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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Children in orphanage are briefed of sponsorship and adoption. The older ones definitely.

They are also told that they are going to a new home and most of these kids are quiet and well behaved. They are very formal and also scared that their new home may be missed out if they are not at their best.

But slowly they became like other kids starts putting their thoughts across and like your own child - demanding too.

I feel CVs have shown quite nicely. And please stop being a fault finder. If I can take two ladies pulling a stretcher from first floor then every thing is practical.

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libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012
Children in orphanage are briefed of sponsorship and adoption. The older ones definitely.
They are also told that they are going to a new home and most of these kids are quiet and well behaved. They are very formal and also scared that their new home may be missed out if they are not at their best.

But slowly they became like other kids starts putting their thoughts across and like your own child - demanding too.

I feel CVs have shown quite nicely. And please stop being a fault finder. If I can take two ladies pulling a stretcher from first floor then every thing is practical.

There is something known as assumption n realtiy...whatever you is nothing than our assumptions...we are assuming that Amol alreay knows about AnSh n his new family members...we are assuming that he is just quiet becoz of new surrounding but we don't know what the truth is...if they can waste their time in showing what Saanchi feels about adoption n her feelings about every issue than why don't we get to see complete thinking of AnSh n other character...why is everything based on our assumptions that AnSh being responsible they must have talked about all angles of adoption, Amol must have understood everything and he is just being shy...and if such important things are being shown as assumptions than why can't they let viewers assume that Saanchi is not happy with adoption and not actually show her thought process n even her involvment in those tracks

I know i am being a fault finder but as a viewer i won't sit down and analyize every character's thoguht process n come to my conclusion based on my assumpitons...i would want the serial to show it properly to me specially if the serial has taken the responsibility of passing some message to the viewers with their tracks

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libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012
Children in orphanage are briefed of sponsorship and adoption. The older ones definitely.
They are also told that they are going to a new home and most of these kids are quiet and well behaved. They are very formal and also scared that their new home may be missed out if they are not at their best.

But slowly they became like other kids starts putting their thoughts across and like your own child - demanding too.

I feel CVs have shown quite nicely. And please stop being a fault finder. If I can take two ladies pulling a stretcher from first floor then every thing is practical.

i know how a adopted child behaves in new house n i did not even expect Amol to start laughing n smiling but since they never showed us anything about Amol getting to know AnSh being his adopted parents i will assume that he is not only shy but maybe also confused with what is happening in KB

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857839

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Libs - I have told what I have felt and there is nothing to you so why r u getting irritated.

I really do not have an assumption on adoption because I have faced the reality.

So you guys can live with your thoughts.

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tanvismile

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Shinya

I hated the way they showed a child being gifted to a couple as if that child was a lifeless thing. 😡

This is certainly not the way adoption takes place. There are so many formalities to be completed before the child is handed over to the couple...

And the child as big as Amol is given to understand that he will be living with his new parents.

Though the CVs message to the masses was noble, they spoilt it by making it look as if the children in the orphanage are like toys to be gifted to anyone who show desire in adopting them. ...😡😡 just hated it..😡

I agree with you,cvs have lacked on lot of issues ,it certanly looks like amol is lke a gift or toy,there was no touch or feel to it,watch other shows like yeh hain mohabatein,children have so much in them ,here amol is shown like a plain gift package,as a viewer ,i can see it but cannot connect to the emotions

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angelic8219

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Shinya

I hated the way they showed a child being gifted to a couple as if that child was a lifeless thing. 😡

This is certainly not the way adoption takes place. There are so many formalities to be completed before the child is handed over to the couple...

And the child as big as Amol is given to understand that he will be living with his new parents.

Though the CVs message to the masses was noble, they spoilt it by making it look as if the children in the orphanage are like toys to be gifted to anyone who show desire in adopting them. ...😡😡 just hated it..😡

I also hated the gifting part, only thing missing on amol was a bow and a gift tag! Decision was too quick they should have spent time with amol before adoption instead of catapulting the kid into the deep end without knowing whether the kid would be able to adjust to his new parents considering he only met them once.

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Vidya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.
I think Amol is confused. He's probably got several questions in his head like :-
Why did my new dad's dad get excited all of a sudden in the party?
Why does my new mommy not dress up normally like others do?
This is already the second function that's happening since i'm here, do these people have a frigging life other than celebrating?
What does Sanchi aunty do when she's not boozing?
and many more Q's in his little head as each day passes! No wonder he looks so confused😭

@bold - that was hilarious

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642126

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Amol's a grown boy, old enough to have his own thinking and feelings. I think he was confused and trying to make sense of all that was happening around him. He's lived in the orphanage for so long and suddenly his environment has changed. It will take time to sink in.

I feel AnSh should have first kept visiting him to develop a bond with him so that he was at least comfortable with them. He's met them only once!

I also feel Shiv should have informed everybody about Amol's arrival. Others' shocked and unexpected reactions must have also made Amol feel awkward.

CVs simply rushed in this one. As if adopting kids was like picking desired gifts from a shop or getting a new pet!

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