Why is this such a big deal?

Shiv is Meenu's son...so what? why make mountain out of a molehill? Meenu is their family only...and he is their legitimate son..not like nazayaz or something humiliating...also he loves Meenu as much as his mother...Meenu to loves him and Anandi...in fact she always stood by Anandi instead of Ira...Shiv loves Anandi so he should consider these points too and not feel dejected...why is he not able to forgive alok? why do they say that rishtey bikhar gaye? kaise? i don't understand a all!

even i do not understand why shiv ira is angry with alok ..afterall he do this for ira life or alok should have told ira u have another miscarriage and let ira die ?? and other thing though alok requested cm to give shiv alok is always grateful to cm for this .

anoop also cheated here mother is really diff from chotima shiv is angry bcoz he cannot do th e rights as 1st beta when his dad shown 2 dead if u call 30 yrs one lady chotima how its take time 2 called her ma and the relation with ira will be affcted

Rites ki hi padi hain toh...Alok, Ira, Meenu hain na! He can perform their rites when time comes...For 30 yrs he has been Alok and Ira's son so after knowing the truth he should not start alienate from them...after all it is the same family...and Ma aur Choti ma mein kya rakkha hain? there is ma in choti ma too...also he has always loved her as his mother only...then why such a big fuss?

Well obviosuly it's a big thing...first Shiv came to know he is adopted and then he realized that his own father has lied to him...as if all this wasn't enough he came to know that he is Meenu's son which means he is Mahi's real brother and Alok had blackmailed Meenu to give Shiv to Ira...anyone would be angry...no one can be happy and feel grateful for what Alok had done...had Shiv been orphan it would not have matter much but now it turns out he is not only Meenu's son but his mother was actually forced part form her own son...he was treated like a an object and even now he is being treated like an object...it's a not a big deal if Alok has loved Shiv so much becoz he himself had asked for Shiv and Shiv's real mother happened to be right under the same roof...Ira was lied about her first child...do you think after all the truth would Ira find it easy to love Shiv just the way she used to and would it be easy for Shiv to call Meenu 'Chotima' even after knowing that she is actually his mother...even if for good Alok had broken trust of his wife and Shiv... all this is big deal

Originally posted by: Luvchoc

Rites ki hi padi hain toh...Alok, Ira, Meenu hain na! He can perform their rites when time comes...For 30 yrs he has been Alok and Ira's son so after knowing the truth he should not start alienate from them...after all it is the same family...and Ma aur Choti ma mein kya rakkha hain? there is ma in choti ma too...also he has always loved her as his mother only...then why such a big fuss?

my dear in this case it's not mountain out of molehill it's actually mountain out of mountain,

Originally posted by: Luvchoc

Shiv is Meenu's son...so what? why make mountain out of a molehill? Meenu is their family only...and he is their legitimate son..not like nazayaz or something humiliating...also he loves Meenu as much as his mother...Meenu to loves him and Anandi...in fact she always stood by Anandi instead of Ira...Shiv loves Anandi so he should consider these points too and not feel dejected...why is he not able to forgive alok? why do they say that rishtey bikhar gaye? kaise? i don't understand a all!

if we see from shiv's pov then ofcourse its a big deal how will we feel one fine day if we get to know our parents r not our real parent and our dear uncle aunt r our parent? We will get hurt and will be upset no matter how much we love them. But i am agree with the point of TM how sare ristey bikhar jayenge? Cvs hv projected this the way as if some horrible and more dramatic twist is waiting as if shiv is a terrorist and minu's illegitimate son lol

I think Ira's anger is justified because she was shown some other kid as her own and she never knew the truth of her baby. Also now she may feel less important to shiv than Meenu.

But Shiv need not be so upset. I mean itna zyaada dikhane wali koi baat nahi. No relationship has changed for him. Maa jise bola woh badi maa hojayegi and choti maa maa. Isme itna kya hai😕? He is not illegimate child or thrown away by the mother like he was fearing. Maybe right now he is confused and thats why reacting like that. Shiv has to handle Ira's insecurities now of he not being her real son, i think.