is TB mirror image of JP for Jw?a thought

a very important aspect of proposed J-B-T triangle was mouthed by Jigs in day before yesterday's episode which i forgot to mention in my update😭

she thinks that the hurt and jealousy of jai walia to see Tarun and Bani together is rooted from his own deeds.

he is more insecure cause he has comitted the adultery. now we all know what exactly happened but though intentions can be crystal clean, the act remains there forever.

he is scared that Bani would dwell into same. at the same time, he is sure of his wife and her deeds...does that sound like confusion????

why would Jai walia be scared of a mere skunk if the above stated theory is wrong???

why werent he thoughful when Bani and Pushkar were proven having an affair in more explicit terms than TB???

if Jai walia could go to court and vouch for his wife's character and beliefs, then whats wrong now??? and here i would like to mention that he was also sure of Pushkar. not for a minute that he thought of them having affair..then why tarun??? afterall Pooch was "duckling under his wings" but Tarun is "jigari Yaar" whom he trusted to be with Bani in Divorce-alimony fiasco...

then from where exactly this insecuirty and hence jealousy roots from???

do you think jigs is correct in saying that its JW's own deeds that are forcing him to think the other way???

Himmy

Himali,

A very good question. I think the reason that he did not every suspect Bani and Pushkar was that he knew they were best friends and he has always seen their closeness. Also Pushkar is Pia's husband and he knows that Bani would kill herself before doing anything to harm her sisters. Also till the pics in the courtroom he had never seen any evidence or heard of any potential enttanglements between Bani and PUshkar and Pushkar had in no way ever done anything inappropriate with Bani. So I think he knew it was a trick of Jiggy in the court.

Now I think the case with Tarun is that he has seen how Tarun has pushed for a seperation between JB and told JW that he would do anything to stop every step that Bani takes towards JW. JW has seen the possesiveness of Tarun towrds Bani. Pushkar was never like that. Also the fact that Tarun said no to the marriage and he loves a maaried woman is raising suspicion in his mind. also Tarun does not seem happy with the reconciliation. As I said in another post that JW even thinking Bani loves osmeone else is ludicrous but he surely does not trust Tarun. So his reactions in the future will be interesting. I don't hink his action in regards to Pia is making him question Bani any more than he ussually would do.

Also till the pics in the courtroom he had never seen any evidence or heard of any potential enttanglements between Bani and PUshkar and Pushkar had in no way ever done anything inappropriate with Bani.

megs,
i think BP angle was much more emphasised than TB. Jai had all the reasons to suspect bani and pushkar and i dont mean only photos by that.
Poochy was practically bani's shadow in those days and if i am not wrong he was going through a broken marriage as well.
but jai didnt suspect not only bani but also pushkar..

somehow he cant trust Tarun that way/

Him
I believe they way we perceive things are dictated by our own set standards. Thus it would not be wrong to say that if I was capable of overstepping my boundaries I cannot expect my partner to stay within. Some partners in real life, do overstep the boundary as well in such circumstances. But at the end of the day the deciding factor is one's own set moral codes.
I believe there is no physical relationship (including hugging) between JB yet. Yes, they have decided to give their relationship another chance but that physical part which is another expression of love is still missing from the equation. Had they expressed their love through physical intimacy, I doubt this thought would linger on his mind. But of course, I will not dismiss Tarun's declaration of being in love with a married woman as having no role in suspecting TB and I hope the creatives make him suspect Tarun rather than Bani of being in active pursuit.

I agree with u Himali that JW had more reasons to suspect Bani for Pooch's case, and even after he got to know that Bani was once in love with Pushkar didnt make him loose his trust towards her, but now he is feeling insecured! He knows that Bani is not that kind, but Tarun's behaviour is making him feel so. His best friend wasn't happy with J&B's re-union and also she was the reason behind this rift! The reason for JW's insecurity is more because
1) As Jigs said his own misdeeds have made him feel it. He feels that when he wronged her, she might do it in anger or in emotions that my spouse has betrayed me and at that time u tend to go for more emotional support (its his own experience, even though he was drugged, he feels the reason he went back to Pia's room was as he was emotionally broke at that time).
2) As Tarun is supposed to JW's friend first and then Bani's. And he is suspecting his friend as he wasn't happy seeing Bani forgive JW and also Tarun fought with Jai only for her pains and he being a friend overlooked what JW actually went thru! But Pushkar never behaved this way
I hope I made some sense! Just my thoughts

Hims
A good question. Yes Jigs termed JW's the nature of his thoughts very
well. He is feeling insecure thus jealous bc he has unwillingly crossed the
line(I don't know if Jigs is aware that he was drugged and rpd). His
thinking of course would change in terms of that. And JB are working on
getting bck together but are still physically distance from each other.
This will take time. He is right in suspecting Tarun bc Tarun is more of a
wordly charcter than Pooch. He never suspected Pooch and Bani bc he
was aware that Bani would never cross the line with her own sisters
husband, however now aftr wht Repto did to Him and Bani, I am sure he
would think that there is no sister involved so Bani being betrayed and
hurt by JP--But again he has to think that Bani's moral makeup is not
similar to repto. So, here the wrters have to emphasize his insecurities
regarding Tarun and keep his faith intact in Bani. Unless, he witnesses
smthing like TB in a compromising position (a setup) then JW will blow up
big time.
(Insecurity and Jealousy will eventually lead him to doubt the object of his
affection-Bani bc their relationship as it stands currently is strained and
frgile and the looming repto frog hovering above their heads is no small
issue. They are close but the physical part isn't there. I think they are
setting up for a scenario where JW will doubt Bani-but he won't let her go
easily--I think it'll be more thoughts to himself)

just some thoughts

himmu...

Very good question...

During divorce case even after seeing B-P pic sin rather hatkae pose munna did trust bani coz he has seen B-P frienship growing and more is the point Pushkar is pia's hubby adn he knows that bani considers pia as her daughter and remember he did tells that he would never doubt her integrity and tells that bani can never go or do something against her sisters so basically it was his trust abt bani relationship with her sisters rather than his and bani's.
Now scenario is different...he did cross marraige boundaries so its very human to think adn feel insecure that way.
Plus here how much he is trying to brush off those thts situations are forcing him to think in that way...bani lying and ending up with skunk at the same time and this growing friendship and moreover TS behaviour during entire post ONS are just adding to his turmoil.

excellent post himmy.. 👏
Jigs may be right that since Jai has stepped outside the boundaries of his marriage (however intoxicated or drugged her was) he has this guilt in him(all the more reason for the DNA reports and the unedited video to come out)

As far his suspicions for Pooch and Bani go...everyone has done an excellent job of reasoning his behavior. He knew Bani would never do anything to hurt Pia (even though Pia was not with Pooch at that time)

But with Tarun it is entirely different.
1. Tarun has declared to a number of people that he is in love with a married woman (Jai also knows)
2. Tarun did not support Jai during the whole ONS fiasco, not even when Jai wanted to explain to Tarun that he does not remember anything.
3. Tarun instigated the family and Bani against Jai at any and every opportnity he had.
4. Tarun confronted Bani in front of Jai about Jai being back in WM.
5. Tarun confronted Jai about his presence in WM and Bani's life
6. Tarun challenged him that he will make sure Bani is not hust by Jai again (whatever he said at that time)

This is everything that Jai knows. Plus he has seen all the lovey looks that Tarun bestows upon Jai's pregnant wife.

Jai however has maintained that he does not doubt Bani (except the stupid dialogue yesterday...u know which one). And I bet the closeness that his wife shares with Tarun along with the secrecy is not helping his case.

So all the things that he has seen coupled with his guilt is making him doubt Tarun (not Bani yet but soon). In Pooch's case, he never saw anythign between Bani and Pooch that would make him wonder (everythign was told by others) and he did the right thing of not believing what he has not seen or heard.

But this idiot Tarun 😡 and duffer Bani have not only given visual clues but also audio clues to cause him to suspect...
I dont blame Jai one bit for his suspicion...except for maybe he should not compare his deeds with what Bani can do... 😕

Rivs

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

first of all thanks a lot for all the nice updates
fantastic jokes and ofcourse intelligent viewpoints/projections ...

a very important aspect of proposed J-B-T triangle was mouthed by Jigs in day before yesterday's episode which i forgot to mention in my update

she thinks that the hurt and jealousy of jai walia to see Tarun and Bani together is rooted from his own deeds.

he is more insecure cause he has comitted the adultery. now we all know what exactly happened but though intentions can be crystal clean, the act remains there forever.

he is scared that Bani would dwell into same. at the same time, he is sure of his wife and her deeds...does that sound like confusion????

why would Jai walia be scared of a mere skunk if the above stated theory is wrong???

for him he is not "skunk" , he is a capable wakilBabu who is if gud enough for Lachhu then also for bani too

he is the person who listened his side of explaination but behaved in worst possible way (i agree massi score far worst wid her shraadh act)

why werent he thoughful when Bani and Pushkar were proven having an affair in more explicit terms than TB???

the relation BP share is more long standing and developed organically not in a day like TB

if Jai walia could go to court and vouch for his wife's character and beliefs, then whats wrong now??? and here i would like to mention that he was also sure of Pushkar. not for a minute that he thought of them having affair..then why tarun??? afterall Pooch was "duckling under his wings" but Tarun is "jigari Yaar" whom he trusted to be with Bani in Divorce-alimony fiasco...

yep JW trusted skunk to be wid bani during alimony-fiasco but skunk was expresively against bani all those time and told JW not to suffer for a girl but suddenly he has taken a complete U-turn and instead of tryin to reconcile them ,he instigated bani (remember "yeh jai yaha kya kar raha hai , kisse puchkar ??" i hate him for tht )

then from where exactly this insecuirty and hence jealousy roots from???

jealousy/insecurity is main constituent of "Ur my wife goddamnit"hubby

do you think jigs is correct in saying that its JW's own deeds that are forcing him to think the other way???

isnt he calculated vry exact tht like reptile used him may he tht skunk may be playin games wid his munni.this is the real similarity b/w JP and TB , P pushed herself in-b/w JB and same is being done by skunk

Himmy

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sorry to all friends on IF/ks forum tht i never felt to comment becoz i thought tht does not matters to

but i promise will post my view "regularly".......

sorry once again