Sandhya's feelings while going for training

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After watching 3 days epi and seeing Sandhya's emotions one thing I can say. Hats off to CVs for bringing out the dilemma of a married and ambitious woman. I could very well relate to her. When she said my dream has remained same , but situation has changed. Then in the train to Sooraj please dont be sad . you dont look good while sad.
All this reflected the contradictions. How much she wanted the dream, but at the same time seperation from the husband is heartbreaking and the concern will my husband be sad without me.
Pouring oil to the fire is people like Meena who says how can she go away leaving her husband, I will not do that. Creating more guilt. Woman like Meena can never even aspire at Sandhya's level and because of that they tried to create guilt in woman like Sandhya.
In the situation like Sandhya's partner's support is of utmost importance. Only if he becomes her strength she can proceed. A man understanding his wife's innermost needs will be able to asaauge her fears and stand by her exactly the way Sooraj did.
And exactly the way my husband did when he sent me away for 1 month training to Chennai 😃. Last week's epi bought back those memories to me. It was just about after 1 year of my marriage. After marriage I had never stayed away from my husband. I was selected for a training from my org and I was very excited as only 15 people from my entire team of 250 was selected for it. When I asked my husband he agreed and told me to go. But as the days of departure came nearer I was as emotional as Sandhya. I wanted to go, but didnt wanted to leave him. He was also feeling a little down as he has also not stayed away from me even for a day post marriage. Day before departure I really sat and cried. But he sat near me, gave me strength, forced me to look at positives, told me he is very proud of having such a capable wife in short really built my confidence that even being away from him for a month I really didnt feel away and completed the training successfully 😃

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Mariaaly thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@shruthi g You're are the real life Sandhya must say! 😊
Nice post !!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Surya brings out our real
life memories!!!

Nice post Shruthi
I too have so many like thisšŸ˜‰
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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice thread sruthi ji.
one more surya in our forum.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I cant even compare myself to Sandhya. My struggles were much less😃. But yes because I have felt life with a supportive partner I can relate to her. To any girl who is thinking of walking down the aisle only thing I can say is when you are choosing choose a guy you can respect. Whether it is love or arranged whatever be the case if you can respect your partner and if your partner respects you other things fall in place. Love will come where respect is there. But if respect is not there the day the initial attraction dies out, love will also walk out of the window.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice to knw shruthi
agree with you.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice Post Shruthi chechi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you everyone for liking it

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