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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sorry guyies for spoiling ur mood...but i didnt enjoyed yesterday epi like i thought i will..


Firstly about golu..awwieee he looked uber cute while trying to gain attention of Priya..coughing scene nd how cutely he said why should i sleep on bed..i can sleep on floor.. nd then its so hard nd how ppl sleeps on this.. 🤣 ..nd Priya's tear nd his pout wala hurt exp nd convo with Vik...i just loved this whole scene..beautifully done ⭐️

Now coming to main post..why i didnt enjoyed the epi?

Plainly bcoz of Priya's outburst on Ram.. I m so confused nd found these points plz help me understand if only i felt them or anyone else too felt same..

For me it was too much.. she didnt have to shout on him like that infront of whole family nd kids.. She could have given cold stare to him nd left from there but once after getting into room she could have said whatever she want nd fought witn him as much as she want..

She said he is teaching kids that it is ok to lie but what she did by shouting at him infront of everyone like this? What she is teaching by this that is it ok to shout at someone infront of all?

She said what r u saying if somebody cant take the truth u should lie..( she said something like this i dont remember exactly)..Is he really wrong in this? I dont think so bcoz the reason behind hiding Pihu's truth from him is this only by her that he cant handle it...so why rule got change now..if she can hide bcoz she think he cant handle it then why cant he?😕
Then why she is so much angry?( I m not saying what he did was right but after her dailogues in yest night's outburst i m thinking was he really wrong? Bcoz she is doing same now)

Whats the difference btw what he did nd what she is doing now?

She said firstly he made fun of her infront of all nd now of her feelings..so today i found more than hurt she is feeling insulted nd her EGO is hurt..

Till wednesday's epi i was saying she is badly hurt nd told same to my frnd to which she said no main reason is her EGO got hurt nd we had debate on same...after yesterday epi i m feeling may be she is right nd i m wrong..

If somebody understands whts this exactly plz let me know too..bcoz its bothering me so much..


P.S.. Its not a RK fan v/s ST fan war ground..i shared with u all what i felt..so healthy discussion is most welcome nd plz refrain from indulging into any fight..it solely based on the dialogues of yest epi..nothing personal..

Do share what u felt.. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sorry forgot to mention about RK's SRK act nd about Precap..do i really want to say anything or how u all can understand.. 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree somehow n can understand how u feeling because when priya said this 'lie thing' to ram... Me too I was a bit confused because she too... She is hiding pihu secrets...
Her shouting with Ram infront of all was just the pain coming out which is within her since she come to know the man she trusted the most n love the most... has betrayed her..
N she is not hurt only because Ram hide the truth from her but also because Ram agreed to marry juhi...
She trusted him in all the big n small things coming infront of her but the marrying juhi truth hurt her a lot...n she start connecting... Naina adoption... Her divorce n juhi loves for ram n she feel like a fool...
N now again when she found out the party is all a lie again she just react like that as she is being fooled again...n she clearly told Ram if he can make a mistake he should have the daring to amend it himself without involving a third person...
N frankly speaking me too I want Ram to deal with this situation alone n maturely not this childish act with everyone helping him... He has to stand alone fight with it n get his wife love n trust back..
N as a woman I can understand priya's pain... It's not easy to accept that ur husband divorce u n agree to marry someone else for whatever reason... Priya anger, pain n frustration can b justified...
My post is not to hurt anyone..I just post what I feel.
Am a proud ST proud fan but when she is wrong I accept she is wrong...
In short her shouting with ram in front of all there is nothing wrong because whatever Ram did was not in closed room too...
But yes her saying that if someone can't handle the truth so u lie is not acceptable as she doesn't have the right to say this to ram because she too, she is hiding pihu's big secret...from Ram.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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However stupid Ram's plan was, Priya's outburst at Ram in front of their children is wrong. She could have shouted at him in private. Insulting a father, especially in front of his children is a big no. Priya who always tells everyone what is right and wrong in terms of behaviour should have know better, however hurt or angry she is. Ram did not deserve to hear that from Priya in public. Especially since his intentions were not wrong. I also agree, Priya too is hiding Pihu's secret. Wonder how this will come out and what the reaction will be.

Edited by SuganthiS - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think initially she was hurt about the lies and she was hurt that he broke her trust... But yes definitely her ego has been hurt too.

I agree about the Pihu thing... Situations are different, it's not the same thing but the fact that she is hiding it from him and lying to him... Makes her no differnt from him... Maybe when he finds out he'll get angry... And then she will have to woo him
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hi all,

I think Priya's outburst was entirely justified. The whole family and Ram seem to take her feelings too lightly. It is horrible to wake up one day from coma and suddenly realize that your family and your husband( who professes to love you) completely replace you. Let us not forget all the horrible things Ram said to Priya ,and in front of the ,family no less, when she got back from Dubai. It took him months to forgive her and now he expects her to let go in a matter of hours. I think the question Priya should ask him is this: "if you were the only one who believed I woudl come back one day, how is it that you were prepared to move on with another woman?" If Sid was okay to marry now, how come he wasn't good enough then? Imagine if Priya had woken up after the wedding, what then? Golu has a lot to answer for and he is taking Priya for granted and expecting too much from her. Nobody under the circumstances would forgive a spouse so easily.Priya has already shown more understanding than normal. She is right, Golu just doesn't get it. The beauty of their relationship is such that he needs her to understand matters of the heart. Together they will find a way to overcome the pain. That is the journey we can all look forward to.
That said, I love Golu Ram and am enjoying him trying to pacify Priya :)

Cheers!

Kay
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ram's plan was as he thought "fool-proof". Sadly only to himself b'coz there are too many jobless fools loitering around. However, agreed that it may not have been the best plan in town, but him reciting melted her for that time frame. You could see it.

Priya shouting on Ram, I think was a bit of both wrong and acceptable. Wrong b'coz obviously she could have screamed her head off in the room. It would have atleast given Ram some extra mileage which didn't happen. It's also acceptable b'coz the WHOLE family knows the truth, so what is there to hide? They obviously knew this was coming, just that Priya chose to walk out previously and this time she lost her fuse completely.

As for why Priya is hurt, I think she is trying to fathom how her trust was shattered by a mere friend's custody drama. Like really, Ram couldn't find any other option than marrying? I don't expect her to turn a new page overnight especially in the environment of KM. Ram had his RIGHT time knocking thrice on his door, yet he chanced his luck for one more. There it went right into Priya's lap. So now, time for the long-haul test match.

Edited by Saabi45 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have slightly different views than urs.. I think priya was right yesterday.. What she meant is don't take help of other lie to support ur lie which is right.. I know Ram had valid reason behind hiding that truth but I dont think she is angry on this thing.. Main reason must be she could have been single if ram had married Juhi and She woke up only after that had happened...
Even we could't have excuse if Ram had done this.. So she is stating worng reason for her anger but actual reason must be She was aba to lose her Mrs Ram Kapoor status if she was late by second in coming out of Come..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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One parent should not shout at another parent in front of the children...this is a rule to be followed in the real world too. Children who see one parent shouting at another, tend to lose respect for the authority of the parent. I think the parenting book also says that parents must not air their differences in front of the children. And Priya who has a rule book about the right and wrong behaviour, the right and wrong thing to do...should have followed it herself. Insulting her husband or ex-husband or a man who meant or still means the world to her in a room full of people is not right. When Ram raises his voice to Priya...he's a villain. But when Priya does it, she has justification...not fair.

When Priya was giving the lecture about hiding...I wanted to ask her, "Isn't it the pot calling the kettle black?" It doesn't matter how much of a difference there is in what they each have hidden...you don't lecture someone when you are doing the same thing. Even if it's Priya's hurt or ego speaking...she should have controlled her anger and walked off from there and lectured Ram in their room. Of course, I am sure this will come back to bite Priya in the future. I wonder if Ram will get a chance to ask Priya the question..."If I hid something, didn't you also do the same?"
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Viru darling sad mato ho yaar
I kne wthis was coming i told u na i have a feeling that Ram's plan will flop and she may humilate Ram infront of everyone wahi hua
I didnt get why she was so rude for thaskit thing kya jhoot sikha raha tha ram bacho ko?kids are not 5 yr olds they are mature enough to understand what ram meant to do
Kush said he cant see raya like this so it means he did this to get them loser isme jhoot ki kya baat hain?uss hisab se priya ne kitne baar natak kiya dat stupid divorce drama and then with sowmya
She could have seen that all the kids and ram are trying to make her happy but Sigh
Regarding hiding the truth he was hiding for priyas health she was hiding coz she thinks ram cant handle it But sunna humesha ram ko hi padega he is the scape goat ghum fira ke baat ram pe hi aati hain aur end mein ussi ko galat sabit karathe hain
P.S: Ek baat bataun if what priya said to ram if ram would have told na u know how the forum would be
ek post by paaji ji with his fav words what kid of a man he his?does he really love priya?NO
he is a MCP Balh Blah.
some few more posts on ram bashing him ofcourse
and one paaka post of some one "Bring rajat back"😆
Difference Yahan ke logon ke soch mein bhi hain viru
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