Is Radha really wrong to behave this way?

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SailorMoonStar

@SailorMoonStar

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

We know how wrong and aweful she is behaving because we know the truth, but she doesn't. She doesn't know the truth that Gopi wants her welfare, and you really can't blame her to think like that. Gopi supported Rashi and humiliated her and slapped her and kicked her out of the house when Rashi was at fault. Anyone would think Gopi is a mean sister to them. Radha also knew how Gopi hated Umang and she thinks she killed him and of course she will behave very rudely to Gopi and Koki. The only unjust things in her eyes I saw was when she refused the rest of the family to come to the hospital.

I'm not saying I'm on Radhas side though.

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Xarina

@Xarina

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 12 years ago

I can see where you are coming from and you do have a few good points. Radha may not see the concern that Gopi has for her but one needs to ask if it is Radha's nature to be confrontational all the time? Umaang must have seen the cracks in Radha's life to take advantage of her. Did she miss out on her parents' love all the while they were missing? Is that why she so readily craved the attention that Umaang gave her? All said and done I still have no affinity for Radha's character.

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Rainbowcatxo

@Rainbowcatxo

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

I understand what you mean that it's not really Radha's fault that she thinks that Gopi killed Umang (in some ways). The only reason Radha thinks this however, is that Gopi had always despised Umang (although she was right to despise him) and Gopi had even admitted she had killed Umang. And also Gopi had always supported Rashi when Rashi was at fault. Gopi did punish Radha for her mistakes even though it was Rashi's fault at the start (I do like Rashi sometimes but I agree that she did many crimes). However, I do not support Radha for thinking Gopi killed her ''amazing'' husband, Umang. In a way Radha is right for thinking Gopi killed her husband but the truth is, that Gopi always wanted Radha to be safe away from harm. Gopi really cares for Radha and forbidden her to marry Umang only because Gopi didn't want Radha's life to get spoiled. Radha does not know how much Gopi loves Radha, how much she could sacrifice her life to Radha. Because of Umang and Gopi's rudeness towards Radha (because Gopi supported Rashi an amount of numerous times) Radha was fully devoted to Umang which made it easy for Umang to take advantage of that. I honestly think that Radha in a way is right to think that Gopi killed her husband because of what I mentioned earlier. But then again, Radha is wrong to think that her own sister, Gopi would try to kill Umang when really Gopi loves and cares for Radha a lot.

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ANJ4

@ANJ4

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

we all know gopi did not kill umang ... and I don't think that umang is dead ... tripi is not upset at all

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 12 years ago

it is no fault of Radha that she behaved that way... it's her husband who is murdered...wat else one should expect her going nd hugging Gopi and tell her well done Gopi behen!!!! she have every right to react the way she did... She dnt know the truth about Umang so when she know defo she will repent... For her Umang is her loving caring hubby... so this reaction is expected... plus from start Gopi was against this relation... For Radha well Gopi was never a good sister... when she needed her all Gopi did was blame Radha and kicked her out...

I didnt like the way Koki reacted towards Radha... what reaction did she expect from Radha??? If it was Ahem in Umang's place and if it was Gopi in place of Radha will she react this way... for cryn out loud Radha lost her husband she is widowed...

she have every right to tell them to stay out of their life...

all said i dnt think Gopi murdered Umang... if at all he died for sure it is not done by Urmi... Gopi might have seen Urmi near Umang's dead body and thought her mami did it and decided to take the blame herself...

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Xarina
I can see where you are coming from and you do have a few good points. Radha may not see the concern that Gopi has for her but one needs to ask if it is Radha's nature to be confrontational all the time? Umaang must have seen the cracks in Radha's life to take advantage of her. Did she miss out on her parents' love all the while they were missing? Is that why she so readily craved the attention that Umaang gave her? All said and done I still have no affinity for Radha's character.

@ bold i do think she missed out her parents love and care esp her mom's... well it is clear that Radha is born aftr they lost Gopi and this time her Mom also is not mentally stable so then she wouldnt have got love and care she would hv gottn at young age... and when she come back and unite with Gopi that time Gopi dnt act like an ideal sister so when Umang showered her with love she believed it...

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Simi0808

@Simi0808

Explorer

Posted: 12 years ago

Rashi is the root cause of all this mess. She made Radha stay in MB so she could get an aaya as she referred to her. Then did the whole Swayamji thing which prompted Radha to get revenge. This ruined Gopi and Radha's relationship (although Gopi acted quite foolishly herself) and Radha had to look outside for love. If you see from Radha's perspective she's completely justified in her rage. I have honestly never understood Kokila. Did she expect Radha to thank Gopi for killing her husband whom she considers to be a gem.