Will you avoid a guy whom you rejected?

I've noticed a disturbing trend with all 5 girls I've approached. After rejecting me, they avoid me at all costs.

The 3 girls I approached in the gym left the gym the next day onwards.

The girl who used to come to my college never accepted my FB request.

Another one avoided picking up my phone calls and turned off her phone the time I called. Right now I think she avoids looking at me even (especially when I've gone more thin) and appears to avoid talking to me.

So is this true:Will you avoid a guy whom you rejected?

I've a theory -- they think I'll stick to them and force the relationship, but I can't do that cause I've no questions to ask; I'm a quiet guy. I suck big time thinking of things to talk about.

Also it was very clear that I was not sticking cause after 2 or 3 questions and after realizing that she's not sustaining the conversation, I don't ask any questions anymore, nor I make any new approaches.

bro your approach is flawed. if you like a girl give yourself 9 days.. and pace yourself. its like fishing.. allow me to teach you how to fish

@TroubleShooter

See naturally, the kind of things that I do is similar to yours.

I wait for a week, unless the girl gives me a chance to talk. The 'familiar' process.

Then I somehow start talking to her. If she rejects (she's not sustaining a conversation), I stop noticing her or starting a conversation with her cause I've lost all interest (as you said -- ignore, that's what I'm doing but naturally, not pretending).

I usually ask 2 or 3 questions.

Your approach is too much work. Then I got an attitude and ego problem -- I simply refuse to stick around a girl who rejected me (unless they start talking). I'm like "Ok, you reject me, very well, I reject you too".

I simply cannot stick, I rather stay single.

Originally posted by: ..Ashraa..

Yes..I will!! Definitely!

Ok, now it makes sense. Thanks!

ofcourse will avoid ...😆

Ok, any particular reason why will you girls do that?

You know that 1 beautiful girl I approached, she came back, and this time with a guy company, possible to avoid an encounter with me me.

She greets me with a cold smile.

Originally posted by: dating_mystery

You know that 1 beautiful girl I approached, she came back, and this time with a guy company, possible to avoid an encounter with me me.

She greets me with a cold smile.

I've to say she's a very brave girl. She's absolutely not afraid to encounter me. Today she went next to me on the tread mill. Confident girl.

No, I won't unless the guy is comfortable with me. Suppose, my best friend proposes me and I don't feel the same way for him, but am I supposed to break our friendship, sorry, I can't do that because it hurts.

Originally posted by: Surabhi_G

No, I won't unless the guy is comfortable with me.

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it depends upon d person. Dat who the person he is. Well i'll not avoid till d tym i dnt feel ki its nt good to talk. N wid ego prb u cant have a healthy relation. Only i can say it deponds upon person n d his nature. Ya bt i hate talking to cheap ppls.