it might get through his head a bit more. Like, she should have added in her rant about how 'in love there is trust, and no matter what happens, you are supposed to TRUST your significant other, you inability to do that exemplifies how you don't LOVE me you just want to possess me." --Yaar, didnt u see/hear him cutting her off and saying that he doesnt understand all this??? And Plz, can someone make it clear to me that if I am just imagining things when I see that everytime Pratigya speaks more than a few lines to Krishna, he either gets hurt and angry at her and hurt her physically, or says that - Professorai jhad rahi ho, or like today's episode, says he doesnt understand all this ie nything she says!!!
The family that Kirshna comes from, influences him a lot, and to him what he did was right, because that is what he was brought up with. --Yes it does influence him a lot but he is also capable of making the right choices!!! Remember, even after his family's lowly suggestion to have fun with Pratigya but to never marry her, he CHOSE to marry her???
One thing that I think Prats should do is instead of yelling at him about her opinions, she should try not to sound so bitter and condescending, I feel that if she would say what she needs to in a cooler state of mind she would get her points across to him a bit better. I mean, as crazy as Krishna may be, he doesn't yell at Prats, so for her to alter her tone in such a way when speaking to him won't heed much change. Yes, she is bitter, I understand, Yes she hates his guts, understandable, but considering that you gotta spend your whole life with that behooda, you gotta at least try to figure out how you can get your points across to him without yelling all the time.
Like I said in my some other comments - I think, Krishna has his own editing machine in his brain which deletes all the unpleasant part in Pratigya's speech to him (Most of the time its almost everything she says) and only processes the stuff he wants to hear or see and delivers it to him 🤣...I guess thats wat makes him so immune to nything Pratigya says or does - no matter how she goes on and on that she hates him, he edits it into that she is angry at him...When she goes on and on about why couldnt he have married some one like himself, he deletes most of it nd edits it into - she doesnt like to stay at this place and soon starts to build all sorts of mahals in the air 😆...I mean, if he does listen to her at all, how can he expect her to be all smiles and go out with him when she just told him that he insulted her infront of everyone??? So, on top of having been suffered bcoz of him, how long do u expect her to keep on talking sense into someone who is soo in DENIAL-mode??? Just coz she has to spend the rest of her life with him doesnt make it ny easier on her to tolerate all sorts of humiliations from him and his family!!! And u still expect her to be patient and not yell at him (even though I never thought she was actually yelling at him, she usually seemed on the verge of tears or scared and today she was angry) I mean, if u think that Krishna doesnt yell at her and it was definitely not Krishna but his ghost that was yelling at her in the lobby of the hotel in front of everyone, then I really dont see how u find Pratigya's confrontations as yelling!😕! So, I really think she has no other choice but to give him the silent treatment....Coz, All he expects from her is that how much she loves him so she accepts his rose and hugs him and stay away from foreigners!!!😆😆😆 And since, she can hardly agree with him and found talking to him similar to talking to a wall, wats the point in talking back to him??? I really dont see how Pratigya can talk sense into him unless he decides to stop deleting the unpleasant truths and face reality 😆😆
I feel that Adarsh and Komal might play a big role with Prats and Krishna, because Adarsh WILL NOT treat Komal the way women are treated in the Krishna household, he won't raise his hands, and I think slowly as Komal starts to fall for him, she will tell Krishna about Adarsh and his mannerisms, which might influence him. -- I think if there is nyone who can influence Krishna to want to change himself - Its Pratigya 😃 Cant predict how thats gonna happen until the kidnapping incident is cleared up...:(
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